I was with Gilbert on only one occasion. He inspired hope in me and definitely made it okay to ask questions. I'm so glad I got to connect with him.

My condolences to his loved ones.

Trevor And Nikki. Andrew and candace

my condolenceys to and your families on the loss of a father , Grandfather.

Sandi Hiebert

It was nourishing to listen to the service and share in the stories. Uncle Gilbert was a wonderful man and the sparks from his life remain embedded in many of us. Peace and love on behalf of Janine and my family, we would love to catch up again soon.

Gilbert came into my life at exactly the right time. I met him about 25 years ago when we were part of leading a team together at The Meeting Place. He was such a healing person in my life in the way he supported me, offered his input graciously, gently challenged me, and followed up on our conversations in such a kind and caring way.

You always knew Gilbert wanted to know you – your thoughts, questions, experience. “So, I have a question” was something I always expected he would say in our conversations, and he never let me down! You knew he came ready with those – wanting to ask, wanting to explore together. That curiosity – what a gift to all of us who had the privilege of time with Gilbert.

I experienced Gilbert as unafraid to feel deeply – there was often a point in our times together where we would be talking about something and his eyes would fill with tears. His care was so deep.

Tim and I had so many fun and meaningful times together with Gilbert and Adeline over the years, including many visits with them at their Birds Hill Park campsite where they were delighted to have us and our kids join them.

He always engaged so beautifully with our kids – from when they were small to them becoming adults. One of them said that when they visited Gilbert at Beacon Hill, Gilbert was so incredibly peaceful – like his perspective on death was like someone looking forward to reading an interesting new book. One of our other adult children, when hearing Gilbert had passed, said that they hoped Gilbert was being able to ask all those questions he had. Our kids too experienced that curious spirit Gilbert had.

Gilbert, thank you – for the great gift of journeying together for a season of our lives, for your kindness, gentleness, acceptance, and deep care. I miss you deeply.

There is a big void in the world now that Gilbert no longer shares in our lives on this earth. However, we all have our beautiful memories which will connect us to Gilbert forever.

Gilbert has been a dear and treasured friend, as has Adeline, for just over 19 years. They were a couple whose friendship brought many fun times, lots of laughs, deep and reflective conversations, and LOTS of food sharing into my life as well as Roger's. Gilbert's friendship will be deeply missed!

More recent memories are of the wonderful times that Gilbert, Adeline and us spent together last May when we visited, the September prior to that when both Gilbert and Adeline stayed with us in our new home in Thunder Bay, along with the many FaceTime visits when we couldn't be together. They were our closest "covid" friends with the sharing of many fun and creative times together. These memories and more will be held in a loving and forever place in our hearts.

On a more persoper level, osonalGilbert showed me what a deeply compassionate and caring man looked like. His thoughtful and reflective nature took me to deeper places within my own soul. We will miss our conversations with him and his witty musings.

A fun memory I have of "ever helpful" Gilbert, was when he helped me load up a bunch of scrap metal from my basement onto a truck to be taken to a recyclIng scrap metal yard. I just remember how empowered I felt as he and I stood on the back of that truck and whipped the scraps of metal into the big heap of metal on the ground. He helped me with so many pragmatic things that needed to be dealt with when my own late husband died. It wasn't just about fixing the basement cracks, or the fence and clothesline posts' removal. It was so much more. It was his quiet, gentle, calm and compassionate presence that gave me strength and feelings of safety at a time when my wwn orld was upside down.

Good-bye, for now, dear friend. You will be forever held in a safe and loving part of my heart. Roger and I will forever remember the camaraderie and fun times we shared together.

Rest in the Peace you brought to so many others while we were gifted with your presence on this earthly plane.

Our condolences and love are sent to our dear friend, Adeline, their sons, and the extended famil.y.

With much love from,

Laurie Massaro & Roger Hayes

Nora and I first met Gilbert at The Meeting place more than 25 years ago. We joined there small group and we met regularly over the years. We especially enjoyed our many long weekends at Clear Lake with our small group where we spent time by the fire and picnicking. Our spiritual discussions were numerous and Gilbert always tried to keep us on topic sometimes difficult with our questioning small group. We will miss Gilbert deeply and Adeline we are so sorry for your loss.

Gilbert Roy! I did not know until I read his obituary that we shared the middle name Roy! Where did that name come into two Mennonite families a province apart and in the same decade? Roy Rogers was a singer of westerns and my dad quite liked listening to 'Cool Waters' on his gramaphone at the end of a hot summer's day. Roy R. was the founder of the Sons of the Pioneers.

Gilbert and I became friends through st. benedict's table. His smile and his voice spoke loudly announcing that he was a gentle and happy man. This was confirmed by our occasional 'walk' to the Forks where he listened to some of my threadbare ideas, asked gentle, probing questions, sometimes creating something positive out of our discussions.

I am enjoying his book of poetry 'Winds at the Edge of my Soul'. It is just another example of his depth of a listening ear and an active mind and spirit. I will miss you, Gilbert Roy!

I met Gilbert and Adeline initially about 25 years ago. We became good freinds during our time as members of St Benedicts Table.Anglican Church which spanned some 20 years.. There are many adjectives I could use to describe Gilbert. A few of them that come to mind.....great friend, excellent listener, thoughtful, a person of high intergrity, loving and kind. I so enjoyed conversatoins with Gilbert and one of the reasons being, he wasn't limited to a narrow view on any topic rather he was "generous" in his thinking. I will very much miss my friend Gilbert. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

I knew Gilbert through Adeline, as she and I both worked for the same non-profit organization for many years. However, what I did see and know of Gilbert, I certainly liked and respected. I saw a loving husband, devoted father, and dedicated follower of Jesus Christ who served our Lord and Saviour in many meaningful ways! You've earned your eternal peace and rest with Jesus, Gilbert! My prayers are with Adeline, your sons and their families, and all your grandchildren and great-grandchildren as they adjust to life without you on this earth. May God be close to the family and friends of Gilbert and uphold you all during this difficult time, knowing there will be joyful reunions in heaven sometime soon.

Gilbert and Adeline lived across the street from us in Leaf Rapids. How fortunate we were to get to know them and to keep our friendship going over these past 52 years. Gilbert's easy manner and positive views will linger with me the rest of my life. I will always be thankful that God sent Gilbert as a friend and mentor to myself and to my husband.

Gilbert loved the bible verses referring to sheltering beneath the wings of the Lord. See Psalm 91:4. And as in Isaiah 40:31 I believe this verse covers Gilbert now.

"But those who trust in the Lord for help will find their strength renewed. They will rise on wings like eagles; they will run and not get weary; they will walk and not grow weak."

Condolences to the family; he will be sadly missed.

For some twenty years at saint benedict's table, Gilbert was one of those solid people you just loved to have around. On Sundays in our liturgies, every second Wednesday morning for our book breakfast club, and at all manner of special events and seasonal celebrations, there he'd be... and along with Adeline, always willing to lend a hand with whatever might need to be done. I am honoured to have been able to know him, and to have some splendid visits with him in the last chapter of his life at the hospital and personal care home. May he rest in peace, and rise in glory.

Gilbert really listened. He was not quick to respond, except for the emotions that showed up in his eyes. It wasn't uncommon that I would receive a wee note after speaking with him, filled with thoughtful encouragement.

To say that someone is kind is, to me, one of the highest compliments. It is a trait that is too often overlooked, but so very powerful. The world has lost a kind, kind man. Perhaps, in one small way, his legacy lives on through those of us who try to follow his

example.

May the Lord give you strength as you move through this sad season, and joy in remembering him. Scott and I are so glad to have known him:

I spent Canada Day with Gilbert and Adeline several years ago. He enjoyed listening to the music at The Forks, and we were wowed by the fireworks from the rooftop. We had a delicious meal together at the restaurant on the bridge. He was interested in what was happening. He was so kind and tender-hearted. He had a beautiful smile and gorgeous voice. I'll miss him.

My condolences and prayers are with you all.

Gilbert and Adeline were some of the first to embrace Scott and I when we joined St Benedict's Table church back in 2010. Since then they have been warm, observant, wise and encouraging friends, to say nothing of role models. They even came all the way out to Newfoundland to visit us while I was studying in St John's! Scott toured them around the city right out to Cape Spear and they were worthy adventure pals. 'What wind?'

Greatness is a word that has been attributed to far lesser men than Gilbert. He was too humble for it, and deserved it better. Being able to visit him in hospital near the end, to sing with him, was the privilege of a lifetime... How to say what it's like feeling ministered-to by the person who is dying? Gilbert was a miracle. We will miss him dearly.

Gilbert and I have the distinction of being the two "most closest in age" of the Berg cousins, being exactly three months apart in age. I fondly remember visits as children to the Frank Berg farm (near the Sawatsky farm). I remember Gilbert would have farm chores to do, something from which I was exempt as a town dweller in Hepburn. Later in life we had some good times when Gilbert and Adeline and their boys lived in Fresno. I remember particularly when our two families enjoyed a weekend at Pismo Beach. My sincere condolences to Adeline, the boys, and their families.