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Ed Fehr

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EDWARD "ED" HENRY FEHR

Edward passed away on Friday, March 10, 2023, at the age of 71, facing his death the way he lived his life, with quiet acceptance and bravery, surrounded by the love of his family, Sherril, Sarah and Rob, Kyle and Erin, and Kevin and Tierney. He was thrilled to be a “PAPA” and loved his granddaughter Veronica very much. He also loved all the family fur-babies.

 

Ed lived what most would consider a “regular” life, achieving many things that had at one time seemed unattainable for him. He found a partner he loved who returned that love, owned a home, had a beautiful family, and was proud to work for the Birchwood Auto Group for 46 years. Ordinary things that added up to an extraordinary life for an extraordinary man.

 

Ed will be desperately missed by his family and friends and will be remembered for his quirky sense of humor, his insatiable interest for the world’s oddities, his love of nature, cooking, and music (the louder the better!). He enjoyed sharing his passions with his family and friends, even if the other person was not necessarily interested! His resilience through all the trials life threw at him serves as a reminder to never take anything for granted. Ed left this life with NO REGRETS, a message he repeated often in his last weeks; along with the message that family was the most important thing in life… well… family and Vitamin C!

 

Although we can’t launch you into space like you wanted, we hope you’re enjoying a Piña Colada in the sun, arguing with Warren.

 

Ed did not want a funeral in the traditional sense, so a celebration of his life will be held at 2:00 PM Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 603 Wellington Crescent at Academy Road (Unitarian Facility). Ed would have wanted everyone to come as they are, without feeling like they needed to dress up or “wear black”. So please dress comfortably in honour of Ed.

 

In the meantime, Ed’s family kindly requests that his friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour his memory by watching the photo-biography above (once added). Please, also consider sharing your own photos and/or sharing your own memories and stories using the comment section on this page.

The Dash Poem 

by Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
From the beginning...to the end

He noted that first came the date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years

For that dash represents all the time
That they spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved them
Know what that little line is worth

For it matters not, how much we own,
The cars...the house...the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

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Bob Strong

April 1, 2023 at 1:07 PM

My sincere condolences on your loss. I pray that memories of happier times will see you through your time of grief!   "God gave us memory so we might enjoy roses in winter." I am a respected researcher of Mennonite genealogy, and would like to connect your loved one to his/her/your family and ancestry, which I am unable to do given the limited information in her/his obituary.

Alexandra Reimer

March 30, 2023 at 9:41 AM

“Those we love don’t go away, They walk beside us every day, Unseen, unheard, but always near, Still loved, still missed and very dear. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”. The beautiful eulogy shows the magnitude of love and support that you and your family share. You will be missed and remembered dearly. Rest in peace Uncle Ed. 

Melanie Reimer

March 28, 2023 at 12:13 PM

I still can't really believe my uncle Ed has passed. My condolences to my Aunt and cousins, I love you and I'm so sorry he's gone. Some of my favorite memories  that I'll never forget; car rides to the lake, his Sunday dinner masterpieces, bears at the dump, crosswords at the lake.. there are so many. Things I've learned from just being in his orbit; don't take anything too seriously, include everyone, enjoy as much as you can while you can and loving TV is okay ;). I really loved you Uncle Ed and I wish I told you more. Thank you for always giving me a seat at the table and sharing some of your amazing life with me. I'll always miss you, rest easy.

Ron Evvans

March 27, 2023 at 7:19 PM

Worked with Ed at Birchwood, always had to keep Ed’s parking spot clear for him by the door. Caught hell if if it wasn’t accessible 😉. He will be missed. God bless.

Joanne Trayturik

March 26, 2023 at 11:49 AM

Our condolences to Ed's family and the Fehr Family.  Sorry for your loss. Joanne & Ken Trayturik (nee Saydak)

Frances Sinclair-Kaspick

March 24, 2023 at 4:42 PM

Deepest Condolences to Ed's family. I met Ed in our young years through various gatherings at the Society and through Gimli Camp. Ed could get the crowd laughing with his wittiness. It was a pleasure to know Ed. Rest In Peace.

Ellen P

March 23, 2023 at 6:03 PM

I was Ed's roommate at the Grace Hospital for about a week. I didn't know Ed very well, or for very long, but he immediately impressed me with his indominatable strength, his deep love for his family, and his sense of humour. Rest well, Ed, you earned it. Go Jets.

Scott T

March 21, 2023 at 5:39 PM

Ed was a great and talented individual. He had a knack for finding things others would miss. He will be missed by his Birchwood family ❤

Jeff Bachalo

March 21, 2023 at 9:45 AM

My sincere condolences to Ed's family.  I had the pleasure of working directly with Ed during my time at the GM store and later at a distance.  He was a very smart and hard working individual that refused to let any "minor" obstacle get in his way of accomplishing anything, all the while finding a way to inject humor into a situation. Traits that he brought forward in all aspects of his life.  Definitely something we should all strive toward.  He will be truly missed.  He was one of the greats!     

John "Johnny" Herrera

March 21, 2023 at 9:08 AM

I offer my deepest condolences to Ed's family. I had a pleasure working with one of the elite warranty admin at Birchwood GM. It's fair to say there no one else like him. Had a blast working with you Ed. 

Bryan Livingston

March 20, 2023 at 10:28 PM

Ed,A man that took the cards that life gave him and turned them into a winning hand. My hat has always been off to him for his kind and understanding ways.Missed and often remembered. Go with grace my thoughts are with your family. Bryan Livingston

Derek Witty

March 20, 2023 at 10:08 PM

My sincere condolences to Ed’s family. I had the pleasure of working with Ed over the past 12 years. He was truly one of the greats! Ed, you will be deeply missed. 

Kyle Wiwchar

March 20, 2023 at 4:13 PM

My deepest condolences to Ed's family.  I had the pleasure of working in a more direct capacity with Ed for a few years and have nothing but the best to say about him as a person and a colleague.   Thank you for everything Ed, you will truly be missed!

Laird

March 20, 2023 at 3:21 PM

My sincere apology, I was fortunate to work with Ed for years and enjoyed spending time with Ed dropping and picking up work orders as he was the "Master" of warranty.  You will be missed❤ 

Nelson Cordeiro

March 20, 2023 at 1:59 PM

My sincere condolences to Ed's Family. He was an exceptional human being, and it was my pleasure to know him. I will always remember sitting with him during lunch hours at Birchwood GM doing the Free Press and Sun crossword puzzles, constantly peppering the conversations with his brand of humor. You will be missed, Godspeed my freind.  

Darin Meakin

March 20, 2023 at 11:38 AM

My most sincere condolences to the family.  I can recall several conversations with Ed where he mentioned his family, always in a very loving way.  Working with Ed was always interesting.  I was fortunate to have many opportunities to work through many work challenges with Ed over many years and considered him a friend. He had a wonderfully uncompromising demeaner. I am sure that and his loving family were a big part of why his life was so extraordinary. He will be greatly missed.

Keith Nicholson

March 20, 2023 at 11:30 AM

Ed and I met at Churchill High.We hit it off right away.We would tell each other jokes...Ed could make me laugh until I nearly peed myself.He introduced me to music and the best fishing holes at the river.We spent hours talking about life and how we would change the world.He certainly changed my life by being a close,dear friend for all these years.Goodbye Ed save me a spot on the riverbank.                                                                                                     

mike wilms

March 20, 2023 at 10:01 AM

A wonderful tribute. I had the privilege of working with Ed for 10 years. Though, there was 3 year period where we got to speak every day. He did have such a great "quirky sense of humor." I will miss our conversations and our jokes about automotive warranty. My condolences to your family! he will be dearly missed at Birchwood. Thanks for all your help over the years Ed! ❤ 

Antonella Braz

March 20, 2023 at 9:59 AM

My deepest condolences to you, Ed was a wonderful, kind and very knowledgeable person. Ed and I spoke many times about our history with GI issues. Ed always knew how to help you when you needed that extra help.  Ed will be greatly missed. RIP

Mike Dufault

March 19, 2023 at 6:28 PM

Deepest condolences to you, Sherril and your entire family. Ed was a friend of the family from way back and will always be remembered fondly by me as one the creators of the Cannon. You can never have enough gun powder, eh Ed and leading the charge of the Red River gang that used me as a sacrificial gift when the silver bass’ weren’t biting. You were one funny man and although its been many years, you were a very special and kind person to me. RIP my friend

Anna Smith

March 19, 2023 at 11:42 AM

My condolences to Sherril (the love of his life) and family. I am so saddened to hear of this news. Ed has taught me so much throughout our friendship. He also had a wonderful sense of humour and liked to poke the bear (me) when he got the chance. He knew how much I hated when cabinets were left opened. One day I came to the office and all the cupboards were left opened. So I closed them. Then I had to go in the shop and when I came back the cupboards were opened again. So I asked Ed who keeps leaving opening them of course deny deny. Till I caught him. I laughed and laughed as I would never suspect him. I will miss you my friend till we meet again. 

Hans and Tanis Goretzki

March 19, 2023 at 10:01 AM

Dear Cheryl and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. 

Steve Briggs

March 19, 2023 at 9:21 AM

I’ve many memories of Ed, as we first met a very long time ago. We were attending Churchill High School. The first memory is of Ed and I going snowmobiling. Our mutual friend Clancy picked Ed up from his house on Jubilee Avenue and we went up to Winnipeg Beach. Ed got on one of the sleds with me as a passenger, once we got his crutches and leg brace sorted out off we went. Ed rode it like he belonged on it and we had a great long ride and lots of fun. We became friends that day and shared many good times. I will miss my friend very much and remember him always.  Steve Briggs 

June Briggs

March 19, 2023 at 9:21 AM

❤  I first met Ed and family in high school. I was friends with his sister Susan . I eventually dated and married his friend Steve. Since then we have been friends with Ed and Sherril. We have great memories with so many great times and laughs. Ed’s wit and sense of humour and knowledge of many subjects will be always in my memories. Memories when I look back make me laugh . He will be greatly missed.

Nettie (Zacharias) Janzen

March 18, 2023 at 6:00 PM

Ed was my “almost twin” cousin.  I have many memories but the one that sticks out the most is all of us cousins singing “there was a wart on the nose on the frog on the bump on the log in the hole in the bottom of the sea!” We had a unique way of singing it and with each addition we would sing faster and louder to see who would mess up on the words.  Oh how we laughed! My connection to Ed comes via our moms being sisters.  My sincerest sympathies to Ed’s family.   You certainly fought a good fight!  Rest in peace Ed.  You deserve it. ❤️

Rhonda

March 18, 2023 at 5:56 PM

My condolences to the fehr family.. Ed was a kind wonderful guy.. I always enjoyed visiting with him RIP ED. COUSIN RHONDA

Judy Saydak

March 18, 2023 at 11:35 AM

We are devastated to hear of Ed's passing. Sherril our sincere thoughts are with you and your family. My memories of Ed are mostly of when he was a little boy as I left home when he was just 14. I clearly remember pulling him to school in a wagon in summer and a sleigh in the winter time. I also remember his favourite pastime was sitting on the curb, crutches neatly laying by his side and throwing stones at passing cars. This came to a sudden end the day he hit a  police car. This resulted in quite a lecture (from the police) and an end to this activity. RIP......sister Judy
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