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Caley Steele

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CALEY ELIZABETH STEELE

May 6, 1988 - May 18, 2021

It is with heavy hearts we announce my baby girl Caley passed away on May 18th, 2021, at our home in lac du Bonnet. at the young age of 33 years. 

 

Caley is survived by her loving parents Evelyn & Alexander Steele; three sisters, Wanda Lemkay Draper (Cam), Mila Lemkay, and Krista Kielbusiewicz (Dominik); nieces, Dakkota and Kennedy Draper; as well as nephews, Matthew Draper, and Kendrick Lemkay.

 

Caley was predeceased by her niece Mckenzie Draper; cousin Lynn Miller; grandparents, James and Catherine Steele, as well as Elizabeth and Jake Friesen; her dear aunties Catherine Miller, Irene Carriere; and uncles Ken Miller and Julian Carriere.

 

Caley was born in St Boniface hospital with club feet and went through many operations; she was told she could never play sports. Despite this, she played soccer, one of her passions with the St. Norbert Raiders; she and her mates won countless silver and gold medals. But her feet started to hurt, and the coach put her in as a goalie which she was a natural at, she shone like a diamond in goal, I never missed not one practice nor game for many years.

 

that first year a s goalie St. Norbert not only won the gold medal for the summer, but gold in children hospital foundation, and for the first time she played in winter indoor soccer. She guarded that net like a lioness, you entered her crease she would knock you silly and of course we got red flagged but it did not matter, for with Caley in goal we had a secret, she never kicked the ball down the pitch she threw it like a football, almost to the other end! Our forwards would head up field and the other team did not even know the ball was gone. The soccer association sent us up to the A division, for we won every game. It came down to the last game with Gateway Soccer Club, penalty shots and Caley would come out of the crease and strip the ball away we won the gold medal, she was so proud. These memories I am sure her soccer friends remember with great joy.

 

I had to work evenings so I looked after Caley for 5 years, and every day at nap time I would read her favourite story, Trip Tumble Bear. Years later when she was in her thirties, she found that book and surprized me with it, that was Caley always caring about other people, always going that extra wee step. While in saskatoon at a treatment centre she and the first nations lady made her daddy a star blanket, hours upon hours of sewing are on my wall will never come down.

 

Caley loved to fish with her family she never shied away from putting a worm or minnow on the hook, whether fishing here at lac du Bonnet or 20 miles up the river on Big Island with a mama bear sharing the island! But her biggest joy in life was music and dancing with her friends, she could light up a room with her smile she was loved by so much by so many she was truly blessed.

 

She loved to travel always on the go, she started her own business in Vancouver: Start Fresh Cleaning Company.

 

She was one of gods angels on earth, the tears are flowing, my heart is gone.

 

I LOVE YOU CALEY, YOUR DADDY LOVES YOU SO MUCH, WE WILL MEET AGAIN MY LOVE AND I CAN WATCH YOU DANCE TO BILLIE JEAN.

 

REST IN PEACE, YOUR FATHER.

FROM YOUR MOTHER:  This is the hardest thing I have ever done; Caley was my last baby, Caley and I were like peas and carrots we were so close the first thing in the morning Caley would have the cards out to play crazy eights, she had the cutest little face and was always kissing me, she had a way to make me smile even when I did not want to. 

She went to St. Norbert immersion and was top in her woodwork class, she made me a lovely wooden clock that said, “WHATZZ UP” on the face. Every time we would see each other we would yell, “WHATZZ UP!”.

 

I loved to watch her play soccer she had such an attitude, such a desire to win for her teammates.

 

She would always be there to help you, she could fix anything just give her you tube and some tools!

 

She loved the way I cooked and always phoned me for recipes, when she came home the last time, she wanted me to make her a birthday dinner. One of her favourite dinners was kielke and cream gravy and cheesecake. It will be hard to make this again, but all my daughter’s and their husbands will insist I keep making it again for them.

 

My phone is a lot quieter now without you calling, it is so heart breaking not to hear your voice,, I will forever love my baby for all the good she brought to my life.

 

My beautiful blonde angel

                                              

LOVE YOU CALEY 

YOUR MOMMY X0XOXOXO

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jess

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

my condolences to the family! I went to elementary school with Caley and played soccer with her. She was always so kind and caring. Your in my thoughts and prayers  Jessica Parisien (Desrosier) 

Judy

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Caley was a beautiful soul who would do anything for anybody.  She was friendly, cheerful and had the most beautiful smile. She was an incredible soccer player and goalie and could not only compete against the women her age but the guys too!  She was a great friend and neighbour and she will be missed by all who knew her. She also gave great hugs!! ❤Our condolences to all of the family during this time. We love you and miss you all. Your old neighbours Judy and Joe. 

Brenlee Groening

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Evelyn and family please accept my deepest condolences. I wish I had those magical words that take away your pain but I don’t think they exist.  I hadn’t seen Caley for a very long time the last time I saw her was just outside of Zellers we woke for a few mins and she had that bright smile that I will always remember her for. You are in my thoughts and prayers.  Brenlee (Todd’s mom)

Cody Dupuis

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My deepest condolences to the Steele and extended family, very sorry for your loss. I probably havn't seen Caley since back in high school, but hard to forget that fun extroverted personality. Rest in peace Caley, you will be missed by many

Lacey

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

❤ my condolences to the family she was a great friend and she will be missed dearly

Emma G

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I am so sorry for your loss evelyn and mr Steele , she always knew how to make me smile and I gonna miss our back and forth banter, she will forever be in my heart , Rest In Peace caley ❤

Ava tassos

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I'm so very sorry. Such beautiful stories of someone who went through life with the zest many dream of Bless you all

Cliff Packer

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I can't imagine the pain & anguish Evelyn & Sandy must be going through to outlive one of their children. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.❤

Carol Paci

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

So sorry for your lossEvelyn and Sandy and family .I met her and was at once aware of how down to earth Caley was and that she had a kind spirit  and she was truly a beautiful girl. Caley will always be with you and you will all carry her always in your heart❤Paci Family 

Sondra Skoleski

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

The world won’t be the same without your infectious smile and huge personality. Over the years friends come and go, you lose touch, Caley was a person you always thought of no matter how much time went by. She had an impact on people’s lives and she left her mark whenever she went. Leaving you with so many memories to laugh about. I hope where ever you are the music is loud, the girls and pretty, and the views are breathtaking. Love you Caley I’ll cherish our friendship and our memories forever. RIP

Delores and Ken Zeiler

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I am so sorry for your tremendous loss.  My heart breaks for all of you.  Much love and prayers for you as a family and especially you Evelyn, my dear sister.

Dustin How

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Caley worked with me at Southwood Golf and Country Club.  She was a very hard worker, she spent many hours on the hydroseeder spraying grass seed and preparing the new golf course for opening.  I  recall many days her covered in green and that big smile driving an old Massey tractor.  My condolences to the family, Dustin How

Bryan Barry

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

It must be so very hard to loose a child.  It s not suppose to be like that but it happens. She is in a good place, & you will see her there. Life on earth is short for all of us. We live eternally so really this is just a little recess from her. Everything will be Ok. Just keep her in your hearts untill you meet again. ❤

Mel Hogan

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

❤ My dear friend Caley I still have the hardest time having to say goodbye and accept you are gone. Jaecy and I love you so much ! We had the best time with you about a month ago... we wanted to go for coffee but with the covid restrictions we had to go shopping. Probably one of Jaecys most favorite shopping trips! Thank you for being such a good friend to me and listening, opening up about so much craziness in the world.. you are so missed and my condolences to your family as heaven gained such a wonderful person but too soon ! Love Mel Hogan

Diane and Bruce Jenkins

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Sandy, Evelyn, and girls, we are so sorry for your loss.  Hold Caely’s memories close to your heart.  ❤️  Don’t ever stop talking to her, she will be listening and watching from above.   Our deepest sympathy, Bruce and Diane Jenkins 

Teresa Shawara

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Im so very sorry.  I can’t imagine the pain your family is going through.  A parent should never have to lose a child.  God be with you all.  🙏🙏🙏

Sandra Templeton

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Caleys Dad is my cousin and although we hadn't seen her since she was a little girl when we visited from Scotland we will always remember going to watch her play soccer, a lovely girl our thoughts are with her loving family xx❤❤

Lisa

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I will never forget our lake days in LDB. Weather it was fishing, getting standard places or just sitting by the fire. You're smile and laugh could light up a room. Forever in my thoughts. May you rest in peace.❤

Yvonne Grabowiecki

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Caley was my cousin.  Her mother (Evelyn) and I were pregnant at the same time.  Her having Caley, me having Adam.  Circumstances led to us never meeting.  For that I am deeply saddened by.  It looks like Heaven has gained a wonderful angel.  My heart is broken for your family.  Time is short.  Make every effort to spend time with those you love.  Much love Yvonne.

Krista king

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I met caley while working at burger king. We shared many laughs dances and songs there and outside of work! She was a bright light wherever she went you couldn’t help but be in a better mood when she was around! I will never ever forget you caley and the times shared together! Xoxo

Breanne Paquette

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My condolence to Evelyn Sandy and the family. My heart goes out to you for loosing such a beautiful person. Growing up with Caley she was always full of energy and brought smiles and laughter to many. Your contagious smile will be missed. You wore your heart on your sleeve and always put the people you cared for first. Caley, I hope you are at peace and can finally be free from the internal demon that you were dealing with. For the family, I hope you take time to grieve your loved one as she was special. Rest in peace Caley ❤

JoAnn Kraus

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My condolences to the family. You are all in my prayers. Rest in peace, Caley. ❤

Robert Page

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My sincere condolences to the family. I went to elementary school with Caley, and we grew up in St. Norbert together. I will never forget Caleys goofy laugh and wild spirit. She was always bouncing around and couldn’t sit still. I will always cherish these memories. Rest In Peace Caley. 

Joe Russell

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Sandy and Mrs. Steele: I did not know your beautiful daughter, but I am a friend of Sandy's and that tells me that she was a wonderful and thoughtful person, with a heart larger than herself.  The world is a lesser place without Caley and even Heaven, itself, is much improved by her presence, there.  May you both find some measure of comfort in the sure and certain knowledge that Caley is safely in Heaven, under the Good Lord's watchful and loving care.  May God Bless you, both. Sincerely, Joe Russell Massachusetts, USA

Krista Kielbusiewicz

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Here we are, one year later, and the pain is still unbelievably fresh. I’ve tried to think of the words to express how I feel, but all I can think to do is to share something I wrote about grief. I miss Caley I love her, . What does grief look like? Grief is me, cleaning my little sisters earn with windex. Grief is my mother, trying to explain to me the pain and the  tragedy of losing a child. Grief is me, crying myself to sleep at night, trying to remember and not able to forget. Grief is my Dad , going for bike rides in the forest feeling her presence all around him  Grief is listening to song that she loves (loved)  Grief is a going  runs past the air bnb where she stayed when she visited me only to breakdown in the middle of the street and cry  Grief is a beach, a peaceful lake, a shivering leaf on a branch. Grief is a thunderstorm, wind, sunshine and rain.  Grief is your head in your hands late at night, trying to comprehend what it means to die. Grief is hot tears, a tense throat, and holding it all back until you’re in the shower and can finally cry.  Grief is your arms outstretched, waiting for the embrace that will never come again. Grief is the sound of her voice, the feeling of her hugs , forever playing in our minds. Grief is a polite word to explain the turmoil, the heartache, the loneliness and the way it feels to know something is gone forever. Grief cannot be quantified, gathered, scooped up or put back down.  Grief can be seen in photos and videos we once loved, it is the scent of flowers, and it can be tasted in familiar candies and treats. Grief is painted upon our faces, it is now carved into our souls and it is etched upon our hearts.  Grief is a feeling I hope you, reader, never has to feel, because when you’re trapped under the weight of it, you know you’ll never get out.  Grief is forever and a day, it never goes away. It changes and morphs into different words, expressions, and feelings. But grief, I’m afraid to say, it never goes away. I love you forever my sweetheart little sister ❤ Krista Kielbusiewicz 

Teresa Hildebrandt

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

My heart aches for all of you. I remember the little girl Caley with so much spunk with endless giggles and knock knock jokes at a Christmas gathering. Her dance moves at our cousin’s wedding and her laughter.  Praying for you all that you find peace and hope ❤️

Krista Kielbusiewicz

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

My Sweet sweet LIL SIS. All of this still doesn't feel real. I wish I could wake up and call you. Face time you like we used to for hours like we used to. Have you for just one more day. I miss you so so much. I know you always said that I was your Best friend you were mine too. A Big part of my  heart will forever be empty without you . every time I listen to this song I will think of you and know you're not in pain  Happy and Dancing in Heaven. Love Always your Big Sis. . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UR4T0av0o40&form=MY01SV&OCID=MY01SV
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