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Valerie Bowles

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VALERIE BOWLES

(née PATRICIAN)

Valerie “The Sunshine Gal” Bowles was born on September 4th, 1949, in Winnipeg to parents Michael and Caroline Patrician. She was the middle of three children, predeceased by her brother John, and survived by her sister Joan. Val is also survived by her Husband Don, daughter Michelle (Kevin), and grandson Kendon.

 

Val married Don Bowles, the love of her life, on May 12th, 1979, and celebrated close to 44 years together. Family was important to Val, and she loved having a large extended family with her sister Joan, and her children, Karen (Chris) and Kevin (Jen), and their children, Kaylee, Kenzie, Ty, Nicole, and Kate. Her extended family also included her sister-in-law Eva and her children, Emily and Matthew (Jessie), and their children, Lewis and Rosie. 

 

Val loved being a grandma and would take every opportunity to spend time with her grandson, Kendon, taking him on outings to the Zoo, Fort Whyte, The Children’s Museum, and other locations that she was excited to share with him. She was looking forward to being a 2x grandma to Michelle and Kevin’s second son, expected in August 2023. 

 

Val's career spanned over 30 years in various inner-city schools. She worked in various positions, including a special education teacher, a resource teacher, and, to close off her career, a guidance counselor.  

 

Through the joy she felt in her career, she made many long-term friendships, leading to her being a long-time book club member until the end. We want to thank her colleagues and book club friends for their support, resources, and visits during Val's final weeks.

 

She was a long-standing member of the "Sailing Club," which has adapted through several locations. She had cared much for these ladies who gave this back to her tenfold.

 

You may start to gather that Val liked to keep herself busy, but this barely scratches the surface. In addition to what was already mentioned, Val volunteered with the Assiniboine Park at the Zoo, Prairie Theatre, and other causes. She took it upon herself to plant flowers and tend to the gardens at her condo complex, making wine, cross-country skiing, going to the gym, making seasonal floral and other arrangements for family and friends in Winnipeg and the Interlake at the cottage, stained glass work, and much much more. 

 

If you tried to keep up with Val's life, you'd be left breathless and in the dust. Val didn't stop moving and didn’t believe in following the rules, often viewing rules as suggestions. If something needed to be done, she'd find a way and think outside the box, often steamrolling people and processes as she did.

 

After meeting her son-in-law, Kevin, Val started donating blood again; her goal was to reach 50 donations in her lifetime. Unfortunately, she was one donation short before the illness took over and provided 49 life-saving donations to others.

 

She always made sure to call old friends to let them know she was thinking about them and even some of their relatives when she thought of it. She had enjoyed her long-time friendship with a girlfriend, Dawn, who lives in Victoria and is very special to Val and vice-versa.                  

 

Val enjoyed planning their winter and spring vacations with travel to Europe, the Maritimes, sun holidays, and winter ski trips. She also took a trip on the Am Track with a girlfriend to Chicago, which allowed them lots of adventure.  

 

Val approached her illness with courage and positivity. She was at peace with what was to come and frequently talked about how she lived a good life, went on many adventures, enjoyed her career, raised a wonderful daughter, and spent precious time with Kendon.

 

But all good things must end, and Val passed peacefully on April 24th at 12:45pm with her husband Don and sister Joan by her side. We believe she won her battle and is now pain-free.

 

Thank you to the staff at Victoria General Hospital, who helped manage her quality of life, and all the friends and family who came to visit and spend time with her.

 

In lieu of flowers, the family request you make a donation to Assiniboine Park, the Winnipeg Humane Society, Prairie Strides, or Cancer Care Manitoba

 

Her Celebration of Life will be on May 4th at the First Unitarian Church at 603 Wellington Crescent at 2:00 pm with support of EthicalDeathCare.com. The celebration will be officiated by Reverend Robin Mather.

 

A live stream of the celebration will be available on YouTube. Guests can watch using the link below.

 

http://youtu.be/4P4hj2QPxDM

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Lynn Lambert

June 14, 2023 at 12:30 AM

We are so very sorry to hear of Val’s passing. You and Val were such great next door neighbours and we loved having fun visits in your hot tub! Our last visit with you was when you were out to Lake Louise for a ski vacation and we had already moved out to Alberta. Val had an amazing amount of energy and we were so impressed with all of the projects she completed so easily.  Our very deepest condolences to you Don and your family!  Lynn Lambert and Rob Litt  ❤

Irene Costa

May 9, 2023 at 3:21 PM

I remember her as a wonderful Educator/Guidance counselor and that smile was a given when ever she was around. My sincere condolences to the family on her passing ❤

Diane, Ron and Steven Minion

May 4, 2023 at 10:10 PM

Don and family, so sorry of Val's passing. She lived life to the fullest. She was always on the go! ❤

Beth McFee

May 4, 2023 at 4:05 PM

We are so sorry to hear about Val. I remember Michelle coming over to our house on Cordova and the girls playing at the cottage. Claire would like to send her thoughts and sympathy to Michelle from her home in Fort Saskatchewan, Alberta.

Laird Hickaway

May 4, 2023 at 12:57 PM

So sorry to hear about Val‘s passing. My earliest memories of meeting Val were in the 1980s during Hickaway/Bowles family gatherings. This was usually centred and celebrated around Scott Bowles‘s birthdays but also fun gatherings at Christmas and Easter. Val always had a wonderful smile and was fun to joke around with. My deepest condolences to Don, Michelle, Kevin, Kendon.  Lots of love Laird Hickaway, and family

Louise Chudy

May 4, 2023 at 3:34 AM

My memories of Val go back to the 1960's when we both attended Sisler High School.  We met in grade 7.  Val was outgoing and engaged in many high school activities such as choir and sporting events.  I tended to be more academic and introverted. Every evening like clockwork Val would phone me to discuss our homework assignments.  In those days it was not unusual to have 2-3 hours of homework to do each night.  Thus, we battled through our high school years together. There were fun times too when Val and I would meet on Burrows Avenue to attend one of the Friday night school dances.  After graduation Val was able to get her driver's license and we spent many enjoyable experiences going to Grand Beach and exploring other areas of Manitoba.  Over the years Val and I had many other experiences including touring England, Scotland and Portugal. Val was a life time friend who I will miss deeply.  My deepest condolences to Don, Michelle and family and Val's sister Joan.   Louise Chudy

Doreen Penneys

May 4, 2023 at 2:25 AM

Dear Don, Michelle and family, and Joan: I'm so sorry for your loss.  My dear cousin Val is no longer with us in person, but know that I will often think of her.  She will always be in my heartfelt, precious memories.  Val and I spent many summer months growing up together as kids.  I remember how, on a daily basis, we got super-excited waiting for the train to pass by her back yard and have the engineers throw us blue chalk.  What an amazing thrill!  I can still clearly picture us jumping and laughing and experiencing the feelings of joy and closeness as soon as the chalk came flying over the fence.  I guess the engineers found their own joy and amusement watching us scramble to catch the chalk.  We always had so much fun together! Other more recent precious memories include having a sleepover at Val's cabin with Joan.  I recall that Val and Joan were early risers (not that I was a late riser, but 7:00 a.m. was a bit early for me).  No problem, though, because we got an early start to another day of fun!  Being with Val was always FUN!  I can picture the three of us in the evening, sitting by the fire in the backyard and enjoying a glass of wine as we spontaneously recounted the day's events and the precious memories of days gone by.  I will miss you very much, Val, and I will always keep you in my heart and cherish the good times that we shared together.  See you down the road, my beloved cousin.  Big, warm hugs with lotsa love, xoxoxo, Doreen.

Jennifer Forsyth

May 3, 2023 at 11:32 PM

Val was a beautiful woman inside and out!  I will miss her sunny disposition and terrific sense of humor.  Rest easy Val.  Book club will miss you so much.  My sincere condolences to you Don and Michelle and family.

Pat Bell

May 3, 2023 at 9:50 PM

What a beautiful picture of Val.  This is how I remember her - always smiling and happy.  My sincere condolences to the family

Danuta Strebly

May 3, 2023 at 7:06 PM

Dear Don, Michelle and extended family. So sorry to hear of the passing of your "Beautiful Val" her smile would always lighten any room she entered. Sending hugs and our sincere condolences. Danuta & Joe  Strebly 

Larry Harder

May 3, 2023 at 2:00 PM

That smile!  Recognizable after decades. I was so saddened to hear of Val’s passing from our mutual friend Kathy Bergen.  I too met Val in the mid 1970s.  I remember the exact day.  It was a Friday in August 1976 at Grand Beach on Lake Winnipeg, where my friend Mark Collins and I had gone to camp for the weekend.  As we were barbecuing our steaks after a late arrival, we met a group of happy campers “walking” down the road.  That group included Val, Kathy, Norma, and another friend called Wafiq. Mark and Kathy had met once. That was a fateful encounter.   Norma became my wife, and Kathy a life-long friend.  For the first few years after that we all had many happy times in Winnipeg with that group.  Then, some of us went our separate ways, Norma and I to the US, the UK and Ontario, Kathy to Palestine and the US, and Wafiq who knows where. Val stayed in Winnipeg, met Don, had Michelle and the rest is her history. Norma and I tried to see Val and Don when we returned to Winnipeg when we could.  We shared stories of the births of our children, first our Rebeccah, then Val and Don’s Michelle, and had the customary exchange of Christmas news for many years.  But, alas, I lost contact when Norma died in 1997.  As I returned often to Manitoba with Norma and Rebeccah, and later just Rebeccah, to visit my Dad, I often wondered about Val and Don, and Michelle, but there never seemed to be enough time or opportunity to follow up, especially after my sister and mother both passed away in the 80s, and then Norma.  I guess life just happens. And death.  I’d like Don to know, though, that the $100 Canada Savings Bond that you and Val gifted to Rebeccah (an extraordinarily generous gift then, and even now) was put to good use as intended when it matured, for music lessons, which has given Rebeccah a life-long love of music, especially the flute and musical theatre.  Now that is a fitting legacy! My sincerest condolences to Don and Michelle. 

Scott Bowles

May 3, 2023 at 2:29 AM

Very sad to hear of this news-my sincere condolences to all Val's family and friends.  Val was my Aunt and I can remember her being around from basically my earliest conscious memories.  She lived a good life and was well loved and cared about.  Very sorry for my uncle Don and Cousin Michelle.  Her memory will live on.

Kathy Bergen

May 3, 2023 at 1:17 AM

I have known Val since the mid 1970s when she and I were teachers in Winnipeg.  Val and I and Norma, who was a nurse, met every Friday morning for breakfast on our way to work.  It was always a time of sharing and fun stories.  I left for Seminary in the US and then for Palestine for 17 years.  We reconnected when I returned to the US and ten years ago to Canada.  She would always be the first person I contacted when I came to Winnipeg.  I always enjoyed our conversations.  The last time I saw her was in September of 2022.  We talked about many things and in particular how important long-term friendships were.  She often talked about Don, the love of her life.  She talked about Michelle and how proud she was of her and who she had become and who she chose to marry. Kendon....brought out the sparkles in her eyes as she talked about her. I will miss her dearly.  My heartfelt condolences to Don and family.   .❤❤❤

Lynne

May 2, 2023 at 1:10 AM

❤ I always enjoyed volunteering with Val at the zoo. She had so much energy and a wonderful smile.  I will miss her.

Jean Read

May 1, 2023 at 9:39 PM

I was so sorry to hear that Val had died.  I know Val from Rady. A really lovely person.   After one class we had a chat about remembering each other’s names and the challenges of remembering names as you get older.   She came up with “my pal Val” to help me remember her name and then as my name is Jean she decided it would be “Jean, Jean the dancing machine”. I saw her at Rady, but also ran into her at the Park with her bike, and most recently at the Salvation Army thrift store.  We would talk about grandchildren.  On my last chat with her she told me about how her grandson was the most cheerful baby she had ever known, and told me the story of how he had kissed her.  Val described the moment this way …..I suddenly realised he was going in for a kiss!. We both chuckled with delight at the thought of a kiss from a grandson.   A truly lovely person, who I always enjoyed chatting to.  My condolences to all of her family.

Annemarie Wiebe

May 1, 2023 at 9:29 PM

Dear Don, My sincere sympathy to you and your family at the loss of your "Sunshine Girl". Annemarie Wiebe

G. Cumming

May 1, 2023 at 8:09 PM

Sincere condolences to you and your family, Don.  Cherish the many happy memories .

Donna Martin (former colleague of Don- CGC)

May 1, 2023 at 2:49 PM

Sending deepest condolences to Don, Michelle, Kevin and Kendon. Val was a very respected and highly regarded person within the school system and collaborating agencies.  May the many wonderful memories comfort you at this time. 

Jennifer Krestanowich

May 1, 2023 at 3:22 AM

Don, I am saddened to learn of Val's passing. My condolences to you and your family. May your memories of Val, and the support of family and friends, provide comfort as you continue your life journey without her walking beside you. Sincerely, Jennifer Krestanowich, former colleague at CGC.

Terumi Kuwada

April 30, 2023 at 7:06 PM

remembering Val with many fond memories.  This picture was taken on April 9, when I had the pleasure of visiting Val with Don and Michelle by her side. As always, Val had a big smile on her face and talked of the gratitude she felt having many friends and family who visited her, called her, emailed her, sent her cards, etc. She was very positive and was at peace with the journey ahead for her. My sincere condolences to Don, Michelle, Kevin, and Kendon,  Sincerely, Terumi 

Dawn McBain

April 29, 2023 at 11:34 PM

'The Sunshine Gal' is a very apt description of Val.  We met back in the 80's when we both taught at R. B. Russell.  But our friendship really blossomed during the last 15 years...with her in Winnipeg and me in Victoria.  When I made trips back to Winnipeg, Val would share her passions for the Zoo and the Human Rights Museum and treat me to visits.  And we would also spend time at her cottage - BBQing steak and/or cooking hot dogs over the fire. (rain or shine).  Her trips to Victoria were also good fun - camping, going to plays in Chemainus, a trip to Seattle...lots of great memories.  Val was up for anything!  In the last few years, we shared regular phone calls and had fun sending each other little 'treats' in the mail.  I can still hear her cheery and lilting "Hello Dawn!"  She would tell me the latest news - especially about Michelle and Kevin and of course little Kendon who was the 'light of her life'.  This quote describes my knowing of Val - "There are many people that we meet in our lives but only a very few will make a lasting impression on our minds and hearts.  These people will always listen and talk to you.  They will care about your happiness and well-being.  They will like you for who you are and they will support you at all times."  That was Val to me.  I will miss our phone calls and the 'treats' in the mail.  I will miss my dearest of friends.  My heart goes out to Don, Michelle, Kevin, and little Kendon at this difficult time.  Know that Val is now your Guardian Angel.  May you feel her loving presence and protection...❤

Erika Uustalu-Nicholson

April 29, 2023 at 8:29 PM

Remembering Val very fondly from our teaching days at R.B.Russell…always a smile on her face, ready to pitch in when things got tough but also ready to have fun during some of the zany open houses and other occasions that were held there. Wishing comfort and support to Val’s family and close circle of friends. In sympathy and friendship - Erika Uustalu-Nicholson

Deborah Gay-de Vries

April 29, 2023 at 8:26 PM

I am really going to miss Val around PTE and the joy she brought to every show she volunteered at,  She was so proud of her grandson and of being a Grandma. This picture of her is so perfect. It is exactly what I see in my mind when I think of her.  I feel lucky that she was one of my PTE volunteers.  Condolences to all of her family and friends.

Janet

April 29, 2023 at 8:02 PM

Sending my sympathy to you Dona and your family.  Val was a great neighbour, and more importantly, a good person.  She was energetic, witty, smart, and loving to her family especially her grandson. I always looked forward to talking to her in the spring and summer about plants. Her presence will be missed around our condo complex.  Janet

Marlyn Harding

April 29, 2023 at 8:01 PM

Dear Joan and family   I did not know your sister personally.She sounds like an amazing Sister Wife Mother,Grandmother    Remember Death leaves a heartache no one can heal but Love leaves memories no one can steal.May all your wonderful memories somehow sustain you in your time of sorrow.                     My deepest condolences to you all Marlyn Harding

Carole Jantz

April 29, 2023 at 7:34 PM

Val loved to tell stories. She told stories with wisdom and humour. That was my experience with Val in the Sister MacNamara Book Club. She told stories of her travels, special teaching moments, friends, but most of all, she told stories of her beloved family. When Kendon came into her life she was the proudest grandma around a room full of grandmas. She told stories of all their adventures together. The book club will miss her so much. Sending deep condolences to the family. May the memories of your beautiful wife, mom, sister and aunt carry you through the difficult days ahead.

Chris Kaye

April 29, 2023 at 7:15 PM

I am saddened to hear of Val’s passing. Val and I were friends in our early 20’s and spent a summer in Europe together. Val always was full of fun and wisdom and had a very positive outlook on life. I last saw her before the pandemic and regret not following the voice in my head recently that said to call Val. Funny how that voice seemed to tell me something. I wish I had listened to it. My deepest condolence to the family.  Chris Kaye (Lotz, McWilliams) 

Betty Jackson

April 29, 2023 at 6:46 PM

We are sad to hear of Val's death.  You have our deepest condolences.  Val was a generous person and a great gardener.  When we were new neighbours and planting a rose garden, Val brought us a rose bush for the garden.  She lived a wonderful fun-packed life.  She will live on in Kendon and the wee one yet to come. Lake neighbours, Betty and Bruce

Rosanne NC

April 29, 2023 at 5:26 PM

Don, sending you and Michelle heartfelt condolences.

Sylvia Savoie

April 29, 2023 at 4:00 PM

Don I am saddened to hear of the passing of your beautiful wife Val. I remember how fondly you used to talk about her. Your love for her was very evident. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. Sylvia Savoie

Denise Poirier

April 29, 2023 at 3:47 PM

Don, my sincere sympathies to you and Michelle on the passing of Valerie.  

Pat Senior

April 29, 2023 at 3:39 PM

Dear Joan, Don and family. I am so sorry to hear of Valerie's passing.  My sincere condolences.

Heather and Doug

April 29, 2023 at 3:05 PM

Don and Michelle, Your Ponemah neighbours are heart broken to hear of the passing of Val. I was always in awe of Val when I saw her at the cottage.  First, cleaning up the garden then on her bike, then carrying the kayak down to the lake! Sending deep condolences. 

Sid Love

April 29, 2023 at 2:42 PM

My sincere condolences to you and your family Don.  

Dawn Donnelly

April 29, 2023 at 2:07 PM

Don, my heartfelt sympathies to you, Michelle and your family.  I worked only briefly with Val in my career but she was well respected.  You have painted such a beautiful picture of her and her life. Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.  

Anne Dunlop

April 29, 2023 at 1:22 PM

My condolences to Don and family. Val always did such a wonderful job keeping our condo building beautiful with flowers every summer. She will be missed very much. Anne Dunlop, condo neighbour

Diane Zack

April 29, 2023 at 12:43 PM

I am one of the book club gals that Val was part of for 23 years. We all worked together at Sister Mac where Val was a counselor. We were and are a tight knit group and Val will always be with us. She was the ‘life of the party’ with her positive energy that was contagious. She hosted book club in January even though she already wasn’t feeling well, but told us she was having a good day that Wednesday afternoon. Val was a compassionate and caring teacher and friend to all. She was open-minded and non-judgmental. She had great initiative and vision for helping children, including starting a knitting club at Sister Mac. What could be better? Kids would learn a skill, experience the pleasure of sitting together in a group, talking and sharing, and actually make something real, like a scarf! I can hear Val’s voice talking about this and so many other great projects she was part of. I hear her voice a lot and think I always will. Dear friend, I will miss you so much. We all will miss you so much.  Love forever, Diane

sharron and ken parasiuk

April 28, 2023 at 11:55 PM

so sorry to hear about Val she was a very wonderful person to have known, especially at the cottage where we were introduced, she will be sadly missed by those who knew her, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
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