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Emil Delnea

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EMIL DELNEA

March 20, 1965 — November 30, 2021

Emil passed away peacefully, on Tuesday, November 30, 2021 at the age of 56. 

 

Though young in years when he passed, he would say that his life was full, surrounded by a family he loved dearly, numerous friends that he would consider family, and a lifetime of unbelievable experiences.  The ‘Cat’ is the closest they come to a superhero; his uncanny ability to cheat death was nothing short of supernatural, and yes, all (most) of those stories were true!  Emil was a larger-than-life personality; he was loud, fiercely protective, unapologetic, authentic, funny, witty, and he will be missed dearly.
 
Emil is survived by his wife and best friend Leslie, and their three children, Jace, Jesse and Camryn; his “sisters” Cindy, Susannah, Maureen, Tracey, Lisa, Chris, Marilyn, Sandra, Betty, and Rhonda; his “brothers” John, Russ, Dany, Greg, Andy, Mike, Wayne, and Jim; numerous nieces and nephews; and so many close friends he considered family (you know who you are).  Emil was predeceased by his “parents” Bill and Bea, and Sylvester and Anna; and his brothers Norman and Richard.
 
Cremation has taken place, and a private celebration of his life will take place at a later date.  Emil always had a story to tell, beginning with, “Did I ever tell you about the time ….”   We encourage family and friends to honour his memory and visit his tribute page at EthicalDeathCare.com. Memories and stories published by those who knew him are available there.

“To all in my life, Jace, Jesse, Camryn and my wife Leslie…. the backbone of our family, I am very proud that I was blessed with your presence in my life. “
--Emil Delnea--
 
Donations, in memory of Emil, may be made in support of Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF), website www.jdrf.ca or toll free 1-877-287-3533.

Emil’s favorite poem that he referenced often, was “The Indispensable Man” by Saxon White Kessinger. This poem embodies how Emil lived his life:  he did his best, overcame many personal challenges, and he was proud of his accomplishments; friends, family, and making an impact.

 

Emil, you did all of those things, and you will not soon be forgotten.   You have come very close to becoming an indispensable man!   Rest in peace.

 

The Indispensable Man

 

Sometime when you’re feeling important;

Sometime when your ego’s in bloom;

Sometime when you take it for granted,

You’re the best qualified in the room;

Sometime when you felt that your going,

Would leave an unfillable hole,

Just follow these simple instructions,

And see how they humble your soul.

 

Take a bucket and fill it with water,

Put your hand in it up to the wrist,

Pull it out and the hole that’s remaining,

Is a measure of how much you’ll be missed.

You can splash all you wish when you enter,

You may stir up the water galore,

But stop, and you’ll find that in no time,

It looks quite the same as before.

 

The moral of this quaint example,

Is to do just the best that you can,

Be proud of yourself but remember,

There’s no indispensable man.

~Saxon White Kessinger

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Wally

January 3, 2022 at 7:43 PM

Dearest Leslie, Jace, Jesse and  Camryn we were so saddened to learn of Emils passing. As a neighbor and friend we were always delighted to have him stop by and grace us with his great wit , humor and positive attitude. Our condolences to Leslie and his lovely family. May his beautiful soul Rest in Peace. Wally and Mary Sotski. Crystal Lake.

Sharon Young

December 10, 2021 at 7:10 PM

Some of the bonds you form in high school are everlasting. It was so great seeing you again in 2017 for the U2 concert. Reminiscing about the old days and conversing like we hadn’t missed a beat. Darren and I are sad to hear of Emil’s passing and send our condolences.  Many times we have laughed about some of the old stories and more recently cried for the loss of such a force of nature. Our memories give us comfort and rest assured that we will never forget Emil, he left a mark that will last a lifetime. With love Sharon Young and Darren Benning (not the best photo, no iPhones back then)

John J. Šimić

December 10, 2021 at 2:33 PM

Still laughing thinking about Emil pouring a pitcher of beer on Two Face Frankie's head at the windup.   "Ohh! You wanna be one of the boys again now Frank?! Sure, c'mere...".  Too few Emil's in this world.

Dave Tucker

December 8, 2021 at 9:30 PM

I was lucky enough to work with Emil at the Manitoba Youth Centre for a few years. Physically strong, mentally strong and loyalty that was unmatched, that was Emil.  If he felt it was right he would challenge you.  Ask any former inmates, co-workers & especially management!!  A hard worker and a great guy, it was so fun to be with him inside the jail and outside the jail.  Leslie and family I’m so sorry for your loss.  There is only one Emil Delnea and I’m very glad to have known him and call him a friend. 

John J Šimić

December 8, 2021 at 6:30 PM

Sounds like Emil's greatest celebration was his family. Great on him, and in the comfort and peace his memories will bring to you all. John J. Šimić

Reg Tweten

December 7, 2021 at 5:44 PM

I was Emil's grade seven teacher at Glen Elm School here in Regina. (1977) I was saddened to hear of Emil's passing. Emil was a good student that I enjoyed very much. He was smart and compassionate about a great many things. He was always kind and considerate of others. I got along with him very well and had many laughs together. My condolences to the family. He was a gift from God and now he is a gift to God. 

Karla

December 7, 2021 at 1:03 AM

We will miss chats with Emil in the front yard or through the back fence. We know he looked out for us, and that will always be greatly appreciated. Our condolences to the whole family, from your neighbours Roman and Karla.

Paula MacMillan

December 6, 2021 at 9:37 PM

Leslie, Jace, Jesse and Camryn my deepest condolences on Emil's passing.  Although we didn't see each other often, it was always a lovely and lively visit to your home.  Rest in peace Emil.❤

Christina Eklof

December 6, 2021 at 5:55 PM

Well big brother, it breaks my heart that that I have to say goodbye. We always knew this day would come, but it doesn't make it easier! You have taught me many life lessons and for that I am so grateful. I loved our relationship and how honest it was. I will always cherish the time I got to spend with you! Crazy times but so much fun.. Leslie, Jace, Camryn & Jessie, I will always be here and hope we can continue to create more family memories together.  “Go Rest High on that Mountain” Emil!  Love you forever! Your sister Chris❤

Tracey

December 6, 2021 at 4:35 AM

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Lindsey Hofmeister

December 5, 2021 at 11:05 PM

Nothing but great memories of hanging out together.   We could always find a little trouble to get into.    Becoming Fathers was always considered our greatest achievement.   So sorry for your loss.  

Lorelei Chapman

December 5, 2021 at 10:07 PM

Leslie my condolences to you and the family. I’m so sorry for your loss.  I  really enjoyed reading Emil’s obituary. He was an amazing man obviously!  I’m glad you’re surrounded by love and good friends.  Lorelei Chapman 

Tanya Simes

December 5, 2021 at 6:41 PM

I feel so blessed for having known Emil. I have many memories that will always include Emil. A late night bonfire, with a stray cat. Emil playing the spoons. Emil volunteering to man the fire, for the overnight shift, at every pig or beef roast. Emil was so alive, kind and caring, protective, and specifically for me, understanding, compassionate, and inclusive.  Emil was incredibly funny and had a fantastic sense of humour. My mom could not pronounce his name and called him “Elmer,” for at least a decade. I was mortified. Emil found it hilarious! Leslie, Jace, Jesse, and Camryn my sincere condolences. I am deeply saddened by the lost  Emil. He was stellar man. Tanya ❤️

Maureen Simes

December 5, 2021 at 6:17 PM

Emil, You are a wonderful example of authenticity and "dancing like there's no-one watching". You lived and embraced life like no other. I will always cherish your exuberance and you inspire me to dig deeper ... to embrace joy, tell more stories, and seek out adventures. Cheers brother! We will all be joining you at some point ... and when you tell the story of this last adventure, I'm sure it will be extraordinary ... might even include a samurai sword ❤ Love, Maureen

Ida Di Iorio

December 5, 2021 at 5:32 PM

Dear Leslie, I wanted to share this picture of you and Emil when we were in our 20’s and we would go camping. We use to have a blast ! Good old Ram days ❤

Tanya Simes

December 5, 2021 at 4:31 PM

I feel so blessed for having known Emil. I have many memories that will always include Emil. A late night bonfire, with a stray cat. Emil playing the spoons. Emil volunteering to man the fire, for the overnight shift, at every pig or beef roast. Emil was so alive, kind and caring, protective, and specifically for me, understanding, compassionate, and inclusive.  Emil was incredibly funny and had a fantastic sense of humour. My mom could not pronounce his name and called him “Elmer,” for at least a decade. I was mortified. Emil found it hilarious! Leslie, Jace, Jesse, and Camryn my sincere condolences. I am deeply saddened by the lost  Emil. He was stellar man. Tanya ❤️

Bob Schmalenberg

December 5, 2021 at 12:21 AM

Leslie and Family, We are so sorry for your loss.  Great memories from the pig roasts and baseball games at Crystal Lake.  Your are in our thoughts, big hugs to you and your family.  Bob and Jan 

Chris Terry

December 4, 2021 at 10:10 PM

I feel very fortunate to have spent many hours with Emil over the years. One thing I know for sure, he deeply loved his family and he lived life to the best of his abilities,  everyday. Leslie,  Jace, Jessie and Camryn my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.  Celebrate all the wonderful times you have had together as a family. Emil, you will be missed. 

Sandra Blais

December 4, 2021 at 2:38 PM

Leslie, I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Sandra Blais

Tracey Simes

December 4, 2021 at 1:13 PM

Dear Emil, When I think of all the good times we have shared, it warms my heart. You are the brother, protecter and shoulder to cry on like no other. You are an important person in my life and I will always cherish your friendship. Jeremy and Mattie adored you too! You were so great with kids.  I will never forget you and will always be grateful to have had such an amazing person in my corner.  Love Tracey... your sister

Jonathan Delnea

December 4, 2021 at 5:01 AM

From being pushed face first in the snow To being shown the way to go Proper tackles to swinging bats When to wear baseball hats.  El Camino’s and combine dust Living true and protecting trust “Showing up when you’re afraid Prevents heavy prices to be paid” Carrying rings down your aisle  It sure has been a little while Now it must be a little longer Thanks to you I’m that much stronger Rest easy Emil… you won this game of life! #RealChampion #RIP #forevergrateful

Bonnie and Robert Antonini

December 4, 2021 at 3:14 AM

We only knew Emil briefly we could see he was very well liked and respected by his friends Bonnie grew up across the street from Leslie and we would like to give our condolences to Leslie and all her family 

Sheryl Martin

December 4, 2021 at 2:16 AM

My tears are flowing and I am deeply saddened; no words are sufficient to express or lessen your loss Leslie, Jace, Jesse and Camryn. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Emil was a wonderful person and I will cherish the memories we all shared.  I love you. Sheryl Martin née Theriault

Susannah Simes

December 4, 2021 at 1:19 AM

Dear Emil, Although I was quiet about it, I always felt connected to a special spirit I saw in you. I think you knew it too! I always saw your heart of gold, and your humility. You had an honest way, and sense of justice. How blessed was your heart, so thankful. Beautiful! Beautiful! As you now know, death is not final - you are truly living! I could only imagine the story you would tell today, if you were able to share it? Who would believe this one? Maybe no one! I would! Always loved and forever missed, until that special day we will surely meet again, this time in Heaven! With the Lord one day can be like 1000 years, and 1000 years as one day! See you soon, for life is like the blink of an eye! Eternity is forever! How I wish I could hear your story today, but it will be tomorrow very soon I will be patient! I just know you are full of joy, no sorrow or pain, for you are living in His promise Now, you are one of His angels! How I would love a snap shot of you singing! See you soon! Love, Susannah ❤

Sylvia Bender-Rongve

December 4, 2021 at 12:00 AM

❤ I will always remember the very first time I met Emil at Crystal Lake. He had a big smile and a big bear hug and it never changed ..any time I met him there or in Winnipeg… Always making me feel like one of the bunch! May your family find comfort in carrying you in their hearts as they journey forward… and look back …to you for inspiration and guidance ❤ Sylvia Bender-Rongve

Shirley Hofer

December 3, 2021 at 11:12 PM

Rest In Peace Emil. May your family find peace and comfort in this difficult time.   Leslie you are in my thoughts. 

Robert Dyck

December 3, 2021 at 8:44 PM

So proud to call you my friend over the many years we knew each other.  Getting to know you at MYC, watching you perform your duties, and learning the job from you made me a better person.  We shared so many great times over the years.  Trips to Minneapolis and Vegas were filled with many laughs and great experiences.  Your love for your family was very evident by how much you talked about them.  Emil, you were truly larger than life.  Someone I’ll never forget! Robert Dyck

Lauren

December 3, 2021 at 8:03 PM

Sending all kinds of love your way. Keeping you all in my thoughts. ❤

Savannah D’Mello

December 3, 2021 at 7:21 PM

May you Rest In Peace! God bless your family ❤
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