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Danielle Buckingham

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DANIELLE MONIQUE BUCKINGHAM

June 10, 1970 – August 26, 2025

Danielle Monique Buckingham passed away filled with love, peace, and bravery at home on Tuesday, August 26th. Our hearts are heavy with sadness yet comforted knowing that she has found peace. 


She is survived by her loving partner Blair Shymko and his family; her mother Ruth Buckingham; her aunt Irm Matthes; her sister Bridget Grosek; and Bridget’s three sons.


Danielle was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba and as a happy child showed the fierce determination that would guide her for her whole life. At a young age she was involved with the St. Boniface Panthers Gymnastics and was a competitive diver with the Pan Am Diving Club at a provincial and national level. As a teenager she continued to play various sports with her high school teams. Later, running became her adult passion which she continued for many years. Her love of animals, especially dogs, was well known despite her being allergic to them. Her beloved whippet Sam was her constant companion before he passed away.


Danielle went through the French immersion program for her schooling in St. Boniface which served her well throughout her life. She held several roles in the Federal Government and moving to Quebec led to a position reviewing parole documents in her second language. This job was extremely demanding which suited her precise mind and her attention to detail. When she was no longer able to run, Danielle turned to another one of her great loves – words. Danielle would play, and most often win, several games of online Scrabble at one time against opponents from around the world, while insisting on playing British spellings only. She was also an avid reader, working her way through the classics, with Dickens, Camus, Kafka, and George Eliot being particular favourites.


Danielle was known for maintaining a truly positive attitude especially in the face of a terrible progressive illness. She had the ability to strike up a conversation with anybody, making them feel immediately welcome with her warm smile and sharp sense of humour. She was consistently generous to those in need, and was fiercely loyal to those she loved. She was a truly beautiful individual that was able to love without reservation those that she held close to her heart.


Danielle is deeply missed by family and friends. It is an honour and privilege to have been part of her life. The brightness and love she brought to our lives as she dealt with her progressing illness with so few complaints will never be forgotten.


A special thanks to the numerous health-care providers whose care assisted her on this journey.


If friends so desire, memorial donations may be made directly to Darcy’s Animal Rescue Center at 730B Century Street, Winnipeg, Manitoba or online at https://www.canadahelps.org/en/dn/6154.


A private celebration of life will be held in the coming weeks.


Danielle’s family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by sharing photos, memories, and stories, using the comment section on this page.


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Todd

October 4, 2025 at 9:36 AM

I knew Danielle through friends and growing up through high school. She was always fun, laughing and a wonderful person to be around. She always made those around her feel an important part of her life. She will be sadly missed by all but I am thankful I was able to call her a friend

Janet

September 13, 2025 at 4:14 PM

I met Danielle during high school; she was a Southdale girl hanging out with the Dakota girls, and we just clicked. She always had such an effortless style and was truly a beautiful person, inside and out. Her laugh and smile were her trademark. We made lots of great memories (not a lot of them captured on camera, thankfully), so many drives listening to music and chatting, making our favourite Nanaimo bars at any time of day, going to Scandals and dancing, coming to my RRC grad as a date; she was up for all adventures. When we both ended up relocating to Calgary in the mid-90s, we would have our Christmas dinners together and lots of dog playdates in between. Over the years, we would text a bit, and I remember one text I received from her out of the blue on a Thanksgiving weekend. She said she just had to reach out as she was fondly reminiscing about the first time she had pumpkin pie at my parents' home in the late 80s. She loved her sweets :)

I will miss you, my friend. Sending hugs, condolences, and love to Mrs. B.

 

Lise

September 9, 2025 at 2:17 PM

I met Danielle through her next door neighbor back when I was about 9 and lived down the street, We ended up loving the same sports - playing teeball together and doing gymnastics. We were able to keep in touch over the years, as we tended to be living in the same three provinces at the same time! I still recall her receiving her diagnosis while she was living in Calgary in the late 90s, and was consistently amazed over the years by her tenacity and will to take care of her body and mind, and to keep the disease at bay as much as was possible. Danielle was so open and 'real', and was able to fit in with everyone. She had the best laugh and was the best dog mama. A true gem of a human. Thanks to those who took such good care of her - I know you got so much in return.

Bernice/ Bunny

September 8, 2025 at 12:04 PM

I met Danielle in grade 10, she walked into the class and I knew then I needed to be her friend. She was the coolest, smartest and most beautiful girls I had even met. After all these years she stills is and I was blessed to keep her as my friend through happy, sad and difficult times. She was one of a kind in every way and I miss her some much already there is a hole that will never be filled in my heart now that she is gone but I am glad she is no longer in pain. Blaire you were her angel and I'm grateful you were with her she loved you with all her heart. I and thinking of you and missing her.

Kelly

September 7, 2025 at 7:28 PM

I first met Danielle when I was 10yrs old and moved to Winnipeg, - her dad brought her by while he was building our pool. We were just four days apart in age, and from then on, Danielle and I shared so many “firsts” together. I practically lived at her place—Mrs. B was like a second mom to me.

Though the years and miles separated us, we never lost touch. I watched as MS ravaged her beautiful body, yet Danielle faced it all with incredible grace and stoicism. She never lost her positivity.

Just this past July, we were texting about the gift of childhood friendships—the kind where you know each other before the world tells you who to be. Danielle is woven into the fabric of my soul, and it breaks my heart that she was taken too soon. But I find comfort knowing she is at peace now, free from suffering.

Rest in peace, my beautiful friend. I loved you so—and I know you knew. 😘

Josh

September 6, 2025 at 8:01 AM

 

Having shared our lives for 17 years (2000-2017), Danielle and I made a lot of fun and beautiful memories together as well as with family and friends — from many memorable trips to countless bouts of laughter, from home renovations to backyard BBQs, and from job transitions to inter-province moves. What a ride!

One anecdote that we both liked to laugh about dates to our days in Saint-Bruno-de-Montarville.  Part of my work at the Canadian Space Agency required me to travel regularly to various space companies. Our team had adopted the habit of using the same family-owned taxi service to travel to and from the Montreal airport. One of the regular drivers was the owner’s daughter (who later became our real estate agent). It became a running joke for Claudia to tease me about a pie that Danielle had made a tradition of baking to welcome me back from longer trips.  Not

knowing that Danielle was 12 years younger than me, and having only seen me, an engineer, in business suits, Claudia clearly had a specific image of what my pie-baking wife must look like.

Being that we frequented the same local coffee shop on weekends, Danielle and I ran into Claudia one Saturday morning. When I introduced them, it was obvious that Claudia was taken aback about Danielle’s youth and beauty. Once she had a couple of seconds to process, she responded: “Well done Mister Dore!”

We both liked the compliment, and years later —after Claudia transitioned to Royal LePage—when it came time to sell our Saint-Bruno house and buy our condo in Saint-Lambert, Danielle called on her to be our agent. She called on her again when we sold our condo before our return to Winnipeg. On both occasions, there was the smell of a freshly baked pie!

Lori

September 5, 2025 at 9:30 PM

Danielle ,although I hadn't seen you in many years our text exchanges made me feel like I had just seen you yesterday. You are the kindest human being I have ever known. Thank you for continuing to make me feel like I was your sister even though I'm only your cousin.. Blair and auntie Ruth I hope you can feel us all holding you up. She truly was an angel in this world.

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