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Ryan Arabsky

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RYAN FREDERICK ARABSKY

1972 – 2020

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Ryan Frederick Arabsky on August 19, 2020, at the age of 48 years.

 

In 1972, Ryan was born in Sioux Lookout, Ontario. His dad, Bill, who was working for CN, was transferred to Winnipeg in 1978 and Winnipeg became Ryan’s forever home. Ryan graduated from Vincent Massey Collegiate and went to the University of Manitoba. Before completing his degree, and following his dad’s footsteps, he started his career at CN, working there for over 10 years. Ryan was a dreamer and wanted to venture into business. He worked for his father-in-law and then published a couple of magazines on his own business journey. Having a young family at the time, he made the hard decision to return to the transportation world in 2008. He worked his way through various positions at the City of Winnipeg. He was driven by doing what was right for Winnipeggers. As the Manager of Parking Authority and with a creative entrepreneurial mind, he made a lot of positive changes to promote customer service and community involvement through various safety campaigns.

 

Ryan was passionate about many sports. He adored golf and was a member at Southwood Golf Course for most of his adult life. He managed to get,  not one, but two holes in one, both in 1999. He built many friendships over the years and was often at the course at 7 AM with the Wagon group. Ryan was what we would say a competitive sports watcher. For reasons we will never understand, he was devoted to The New England Patriots and the Toronto Maple Leafs. Of course, he also loved the Winnipeg Jets. He loved bringing his kids to games and spent many Sundays cheering or cursing his teams. He clearly passed on his passion for sports. His son, Eric, is now a member at Southwood and is at the course almost daily driven to beat his dad. His daughter, Kate, also enjoys golf along with hockey and softball; what she will carry the most is her ability to rattle off most NHL players and if you need a hockey stat, just ask Kate.

 

Ryan during his whole adult life was always giving back to the community through love of hockey. He coached his brother and then moved on to help with various assistant coaching of his kids. He was always seen at the rink watching from the “Corner of Knowledge”, never with the moms in the stands.  Continuing to give back, he became a hockey convenor for several years and also joined the board of South Winnipeg Hockey Association.

 

Ryan was the guy in the room that always put everyone at ease.  He went out of his way to get to know you, he made everyone laugh no matter what age.  At family gatherings you would always see kids gravitate towards him even though he pretended to push them away. He was a kid at heart and likely explains why he always aspired to be like “Jim” from his favorite show, “The Office”. When Ryan was looking for an escape and solitude, you would often see Ryan strolling through King’s Park with Crosby, the family dog that could do no wrong.

 

Ryan was the cook in the family.  If his grandmother (Baba) were here, it would be a tough match.  Ryan loved entertaining and no one would leave hungry after a visit.  Ryan’s sense of humour, his joy in the little things and his ability to capture memories when he sees them and tell great stories will be forever missed.  Instagram will never be the same.  Ryan adored his kids, Eric and Kate.  We can already see the sarcastic sense of humour in Eric and Kate, with her strength, has no problem talking back which no doubt comes from their dad.    

 

Ryan will be dearly missed by so many.  He is survived by his parents Bill and Linda, his wife, of 20 years, Holly, and their precious children Eric and Kate; brother Darren (Chera) their children, Nicholas, Laine and Alexander; parents-in-law, Bill (Beth) Brathwaite, Joan Wilton (Bernard Boland), brother-in-law David Brathwaite (Stephanie), children Hayley, Pippa, Deaglan, Dean Brathwaite (Jae-Lynne), children Emily and Audrey.  He will also be missed by many aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and colleagues. 

 

In keeping with Ryan’s wishes, cremation has taken place. A private celebration of his life will be held.  Unfortunately, due to COVID-19, the service will have restricted capacity and invitations will be emailed directly. For those that are not able to attend, the service will be video recorded and made available for viewing on, September 7, 2020, on this page.

 

In the meantime, Ryan’s family kindly requests that all  of  his  friends  and  relatives  take  a  few minutes  to  honour  his  memory  by  watching  the photo-biography above.  Please,  also consider  sharing your own photos and/or sharing your own memories and stories using the comment section on this page.

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Robert Alarie

December 18, 2021 at 4:12 PM

My deepest sympathies Holly to you and your family for the passing of your husband Ryan.  I remember , at work, you would share some of the fun adventures and activities that Ryan would do together as a family. I’m sure you and your two children miss him dearly. Your eulogy to Ryan demonstrates the love you have for him and the strength and love for your children. My thoughts and prayers are with you Holly and your family. Robert A.

Philip Bialk

November 24, 2021 at 3:30 AM

My deepest condolences go out to the family and to my former fellow university student Heidi on the passing of my next-door neighbour.

Roger Maguet

January 1, 2021 at 12:48 AM

I just heard about Ryan’s passing today and had no idea. I played hockey with Ryan as a teen with Waverley/St Norbert and worked with Holly at McDonalds. Most recently we ran into Ryan when our boys played AA hockey against each other.  Ryan and Holly are  two of the nicest people I’ve ever met and I offer my deepest condolences to The entire family. 

Adrien DiPietro

September 1, 2020 at 2:19 AM

My condolences to you Darren ,and the whole Arabsky family On Ryan's passing. Many memories growing up of Ryan as My coach and also the memories shared outside the rink as well with him . To My coach and my friend ... you and those  memories/good times will never Be forgotten.     

David & Karen Kawaler

August 31, 2020 at 3:02 PM

Our deepest sympathies are extended to all of the Arabsky family on your loss. I had the privilege of working with Ryan at CN and forming a lasting friendship. We became good friends working on a project that took us to Montreal for training for 2 weeks in 1999 and Our friendship continued in his further endeavors and career paths. I was happy to see how he achieved success at the City Parking Authorities. I will miss our constant bantering  about  parking and his "choices" in  the hockey draft and of course his Canuck and Leaf picks. We will miss him.  To his entire family, please know that you are all kept in our thoughts and prayers.  

Marvin Chomiak

August 31, 2020 at 3:02 PM

Although I never met Ryan I can still picture him as a youngster,  from my many conversations with his dad Bill (30 some odd years ago), during our CN stays in Montreal.  I will not attempt to offer words for heartbreak.  I hope solace finds a way to help you & your family. Marvin Chomiak

Dennis Blazewicz

August 31, 2020 at 1:00 PM

My deepest condolence to Holly, Eric, Kate, and all who were fortunate enough to know Ryan. He was a very kind and thoughtful person, humble and very generous with his time. We will all miss him greatly.

Randy Topolniski

August 31, 2020 at 2:07 AM

Shelley and I send our deepest sympathies to you Holly, Kate, Eric and the Arabsky family. Ryan came to the Parking Authority some 10 years ago and as noted by many of the messages his passion for customer service was truly amazing. This was evident in the way he instilled his customer service focus and the pride he took mentoring his Team members at the Agency. He was always moving the bar higher with many innovations that continually improved service. Not only was he a valued colleague, he was friend who was genuine and caring to all at the WPA. Kate and Eric, your father always kept us up to date sharing stories (sometimes your wonderful baking Kate) of both your school/sporting endeavors, he was so proud of you both. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Leland Gordon

August 31, 2020 at 12:34 AM

Very sorry for the loss. Ryan was a professional and fun person to work with.  This is a tragic loss of a phenomenal person.

Christopher and Sheryl Thomson

August 30, 2020 at 1:14 PM

Holly, we were shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Ryan’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers for you, Eric and Kate at this difficult time. 

Ted Teterenko

August 30, 2020 at 3:08 AM

Holly, I am so saddened to hear about Ryan.  Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Eric and Kate. 

Ivan

August 30, 2020 at 2:36 AM

Our our thoughts and prayers are with Holly, Eric, Kate and families at this time Ivan/Lorraine Saskatoon

Merilyn Guiney

August 30, 2020 at 1:54 AM

What a beautiful tribute to an amazing man.  I was so fortunate to have worked with Ryan at CN.  I fondly remember Ryan's total dedication to his job.  He had the natural ability to make all customers feel assured that they were in the best of hands.  Ryan was immensely respected by everyone who was lucky enough to have known him.  I smile at my memories, but am so sadden to hear of his passing.  To die so young is heart breaking. . . yet Ryan touched more lives in his 48 years than many who live to be 100.  Gods speed Ryan.  

Colleen

August 29, 2020 at 10:49 PM

I am so sorry for your loss Holly, Eric, and Kate. Know that he is your guardian angel and always with you. 

Colleen

August 29, 2020 at 10:44 PM

Rosa Buoncore (Sacco)

August 29, 2020 at 9:08 PM

So sorry to hear of Ryan’s passing.  I will always remember Ryan during our  high school days for his kindness to all and his smile that would light up a room.  RIP.  

Christine Martin

August 29, 2020 at 8:50 PM

So sorry to hear of your loss, Holly.  My thoughts and prayers are with you, Eric and Kate at this very trying time.  Take special care.

The McDougalls

August 29, 2020 at 6:25 PM

We are so sorry to hear the sad news of Ryan’s passing. Ryan’s commitment to South Winnipeg Hockey Association will forever be appreciated. He played an integral role in our son’s safe return to hockey after taking a year off for health reasons. Returning meant a lot of worry and fears but Ryan showed compassion and kindness by accommodating our son’s needs and making sure he felt confident coming back. This made an enormous difference to our lives. Our hearts go out to Holly, Eric and Kate. Rest assured that Ryan’s impact in our community will not be forgotten. 

Terri Warner

August 29, 2020 at 6:09 PM

Our hearts break for all of you- Holly, Eric, Kate. We were all a part of the Waverley Heights crew and then shared lots of fun times with our first children. Rest In Peace Ryan. Hugs to you Holly and love to Eric and Kate.  Terri and Greg Warner

Bill Storry

August 29, 2020 at 6:08 PM

Rest In Peace Ryan, sincere condolences to your wife children and family. It sure was a pleasure working with you at C.N. for approximately 8 years

Bruce and Janet Anderson

August 29, 2020 at 3:51 PM

With Deepest Sympathy on the passing of Ryan! Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family!  Ryan - you will always be part of the CN Family!

Christine

August 29, 2020 at 3:42 PM

I haven’t posted anything up until now as I can’t seem to find the exact words I want to say. It’s been easier to mourn in silence. There is a funny story Ryan would tell people about when we first met. Then we realized that we actually met years earlier in University and there is a funny story about that. So many funny stories and laughs we shared now turned to memories. We shared laughs, vacations, hockey games, hockey tournaments, big life milestones, small life milestones, some Christmas Eves (he always said he hated Christmas to bug me as I love it so much), learnings and perspectives around people leadership, conversations about vitamins lol, chats about things we were going through both the good and the bad, and of course we shared the occasional disagreement where our talented debating skills could be witnessed by Holly and Rich and others.  Wherever you are Ryan, you are missed and you’ll always be in our hearts.  Rich, Noah, Brady and myself have so many memories that we will cherish. Our hearts and hugs go out to Eric, Kate, Holly, Darren and Chera and kids, Ryan’s parents and the entire family.  “Only a moment you stayed, but what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts.” 

Alan Haffner

August 29, 2020 at 3:30 PM

So sorry to receive the tragic news.  Aside from my memories at Southwood and the Wagan Group; he always seemed to birdie the 18th hole,  I met up with Ryan in hockey arenas many times, him with his kids, me with my grandkids. He always put a smile on your face.   My condolences to his his family. 

Richmon

August 29, 2020 at 3:06 PM

My condolences to Ryan’s family and friends especially to his wife and children. I met Ryan as a respected leader in the parking community. In an industry where it can be challenging to be viewed as a “good guy”, he radiated generosity and sincerity. Always so helpful and professional.  I fondly recall getting stuck at the Nashville airport with Ryan. We talked shop but ended up sharing some details about our personal lives including him humorously giving  me a preview me of what to expect as a father. I could see how much he loved his kids and how proud he was of them as he smiled and reminisced about his early years as a father.  You are gone too soon Ryan. Rest In Peace.

Jacqueline and Terry Kehler

August 29, 2020 at 2:31 PM

Our condolences to the Family. Our family was blessed to have spent time with Ryan, Holly, Eric and Kate over the years celebrating birthdays and Christmas’s. Ryan was always such a friendly and welcoming guy and always made you laugh. He will be greatly missed. ❤

Eva Janssen

August 29, 2020 at 2:29 PM

So sorry to hear about your terrible loss. Sending our sympathies to Kate, Holly, and their entire family.

Bunny Bridge

August 29, 2020 at 1:58 PM

As a friend of Darren of course I was lucky to spend time with Ryan as well.  Though I haven’t seen him in many years he’s certainly memorable for all the reasons described here. He truly was so incredibly welcoming and even if you hadn’t seen him for years, his sincerity and engaging personality would draw everyone toward him.  My condolences to his family. 

Harold Dick

August 29, 2020 at 1:34 PM

I knew Ryan from the City and found him hardworking, thoughtful and funny. He was a joy to work with. My deepest condolences to his family and friends. 

Cori-Lee

August 29, 2020 at 6:32 AM

I will forever be grateful to Ryan for stepping up and helping my family during a difficult time in our lives. Without hesitation Ryan filled in with  coaching and insisted on  driving  Randy  to and from the rink almost every game and practice. The kindness he showed us will never be forgotten.   Ryan you  made a difference in Randy’s  life during those ho key years. and I am eternally grateful.  Thinking of all of Ryan’s family..../what a huge loss. 

Anonymous

August 29, 2020 at 5:05 AM

I knew Ryan from work and know he was a kind soul. My heart goes out to his family and dear friends. I wish you peace.

daphne Nixon

August 29, 2020 at 2:50 AM

I met Ryan at the CN Customer Service Center at Eaton Place.    He was a great guy to work with and when he become a team leader, he was a great boss.    I was honored and blessed to have known him .    My condolences go out to his family .   Rest in peace Ryan. 

Diane Demetrioff

August 29, 2020 at 1:57 AM

Our deepest condolences to the entire Arabsky family.    We usually ran into Ryan at a Jets game and enjoyed bugging him about being a leafs fan!  We will miss seeing him.    I fondly remember our CN days together at the Waybill Centre.  Much love to all the family during this very difficult time.    Darren and Diane Demetrioff. 

Angie, Dave, Riley, Georgia, Callum and Taggart

August 29, 2020 at 1:40 AM

We met Ryan when our son Riley began playing hockey with Eric when they were 8 years old.  Riley and Eric went on to play hockey together on the same team for 9 seasons of hockey.  Our son Callum also played on the same team as Kate during his first year of hockey.  With Riley being our oldest and our first to play hockey, we didn’t realize back then that we would meet some of the funniest, kindest and most caring friends through our children’s sports.  Ryan was one of those people. The tribute prepared by Ryan’s family is so fitting and true.  We were fortunate to attend many gatherings at the Arabsky’s over the years with Ryan always an amazing host.  We can attest to the fact that “no one would leave hungry after a visit”.  One particular gathering remembered many times over the years was a Canada Day BBQ that Dave took our 4 young kids to while I was at work.  One of our son’s was apparently quite hungry that day and as long as Ryan kept the hotdogs coming, he was going to eat them.  Dave still will laugh when he talks about how many hotdogs Callum ate that day but Ryan, ever the gracious host, wasn’t going to cut him off!! Ryan was so proud of his kids. He loved Eric and Kate dearly and it showed. Ryan was an incredibly funny, kind, caring, genuine, friendly person.  He was someone you wanted to spend time with and he will be greatly missed.   Our condolences to Holly, Eric & Kate, to Darren, Chera & their children and to all of your family.

Darren Wareham

August 28, 2020 at 10:30 PM

Our deepest sympathies to the family from the Wareham's.  My own relationship with Ryan centers around sport and there are many memories.  Many happy thoughts when I think of times with him.  Coaching our sons to a City Championship together in 2018 (he was a nervous Nellie on the bench!); being a golf teammate along with his brother in men's league at Southwood (what a competitor!); our excitement when he holed out a 190 yard golf shot; even more excitement when later in the year he thought I did the same (he was more excited for me than his own) but then how apologetic he was when we found out he was wrong (when we got to the green I was 5 yards short!).  We'll miss him greatly but I'm sure Ryan will still be rooting for us whenever the Double Darren's tee it up on Wednesday nights.

Ajaleigh Williams

August 28, 2020 at 9:01 PM

Sincere condolences to Ryan's family on this tremendous loss.  I've worked with Ryan for the last eight years and he was a strong leader in the workplace with an exceptional focus on improving customer service. But what I remember most about Ryan is not the work we did together but his kindness, his sense of humor, and his genuine interest in people's lives. Ryan was one of a kind and he will be greatly missed.

Colin

August 28, 2020 at 8:43 PM

My condolences to the family. After leaving the Parking Authority, one of the things I missed was the discussion amongst those of us with offices wedged in a corner (which was basically Ryan, myself and Grant) of the floor around sports and the frequent trials of raising kids of similar ages.  You will be missed.

Anifat Olawoyin

August 28, 2020 at 7:26 PM

My Condolences to his wife, children and family. May God grants the family the fortitude to bear the tragic loss. I worked with Ryan at Winnipeg Parking Authority and my kids attend the same school with his brother's kids - Nicholas and Laine. Ryan will forever be missed as a Manager with a kind heart and result oriented.

Francoise

August 28, 2020 at 6:14 PM

My deepest condolences to Ryan's family. I knew Ryan from work and he was always a kind, caring person who was always there to lend an ear to anyone who wanted to talk.  He always greeted you with a smile and made you feel like you were part of a team.  Rest in peace my friend, you have earned your wings and will now be watching over your family.   Franooise M 

Mike Koersvelt

August 28, 2020 at 5:55 PM

My condolences to his wife children and family.  Tragic loss of such a warm person. We kept in touch here and there over the years. I met him in grade five and went to school with him till grade ten. Always a great sense of humour and laughs.  

Shawn K

August 28, 2020 at 5:29 PM

Ryan was one of the first people that made me feel welcomed and valued at the office we worked at together. I could always rely on him for a good light hearted conversation when things were stressful around the office. Ryan definitely had a great sense of humor, and knew how to dish out, and take some jokes. Thank you for all the good memories, you will be missed. My condolences to his family.

David Klowak

August 28, 2020 at 4:55 PM

Ryan  did have a great passion for golf and he had a tremendous admiration for Tiger Woods.  The competitor in him identified with the drive of Tiger  I will miss our conversations on Golf.  Ex TL David K
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