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Tim Bergen

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TIMOTHY JOHN BERGEN

November 15, 1961 - April 14, 2021

It is with heavy hearts that we announce Tim’s passing on April 14, 2021 at 59 years young. Beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend.

 

Tim is survived by his life partner and wife Sandy; their children, Tiffany Marie and Candace Faith. He also leaves his daughter Merren (Chris); and grandchildren, David, Brooklynn and Chloe, whom he only found out and met a mere five years ago.

 

He also leaves to mourn extended family and friends, including his brother Ron, sister Barb and their families, as well his best friend, Don. Tim was predeceased by his parents.

 

Tim was born and raised in Morris, Manitoba. He was always known for his mischievous and comedic nature. He could bring you to tears with laughter. His quick wit almost unmatchable. This laughter will be forever missed.

 

Tim and Sandy met in 1983, at first just as friends meeting for coffee, and eventually inseparable. They moved to Winnipeg in 1990 when Sandy started her nursing career and Tim continued to work in manufacturing.

 

In 1994, they bought their first home in St.Vital and two years later, in 1996,they were blessed with their first daughter Tiffany, followed by a second blessing of Candace in 1997.

 

Tim worked long hard hours at Westeel when the girls were little so that Sandy could be home more with the girls. He developed many friendships with co-workers over the years, who also had some good laughs courtesy of Tim’s humor.

 

In 2010, Tim, Sandy and girls built a new home and moved to La Salle. The girls attended school, both went on to graduate and since then have pursued their Nursing education.

 

Tim loved adventures with his family. It began when the girls were little with “park hopping”.  From there it progressed to garage sales where the girls were spoiled and Tim would always find some bizarre item that would show up over and over again for many years…so much fun…so many laughs.

 

Family road trips were another favorite. He loved to drive. From simple weekend trips to the “farm”- where many family events were celebrated and the farewell summer fireworks were lit…to camping at Hecla, or weekend getaways to Grand Forks or Fargo.

 

Longer trips included the Rockies, Calgary, Edmonton, South Dakota, Florida and of course all the trips to Arizona which also included many side trips- Mexico, California, Texas, and of course, Vegas..

 

Vegas is where Tim “died” for the first time. Naturally, this happened on April Fool’s Day. But his sudden cardiac arrest was not a joke. Initially convincing his family when called was met with…well it is April Fool’s and it is Tim…so a prank was to be expected. Unfortunately, not so in this case. But, even here Tim could find humor and bought his “Everybody Dies, but not Everybody Lives” t-shirt which he wore proudly after surviving the almost un-survivable.

 

Tim’s recovery from this health crisis was not the easiest. He could no longer work as he once did and had many restriction’s due to his ICD. He did the best he could but, at work went from being a skilled tradesman to doing simple labor.

 

Our next trip south included a trip to Vegas. Tim wanted to meet the security guard who had saved his life by performing CPR and defibrillating his heart. We were fortunate to have that happen and we celebrated with a giant meal at the “Heart Attack Grill!”

 

Tim always entertained us, his family and extended family with his own brand of craziness. Some of his crazy clothes, crazy songs and of course his “musical abilities” will live on and bring laughter to each of us.

 

Tim was stubborn, set in his ways, had an angry streak and was such stickler about time- always arriving places extra early and leaving early as well to avoid traffic. He had shortcomings as we all do, but Tim loved and cared deeply. He was proud of his girls and their accomplishments. His love for Sandy was such that he knew that if he could touch her, even with one finger, then everything would be ok.

 

Tim’s story does not end here. His memories will live on in our hearts and we will smile and even laugh out loud when we think of him.

 

Rest in Peace Tim. Your struggle is over. Forever Loved.

 

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith- and it is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God. Not by works, so no one can boast. Ephesians 2:8-9

 

Cremation has taken place and a private family Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. In the meantime, Tim’s family kindly requests that all of his friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour his memory by watching the photo-biography above. Please, also consider sharing your own photos, memories, and stories by making use of the comment section on this page.

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530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Lesley Manion

April 24, 2021 at 10:52 AM

Well Sandy, I’m at a loss for words. What a beautiful tribute to Tim. Hopefully Tim and Bruce have found each other up there and continue their friendship. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Tim, forever loved never forgotten.

Karen

April 24, 2021 at 9:45 AM

Sending hugs of support in this most difficult time. Such a beautiful tribute to a very loved man. As a coworker of Sandy’s I got to hear some stories of their life together. My you find peace in his memories. Love Karen Ackerman ❤

Cheryl & Jamie

April 23, 2021 at 2:17 PM

I worked with Sandy for many years. When Jamie & I first met Tim, we were all vacationing in Phoenix and decided to travel together to Algodones, Mexico for the day. We soon learned that Tim was more effective at bargaining than we were and could get a better price on anything. We also discovered that Tim didn’t  go small on anything as he crossed the border with big bags full of cheaper meds that he would distribute to all his buddies back home.  When we arrived back in Phoenix, Tim asked if we could remain friends back in Canada. Jamie, with a similar sense of humor, said NO! LOL! We also took a cruise to Baja California with Tim & Sandy. Needless to say we didn’t learn until the second day that Tim didn’t like cruises because he got seasick.  However, he endured well, exploring exotic dishes such as rattlesnake and frog legs.  We spent many occasions with them and thoroughly enjoyed his personality.  You are gone too soon. We will miss you dear friend. 😢 Jamie & Cheryl

Diane Ali

April 23, 2021 at 10:20 AM

Our condolences to the family ! Fond memories of the Bergen family ❤

Kim Mauro

April 22, 2021 at 9:01 PM

You and Tim made my time in AZ so much fun. My heart breaks for you and your family

Margaret

April 22, 2021 at 3:46 PM

Sandy, I send my love and sincerest sympathy to you, the girls and the rest of your family. I am lucky enough to have you both as friends and will always cherish the time we were able to spend together. You’ve created a loving tribute for a life well-lived. Margaret

Geeta Mohammed

April 22, 2021 at 2:34 PM

Sandy, Tim and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family, for the loss of your ,,"Tim".Seemed like he loved and lived his life like he wanted....and i think thats the best way one can be.That is a very,beautiful tribute to him .May he rest in peace and may the great memories you all have of him help you through this time of sorrow...

Mariann

April 22, 2021 at 2:30 PM

These precious moments and memories, have made me laugh and cry and laugh again.  Thank you for sharing.  You have really captured the essence of the man I came to know, love and consider one of my dearest friends.  I will forever and always miss him and wish there had been more time and more laughs.   My most sincere condolences go out to Sandy, Tiffany, Candace and Merren.  My heart aches for anyone who's life Tim touched, because like me, you now have a hole where Tim once was.   Tim if you are listening, "How is that even possible!!"  Put in a good word for me and save me seat?  Until we meet again my friend ... until we meet again!! ❤❤❤

Linda

April 22, 2021 at 1:51 PM

I still find it so hard to believe! Tim was my brother and I was his sis due to role playing at the girls’ school many years ago. Since then he was a Santa for my grandkids, a formidable crib opponent, a great casino partner and a wonderful friend who I never saw enough! His sense of humour was outrageous and contagious. He will be missed by all whose lives he touched. My sincerest condolences to all of Tim’s family. 

Henry & Kay

April 22, 2021 at 1:45 PM

What a lovely tribute!  Although we have never met Tim, we can see he was a wonderful husband and dad.. Precious Memories ❤️🙏 Uncle Henry and Auntie Kay

Barb Swaine

April 22, 2021 at 12:59 PM

John and I would like to extend our condolences to you ,Sandy ,and your family.This is a wonderful tribute to Tim .Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers ❤

Suzanne & Doug

April 22, 2021 at 12:19 PM

Doug & I send our Condolences to Sandy & the girls and family. He was taken to young and will be sadly missed. Always in our memory his humor, jokes and always there to boost someone going thou hard times. R.I.P Tim till we meet again,❤

Helena Scott

April 22, 2021 at 12:02 PM

I still remember Tim coming over dressed as Santa, complete with bells to ring at the door, he couldn't come down the chimney.  He did this to make my youngest sons Christmas special.  Because of Tim my son still believes in Santa Claus, as he saw him for real. Tim was taken too young, my sympathies and condolences to his family and friends  
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