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Ruth Cowan

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RUTH ELLEN COWAN

(née BADGER)

October 31, 1951 - August 12, 2019

With heavy hearts, we announce that Ruth passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on August 12, 2019 in Health Sciences Center after a battle with cancer; she tried but could not win at the age of 67.

 

Ruth is survived by her husband and life-long supporter of 46 years Phil; her children Matt (Amanda) and Kelly (Glenn); her granddaughter Mackenzie; her sisters Martha (Richard) and Cathy (Bill) as well as many in-laws, nieces, nephews, cousins, and an abundance of friends near and far, old and new. She is pre-deceased by her parents Harry and Helen.

 

Ruth was born and raised in Winnipeg attending Rockwood, River Heights, St Mary's Academy and the U of M where she was a proud Alpha Gam and met her future husband who was a TKE. They were married November 3, 1973 and began a journey of 46 years which took them from Ontario to BC with Phil's work before returning to Winnipeg in 1992. They lived in 19 different houses and made wonderful friends in everyone. Along the way they had two children; Matt in 1979 and Kelly in 1986.

 

Ruth worked as an accountant/bookkeeper in many towns and cities, most recently in Winnipeg at Truserv Canada, always making great friends wherever she worked.

 

Ruth dedicated her life to her family and her community. She was not a person of tremendous means but was integral in raising millions for numerous organizations large and small. From various school parent-teacher associations, to Breast Cancer Manitoba and The Center of Hope; CIBC Run for the Cure, which she chaired early on and proudly watched flourish; Pink Ribbon Ladies golf tournament as a board member and decoration chair par excellence; volunteer and chair of the Teddy Bear’s Picnic; member of the Chown Guild; Children's Hospital Foundation; the Book Market and most recently, albeit too briefly, on the board of Jocelyn House Foundation.

 

When not involved in work and charity, she was an avid reader and passionate about family. She was immensely proud of her children, Matt and Kelly, and their partners as they matured into such special people who were greatly influenced by her shining example as they found their partners and began their own journeys thru life. She also had a very special place in her heart for her only granddaughter Mackenzie for whom she would do anything.

 

She was also very dedicated to her extended family and was chief organizer of all family gatherings from Major Mafia lunches to Christmas at Fort Whyte and nights at the ballet. Her favorite holidays were the Christmas season and of course Halloween. This latest attempt to change the date of Halloween would have really made her mad.

 

Through all of this, she maintained close ties with many lifelong friends from school to work; volunteering to her beloved gourmet group and travel companions. She travelled whenever possible from Europe to the Caribbean and extensively in Canada from coast to coast. Her journey was cut short but full of love and laughter, spreading joy wherever she was. She will be sorely missed by all who knew her.

 

Friends and relatives are encouraged to share in a photo-tribute, eulogy, stories and condolences for the family by commenting in the comments section of this page.

 

In lieu of flowers, the family requests a donation be made in her name to any of the aforementioned organizations which she supported.

 

A celebration of her life will be held 2:00 p.m. Saturday, September 28, 2019 at 603 Wellington Crescent at Academy Road (Unitarian Church).

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Cathy Lantz

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

The Pink Ribbon Ladies Golf Classic for Hope Committee are very saddened to hear of her passing.  As a longstanding committee member we witnessed Ruth’s compassion and tireless commitment to supporting women.  She spearheaded the gala banquets offered to golfers in our fundraising tournaments and always delivered delightful “themes” every year.  Golfers looked forward to being awed by her creativity.   Ruth was an amazing supporter of Breast Cancer fundraisers and initiatives to inspire and offer hope for those who were battling.   She was a key member of our committee for many years and our resulting support programs offered from donations to the Breast and Gyne Cancer Centre of Hope.  On behalf of past and present members of the Pink Ribbon Ladies Golf Classic for Hope, we sincerely thank you for your contribution to improving the lives of those in need and send warm wishes of condolences to your family and many friends. Cathy Lantz, Chair

Cathy Gauthier

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Ruth was an amazing talent.  She recruited me and my young curling teams I coached for years to help set up the Breast Cancer Centre of Hope golf tournament banquet toom.  It was not enough that it was an amazing dinner for Ruth.  She wanted the women to feel so speacial and to walk in and go "wow".  And they did without fail.  Ruth spent an entire year thinking of themes and how the room could be transformed and every year it was truly a work of art.  She has inspired so many women to give back and to volunteer and to make a difference for others.  Ruther, thank you for all you have done. 

Marilyn Himphreys

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Our dear dear friend Ruthie, we are so thankful for your friendship and the countless memories woven through time. We will miss you so our treasured friend! Love always, Marilyn, Neil and Family Xxoo

Colleen & Robert Rollwagen

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Thinking of you all at this time. Looking forward to seeing everyone in September. I will miss having a ''sister".....having 4 brothers I love having sister in laws!!! We have many memories of Phil&Ruth and Matt&Kelly at Innisbeg cottage near Ottawa that we will treasure. \ Our deepest condolences and see you soon. Love Colleen (Phil's sister) , Robert and family from Ottawa. PS Loved the pic's and the beautiful song !!!❤

Rebecca

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I have a hard time putting into words the woman that Ruth was.  From the day I met her she welcomed my family.  From dinners to the birth of my own children, she was "Momma Ruth".  I always told Amanda she won the lottery with the Cowan family.  My family and I were blessed to be part of 17 years with her. From short visits to celebrations of milestones and holidays, Ruth was always in charge.  She'd always tell it like it was without making you feel anything but love. I was so blessed to have been part of a small part of her life and she in mine. Her party planning and execution will be missed. Her love for her children and Phil was always apparent.   I will miss that laugh and commanding voice that you could hear in any room and that special way she had of making everyone feel they were family.  Much love from, The Ellis/Scoble Family

Sabrina Torres

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was blessed to have known Ruth for the past 14 years. Of course I didn’t meet her 14 years ago but that’s when I met her daughter in law and we quickly became the best of friends.  I remember hearing stories of her as Amanda gushed over Ruths endless generosity. Opening her home when it was needed,  her dedication to extended family and numerous clubs and of course her much anticipated Sunday dinners.  It would be a few years until I had the pleasure to meet her, and she was everything that had been described. Ruth invited me and my family to share in their time at the cabin and even insisted to watch our children so we could have some grown up time. It wasn’t long until we were even part of the Christmas celebrations. Ruth was always inviting and giving. I would even forget that I wasn’t actually part of the family. My favourite memories though would have to be being a part of Matt and Amanda’s wedding and baby celebrations. I was elbow deep in what ruth called “fancy f@!$&ing sam-Itches” all the while Ruth supervising the entire operation. I never did get filling to bread ratio correct but Ruth always appreciative for the effort.  I learned quickly that Ruth could do no wrong in the eyes of Matt. His adoration for his mom was very apparent every time he spoke of her. “Ruth Cowan is a saint” he would say. And he was right in every sense. I will miss Ruth’s expressive nature, her magnetic personality and her abundant humour. Ruth defiantly knew how to throw a party and I’m extremely blessed to be a part of her celebration of life.  Thank you Ruth for being a part of my life. Sabrina and family

Terry and Mary Cowan and family.

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

 The COWAN family have  always been proud of the wonderful, close bond that Phil and Ruth had. We grieve with them but are also very  thankful for the full and fruitful life Ruth had. Terry and Mary Cowan and family.

Linda Sawchuk

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Auntie Ruthie – thank you for always being there and always hosting us, no matter how many times you would have to have the carpet cleaned after I visited. You were always there and always welcomed me/us back.  I remember fondly traveling to the different cities and towns you, Phil, Matt and Kelly called home.  Family trips to Newmarket, Thunder Bay, and Port Moody.  You welcomed Linda and me into your home in Port Moody as newlyweds – you and I both wisely married redheads.  I remember starting our young family and taking our daughters to the Teddy Bear Picnic – that my Aunt Ruth had personally organized and in my story-telling - all by herself.  If one feels relevance through social relationships, then there were none better than the organizer of the Teddy Bear picnic in Assiniboine Park. Our daughters felt like 3 and 4 year old rock stars.  Thank you as well for bringing our large, extended families together.  Fort Whyte was a tonne of work, but helped create the family connectedness that we all appreciate and love today.  As one who travelled to Fort Whyte from East Kildonan, River Park South and Victoria, BC – thank you.  It is one of our defining get-togethers in our family.   We will sorely miss you, but you will always be with us in our hearts, our memories and in our connectedness to each other.   Love Jamie ❤    

Linda Sawchuk

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

We are so deeply saddened for the loss of Ruthie and appreciated that she stayed connected with us even though we live in BC. We loved it when we could make it into town for the Fort Whyte family event and when I was able to attend Mafia lunches. We admired her planning, decorating and cooking skills. She was devoted to her family and I can still remember some valuable parenting tips she gave me, which I took to heart. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends and we will miss her robust laugh and frankness. She is a prime example of a life well lived.

Randy Johnson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Ruth Badger was the first love of my life. We were in Grade 2 together at Rockwood, but lost track of each other after elementary school. We used to go to the Brock-Corydon library after school, on Fridays, usually with classmate Debbie Berzuk. I have never forgotten... and often wondered about Ruth, hoping she had a good life, answered tonight when I found this tribute.   I came across our class photo over a year ago, and wrote this poem, on November 8, 2019. With love, Randy Johnson novel enchantment     Ruth and Debbie were my beautiful bookends   when one of life’s early chapters was written Friday afternoons, after school, age seven following my heart, the highlight of the week, when we walked 20 blocks each way to the public library during winter we huddled together inseparably        bundled up in boots scarves toques and mittens snowflakes wafting down, stinging swirling flurries Ruth’s rosy red cheeks, Debbie’s sparkling blue eyes sandwiched in the middle I was in love completely smitten  I don’t recall our conversations nor what books were lent I barely recall what they looked like, no idea where they went  I have one class photo, many pages have turned since then but my memories are better and indelibly permanent
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