Barbara Arnal
BARBARA DIANE ARNAL
(née JACKSON)
May 18, 1952 – August 3, 2024
Barbara Diane Arnal (née Jackson), 72, passed away peacefully on August 3, 2024, after a two-year battle with cancer and dementia. Born on May 18, 1952, in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Barb lived a full and vibrant life, leaving a positive impact on countless people throughout her journey.
Overcoming a challenging childhood and poverty, Barb pursued her dream of becoming a teacher, earning a university education. Her teaching career was filled with wonderful experiences and friendships which remained to this day. In 1982, Barb retired from teaching to focus on her true calling as a mother after her daughter Kimberly was born. She cherished her role as a stay-at-home mother and ensured her children felt the presence of their grandmother, Alma, who passed away when Barb was just 30. While Barb took her last breath listening to Bon Jovi, we know she was thinking about getting to hug her mother, her puppies Riley and Abbey and grandpup Eddie.
Barb was known for her warm hospitality and incredible culinary skills. Her home was always open to friends and family, and her pantry and fridge were stocked like a grocery store, leading to jokes about going grocery shopping in her basement. Her cooking inspired her son, Andrew, who followed in her footsteps. Barb was immensely proud of her children’s achievements and loved telling anyone who would listen about her firefighter son and lawyer daughter. One of her happiest days was when she got to ride in a firetruck; the smile on her face was one of the biggest we have ever seen.
A devoted fan of Bon Jovi, Barb traveled far and wide – despite her fear of flying – to see the band perform. She had the singer's signature tattooed on her arm and a portrait tattoo on her leg. Barb's collection of Bon Jovi memorabilia was unmatched, and his music brought her comfort during difficult times.
When Barb’s daughter Kimberly was in grade 10, an exchange student Chrystelle, from France, came to live with the Arnal family for 2 weeks and then returned for that summer and many other occasions over the last 27 years including visiting with her son Enaël, who Barb loved dearly. Chrystelle was like a daughter to Barb and they stayed very close over the years. Most recently Chrystelle arrived the day before Barb passed away and was able to spend time with her and say goodbye. Though she couldn’t tell us, we know this comforted Barb and that she heard Chrystelle talking to her and felt her holding her hand.
In her later years, Barb worked at IKEA, a perfect fit for her love of home decoration. Her homes were stylish and well-organized, yet filled with every imaginable item. Friends joked that if you needed anything, Barb likely had two of it, from new VCRs to coffee makers.
Her grandchildren were the light of her life, and she often spoke of Emersyn's love of performing and Preston's love of hockey. If you asked Grammie she was certain Emersyn would be a famous movie star one day and Preston a player in the NHL.
Barb is survived by her daughter Kimberly (Colin); her son Andrew (Tanya); and her beloved grandchildren, Emersyn and Preston.
Barb's family would like to express their gratitude to her dear friends who supported her during her final years, including her best friend of 53 years, Margaret Ellison, her dear friend Flo Lewis, and her "sister" Marsha Arnal, with whom she shared a deep bond for 45 years. We know she also took great comfort in her visits with her friends Deb, Stacie, Anita and Ellen.
**Kimberly and Andrew: We love you, Mom. Thank you for always making us a priority and always supporting our dreams. We were so lucky to have you as our Mom.
**Chrystelle: Merci pour tout l’amour que tu m’as donné. Merci d’avoir été ma Maman Canadienne depuis le 1er jour de notre rencontre.
**Emersyn (age 12): Your cookies always cheered me up. Thank you for teaching me crafts and cooking. Thank you for always trying so hard to make me happy. I love you.
**Preston (age 8): Thank you Grammie for always playing with me. I love you.
A celebration of Barb’s life, featuring Bon Jovi music and light snacks, will be held from 1:00pm – 4:00pm on Sunday, August 18, 2024 at Hampton Inn by Hilton Winnipeg Airport/Polo Park, in the Polar Bear Room.
Barb’s family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by sharing photos, memories, and stories, using the comment section on this page.
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Lori Gray
August 15, 2024 at 8:01 PM
I was so very sad to hear the news that Barb had passed. To Kim and Andrew, Emersyn and Preston, and to Chrystelle and Enael, my heart goes out to all of you.
I worked with Barb for almost 20 years through 7 elections and enjoyed every moment of working with her. I miss those days!
She would sit quietly in her corner and serve electors with warmth, compassion and a smile. Even the grumpy ones would leave with a smile and a thank-you. But that was Barb wasn't it?
With Barb at the helm we always knew that her work would be complete and correct. She took pride in that and she never let us down. And if we ever asked her to do something, she did it with a smile, including working on Christmas Day! It was a big ask!
But more than that, she was a joy to work with. She had a warm heart, and a smile for everyone. I still remember the treats she would bring to the office for us and the recipes she would willing ly share. I still use a couple of those recipes every Christmas!
Finally I do want to mention how incredibly proud she was of both of you Kim and Andrew. Not just for your chosen professions but for the people you had become. You were the light of her life. And that light shone even brighter once her grandchildren were born.
I feel very blessed to have known her.
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Chip Berry
August 14, 2024 at 2:48 PM
Barbra was such an amazing person. Always happy to see you. She had so many stories she would share with me. I so enjoyed working with her, she always brought a sense of calm to the kitchen when she was working. I will miss her smile and the way her eyes lit up if someone mentioned Bon Jovi.
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Darlene King
August 13, 2024 at 9:08 AM
Barb was one of a kind - always a big hug and endless laughter, and naughty jokes! Where there was Barb, there was fun..always! When she came into our family circle thru the Lewis family, we nicknamed her BonJovi Barb (we already had another Barb in our family) and we shared so many hilarious times with her. She often called us her sisters and said she wanted to be an honorary member of our crazy family...thing is, she already WAS part of our family. I will miss her lovable craziness, laughter, hugs and kind heart... We will definitely catch you on the flip side, friend xoxo
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Debbie Jackson
August 10, 2024 at 7:45 PM
I have always thought of Barb as more of a sister than an in law
she was always there for me and I even stayed with her in her home for 2 weeks during a rough time
I enjoyed all her fabulous meals and I'm sure drove her crazy asking for recipes
I will miss her hugs and our trips to A & W and dollarama and watching her excitement at buying things
Her love for my children was true like her own with many overnight visits with all the bells and whistles my children experienced
I will miss you, my friend and love you dearly
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Bradie Jackson
August 10, 2024 at 5:21 PM
(I posted the wrong picture-oops!) here's one I took before putting it up for her at her last home
Bradie Jackson
August 10, 2024 at 5:17 PM
The thing I will remember most about Auntie Barb is how freely her love flowed. She made sure to spoil me with love equally as a child and an adult. Her home was your home and she made sure you knew it. I will always think of her when I'm crafting (which is often) and of course decorating for Christmas. I was lucky to make wreaths with her this last year which I will treasure for years to come. Love you and miss you buckets auntie! ❤️
Margie King
August 9, 2024 at 6:57 PM
We met Barb through the Lewis family,occasionally she attended our family celebrations and enjoyed them alot.Flo would have sister get togethers and Barb would join us and always added alot fun and laughter to our group. We always enjoyed the time we shared together.Barb was one of a kind will miss her hugs and big smiles See you on the Flip side my friend
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Darlene Edwards
August 9, 2024 at 6:31 PM
The first time I met Barb I spoke with her and Guy for quite some time. As she got up to walk away I noticed a beautiful tattoo on her leg and complimented her on it. She said it was of Bon Jovi....I said my cousin's sister in law also has a tattoo of Bon Jovi.....then I put 2 and 2 together and realized my cousin had the same last name....it's a small world.
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