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Darlene Hay

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DARLENE HAY

(née NICHOLS)

August 9, 1944 - May 2, 2021

With heavy hearts, we announce that Darlene passed away peacefully, in her home, at the age of 76 years.

 

Darlene will be terribly missed by her loving husband of 57 years, Kirby; daughter Jodie (Brent); son Kevin; grandchildren, Marley, Trenton, Mackenzie, and Olivia; sister Barb (Alf) Roberts; and extended family and friends.

 

Darlene was born in Carman to Leonard and Margaret Nichols.  She enjoyed a happy childhood on the farm with her parents and younger sister Barb.  She attended school at Tobacco Creek, followed by Wingham and Graysville.  She loved skating at recess and spending time with her family and friends, especially cooking with her mother.

 

She moved to Winnipeg after school and met the love her life, Kirby, whom she married May 30, 1964.  Together they raised 2 children, Jodie and Kevin.  In addition to being a mother, she started her career at Great West Life as a data entry operator and went on to work at Kleyson Transport and finally at IBM.

 

In retirement Darlene was busier than ever.  She and Kirby volunteered together on the board of the Manitoba Prostate Cancer Support Group where Darlene managed the database.  They also spent many happy winters in Arizona enjoying the company of so many good friends.  Her love for quilting was infectious.  She was the Piecemakers of Goodlife Programs Coordinator and taught quilting to others, including her husband Kirby.  She made quilts for not only family and friends but also for charity, including the Never Alone Foundation.  She continues to give love and warmth to so many through her quilts.

 

In keeping with Darlene’s wishes, cremation has taken place and no formal services will be held. Her family kindly requests that her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by watching the photo-biography above. Please, also consider sharing your own photos and/or sharing your own memories and stories using the comment section on this page.

 

The family would also like to thank Dr Albak, Dr Desautel, Dr McIntosh and all the other medical professionals involved throughout her journey. Donations can be made in Darlene’s name to The Never Alone Foundation, CancerCare Manitoba or your charity of choice.

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Donna Gordon

May 13, 2021 at 6:51 PM

That was a truly lovely video.  We will certainly miss Darlene here at Good Life. She will be remembered through all her good works, which will linger on forever.
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Sam and Marilyn Lemon

May 11, 2021 at 11:02 AM

Our love and thoughts are with you and your family.  We enjoyed the Memory vidio.  We'll try and keep in touch.  Sam and Marilyn Lemon from Ontario
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Ken & Corinne Atkinson

May 10, 2021 at 12:28 PM

❤Kirby and family what a wonderful tribute. Ken and I will always remember the good times we have had together in Arizona and here at home in Winnipeg . Also the wonderful amazing quilt that you both made for us. I think of Darlene every morning when I put the quilt on our bed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Love Ken & Corinne Atkinson
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Vivienne Milburn

May 10, 2021 at 11:10 AM

Thank you for sharing this wonderful tribute.  It brought back so many memories of good times together.  Darlene was a much treasured "sister" to Barry and held a special place in our hearts and lives.  Kirby and family, you are in my thoughts every day. Vivienne Milburn and Family  ❤
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Jeff Bartz

May 10, 2021 at 7:57 AM

So sorry for your loss Mr. Hay, Kevin and Jodie... I remember the last time I was in Winnipeg and you were both showing me the quilts you had done. Mrs. Hay's love for quilting was indeed infectious! They were so beautiful. Our thoughts are with you during this time.
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Bill and Marie Gordon

May 9, 2021 at 11:55 PM

We were very saddened to learn of Darlene's passing. She was such a warm and caring person that she will be missed by many. She shared her quilting talents with many, even Kirby. It is something that will help you to connect with her, Kirby, in the months to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
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Jennifer Levins

May 9, 2021 at 3:53 PM

So very sorry Kirby and family to hear of Darlene’s passing. I have fond memories of us working together at IBM many years ago.  Jennifer Levins
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Cristy Pickles

May 9, 2021 at 12:56 PM

We are saddened to hear about Auntie Darlene. She was a wonderful lady, and will be greatly missed. Sending our love Curt, Cristy, Tanner and Kody Pickles
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Donna Vogelsang

May 9, 2021 at 10:31 AM

Our deepest sympathy to you Kirby and family.  Darlene was a very special lady, full of love and laughter.  We always enjoyed the times we spent together,. May you cherish the wonderful years you had together.  Karl and Donna Vogelsang
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Lorna Smith & Dad Bill Smith

May 9, 2021 at 9:23 AM

❤ Wow that tribute was so special. To see Mrs.Hay surrounded by her precious family; whom I know personally how much love and support she gave. All of her special memories down south.. both my Dad were so moved with her giving nature and story. 😢Although grief is never ending in hearts, it becomes treasure when we remember. I’ll miss both her & Kirby out in the garden at Kevin’s... and the few heart to heart chats I did have with her. Mr. Hay, Jodie, and Kev & family we send our support and love to all of you ; we personally know this loss as of late.... although painfully present great memories will bring a huge smile and great laughs between you all when remembering. God Bless 💕
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Lorraine ditchfield

May 9, 2021 at 8:13 AM

So very sorry to see that Darlene passed away. What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful lady, wife ,mother, grandmother, sister and friend. My deepest sympathy to Kirby and all the family. Hold on to all the great memories. Thinking of you. Lorraine Ditchfield
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Gail & El Hay

May 8, 2021 at 9:52 PM

Rest in peace, Darlene - we not only were sister-in-laws, but friends as well, since the early 60's.  El & I enjoyed many outings with Kirby & Darlene around families & friends.  Our deepest sympathy to you Kirby, who will miss her dearly.  Jodie, Brent, Marley & Trenton; Kevin, Olivia & Mack - our deepest condolences.  May great memories be always there for all of us to reflect on from time to time.  Your kindness will never be forgotten.
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Lori Edwards

May 8, 2021 at 7:22 PM

Please accept our deepest sympathy, Kirby to you and your family! Our thoughts are with you.  Lori Edwards and Sheri Buss (Don and Jeanne Currie’s daughters)
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Don curtis

May 8, 2021 at 4:44 PM

We are so sorry to see that Darlene is gone. We have lost a very giving and caring person. Will fondly remember the times I kidded you two on the dance floor at Good Life! Special couple! Xo
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Kerry & Carmen Pickles

May 8, 2021 at 2:57 PM

Our thoughts are with you Uncle Kirby, Jody, Kevin and families. We have fond memories of your visits. We will remember her when we look at the loon picture she made for us for our wedding. She will be missed❤️
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Gerry Fraser

May 8, 2021 at 2:24 PM

Darlene you will be missed.  I have enjoyed your many newsy Christmas letters and always looked forward to your Christmas Cards knowing I would hear of your many adventures over the years. Although we lived Provinces away your many weekend trips to British Columbia provided us with memories of  excellent adventures. My thoughts are sent to Kirby and family.  Gerry Fraser (nee: Wood)❤
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Barb Cortens (nee: York)

May 8, 2021 at 1:32 PM

Growing up on Raquette Street brings back many fond memories of Darlene (Mrs. Hay). She was always cheerful, fun and easy going. As my parents aged she was so helpful to them. Darlene was a very special person to our family.
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Bryan and Margo Bishop

May 8, 2021 at 12:40 PM

Beautiful tribute to Darlene. Our condolences to you Kirby and Family 
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Marilyn & Wally Neves

May 8, 2021 at 12:32 PM

Beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady who fought the fight with great tenacity and grace.  May you rest in everlasting peace Darlene..
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Joseph Borsa

May 8, 2021 at 11:12 AM

Darlene served on the board of directors of the Manitoba Prostate Cancer Support Group for many years. She did a superb job as manager of the IT requirements of the group and provided an invaluable service in that role. In addition both she and her husband Kirby participated in countless board meetings, sharing their wisdom and providing good advice towards governance of the group. Their contribution was and is greatly appreciated.  The board extends condolences to Kirby and the rest of her family. Rest in peace Darlene.
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Gail and Rick Rewniak

May 8, 2021 at 11:08 AM

Beautiful memories!  We will miss Darlene..(Mrs. Hay). 
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Marilyn Davenport

May 8, 2021 at 10:36 AM

A beautiful tribute to a lively lady. So sorry for your loss Kirby and family.
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Myrt Sturgis

May 8, 2021 at 5:20 AM

So sorry for your loss Kirby and family - I'm sorry I didn't get to know Darlene as I moved to Calgary shortly after your marriage. But I do remember she was a friendly, warm person. Take care of yourself and remember all the happy times you spent together and with friends. Sincerely, Myrt Sturgis (McMahon)❤  
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Don and Beth Cruikshank

May 7, 2021 at 7:41 PM

Darlene will be so very greatly missed.  Her generosity, humour and good nature warmed so many.  Our deepest condolences to Kirby and family. 
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Simonne Rowley

May 7, 2021 at 5:50 PM

What a wonderful tribute to a great Lady. Kirby and Darlene were like 2 patterns in a quilt, always warm and loving when together. She will be there to help with your quilts Kirby. Take Care  ❤
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Brian & June Sprott

May 7, 2021 at 5:28 PM

"Wherever a beautiful soul has been .... there is a trail of beautiful memories". These words describe our very dear friend, Darlene. We have been fortunate to call Darlene & Kirby our friends since we met in 2007. Darlene was really a special person - talented in many ways. We will always treasure the distinctive quilt she designed & gave us for our anniversary.  Kirby, we share in your sorrow and send our sincere sympathy. Attaching a photo of our Newfoundland trip in 2009 - remembering the good times we shared together. Love & hugs, Brian and June Sprott
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Bob & Connie Zimmerman

May 7, 2021 at 4:34 PM

What a touching tribute to a wonderful neighbor & friend! Oh how I remember her famous lemon pie. Kirby, we know you will miss Darlene so much as will all of her family. We will keep all of you in our prayers.  Bob & Connie
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Faye McKinnon

May 7, 2021 at 3:19 PM

Such a beautiful tribute for a beautiful lady.  Condolences to you, Kirby, and the family.  So sad to lose part of the Good Life family.  Rest in peace, Darlene.  ❤
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Raisa Davies

May 7, 2021 at 10:55 AM

We were shocked to hear of Darlene’s passing. Cherish the memories you have of her and in time your pain that you are feeling know will ease. Our condolences to the family.  Sincerely Raisa and Gerry Davies 
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Carol Lunn

May 6, 2021 at 9:14 PM

What a beautiful tribute to a incredible wife, mother and friend.  Darlene will be missed and remembered by many.  Rest In Peace 
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Joan Farnfield

May 6, 2021 at 8:49 PM

A beautiful lady married to a wonderful man, they so belonged to each other. Darlene you gave so much to so many. Tom will never forget your lemon pies. Please Rest In Peace, you so deserve it. Save a place, til then , we love you. Joan Farnfield &Tom Gill
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