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Esther Held

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ESTHER LEAH HELD

November 4, 1968 - October 7, 2020

It is with great sadness that the family announces that our amazing, beloved mother, daughter, sister, aunt & great-aunt Esther Leah Held suddenly passed away on October 7, 2020 at Health Sciences Centre. Her brave and courageous efforts were not enough in this fight, but her life lessons to her children will always be remembered.

She leaves behind her two children Myla and Matthew, as well as her father, Isser Held, her siblings Tauba (Fred), Harris, Frances, and Sylvia (Bob). Esther also leaves behind her niece and nephew and all of their children: Reesa (Chris, children: David, Jordan, and Sarah) and Darian (Rebecca, children: Ella, Miles, and Alfie). Esther was born and raised in River Heights in Winnipeg and she was the youngest of five children. When Esther was four days old she came home on her sister Sylvia’s fourth birthday and was then always fondly referred to as Sylvia’s birthday present.

Esther was a strong, independent, stubborn single mother who did everything in her power to make her children and everyone around her as happy as possible. Her children were her world as she always told others. She believed that a delicious homemade meal cooked from the heart would nourish a person’s soul and give comfort. She professionally cooked for close to three decades in meal programs where people needed her cooking the most, in senior meal programs and a women’s shelter.

Esther had a great sense of humour and her laugh will always be missed by all that had the chance to know and laugh with her. She was witty and enjoyed a good story with many of her own to tell. She was never judgemental, but she was kind, compassionate, and wise.

She loved poetry and murder mysteries. Her favourite authors were Shakespeare, Poe, and Doyle. Esther wrote poetry herself and it was published in the Grant Park High School writer’s club Poems and Prose 1985-1986 when she attended the school. Esther had been lucky enough in high school to go on a school trip to England and France. The highlight of that trip for her was that she was able to stand in Shakespeare’s home.

Myla, Matthew, and the family would like to extend their thanks to the nurses who took care of Esther in the last twenty four hours of her life, along with the doctors and staff of Health Sciences Centre. Thank you to our family doctor, Dr. A. Haresha for always looking after Esther’s health and always going above and beyond in his role as a GP. We would also like to extend our thanks to her current and previous places of work (Villa Cabrini and Ikwe-Widdjiitiwin) for sending their condolences as well as gift cards for Myla and Matthew so they would not have to worry so much on simple matters during this difficult time.

The family requests to please consider making contributions in honour of Esther’s memory to Plan Canada, Humane Society, or any other charity of your choice.

On Thursday October 15, 2020 at 1:00pm, Esther Held will be interred in St. Vital Cemetery. After the service there will be a small gathering at St. Vital Park to celebrate Esther’s Life. Contact Myla for further details. Please remember that during COVID-19 there are limitations on gatherings and social distancing must be practiced.

Esther's family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by watching the photo-biography above. They also encourage the sharing of photos, memories, and stories by making use of the comment section on this page.

A special thank you to both Shane Neufeld and Anthony Tarnowski for helping us through this very sudden and difficult time. Thank you to Ethical Death Care for preserving the dignity and integrity of Esther under such circumstances and finally, a heartfelt thank you to Ruth Livingston for offering to say prayers for our dear Esther at her service.

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Paula

April 15, 2021 at 11:23 PM

My condolences to the whole family.  I went to hight school with Esther and have wonderful fond memories of where we first became friends,  at the “birdbath”.  I am fortunate to be working with Esthers sister Fran.  Very sweet and wonderful women❤.  Rest In Peace.❤

Karla Berbrayer

October 29, 2020 at 3:28 PM

oh my very sorry to hear this.  Sending sincere condolences to the entire Held family. Karla Berbrayer

Pamela Brooker

October 22, 2020 at 3:38 PM

Our heartfelt condolences to the Held family. From the entire Kowall family

Barbara bercovich

October 20, 2020 at 5:19 PM

My deepest sympathy to all of you. It’s hard to believe. May her memory be a blessing. She is a great loss. Fondly 

Bonny Rogers

October 18, 2020 at 11:05 PM

I am still in shock over Esthers sudden passing. She was such a fun and joyful person. I really enjoyed knowing her for the short time i did at Villa Cabrini. She was very kind to me. My heart goes out to her family at this time. I look forward to hopefully meeting Esther again in God’s promised new Paradise earth.~ Rev 21:3-5 ❤

Helena

October 18, 2020 at 9:48 PM

Dear Tauba, I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your amazing, beautiful sister. My sincere condolences go to you, your father and your sister's family. I want you to know that I am just a phone call away. Helena

Abe and Brenda

October 18, 2020 at 9:47 PM

To the Held family:   Please accept our sincere condolences to Esther's family on this huge loss We are very sorry to hear that that Esther passed away. Sending all our love to the family. Abe Nuss Brenda Simmonds

Levi Family

October 18, 2020 at 6:08 PM

To the Held family sorry for your loss

Bill Weissmann

October 18, 2020 at 4:25 PM

To Isser Held and family. Alice and Bill Weissmann wish to forward our deepest condolence to all of you on the loss of Esther. May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her.    

Patricia Frantz

October 17, 2020 at 12:57 PM

To the Held family:I did not know Esther but I am a friend of Tauba.  You are fortunate Tauba to have a loving and caring family and Esther was not exception.  My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.  Reflect on the wonderful memories and I see in your photographs.  Keep those thought and memories in your heart.

Honey and Marty Kane

October 14, 2020 at 7:43 PM

Dear Isser and Held family We are very sorry that Esther passed away.  Reading the tributes, she was a remarkable human being.  How blessed you were to have had her as a mother, sister and aunt.  Love Honey and Marty ❤❤

Taylee Wolfe

October 14, 2020 at 8:56 AM

Esther came into my life just over a year ago at Villa Cabrini, she was technically my co-worker but was more of a friend and someone to look up to. Esther and myself shared so many similarities and experiences that it was easy to turn to her for advice and words of wisdom. She had one of the most soft souls around, yet wasn't afraid to be blunt and honest when needed. My son Jace adored Esther, he always enjoyed drawing pictures for her in exchange for cookies when ever he was at the Villa with me.  As a single mother, I had no one better to trust for parenting advice. Hearing her talk about how proud she was of her children, and seeing the love she has for them both made her more trust worthy than any parenting hand book or article.  I will forever be thankful for the wisdom and inspiration Esther shared with me, I miss her dearly.   Sending all my love to her family. I'm truly sorry for your loss❤

Delvina McGregor

October 13, 2020 at 6:55 PM

We met at the bus stop. We would save a seat for each other.  The bus was where I got to know her. I know how much she loved her kids. And how much she cared for all the people she cooked for. So many times she was carrying treats to share with whomever she was working with and the people she was cooking for. She was determined to make meals that would taste good and be healthy.  Ester will be missed by so many people.  Myla and Matt, remember, she will always be watching and listening to you. Talk about her, talk to her.

Kim Fontaine

October 13, 2020 at 5:25 PM

My sincere condolences to Esthers family on this huge loss. Esther had a heart of gold, she was supportive, kind and loved all of our families she worked with in shelter. She was so incredibly funny and had a million stories to tell. She had a side to her that you only really saw once you really got to know her, she truly lived and that makes my heart happy. She always carried treats with her and if she didn’t have any she would bake some. I will miss nagging her to make Rice Krispie squares lol, she would bring them to me and call me Princess lol as she handed them over. I’m so honoured to have called Esther my friend, the stories and pride she shared about Myla and Matt always touched my heart. She loved you two more than life itself, there was never a day she wasn’t proud of you both❤

Lisa Levinson

October 13, 2020 at 5:21 PM

I had the honor and privilege to work with your mom for the past couple of years at both Ikwe and Villa. We enjoyed many laughs and shared stories over time.  She was a special lady, I’m very lucky to have called  her my friend. I am truly sorry for your loss. 

Tara campbell

October 13, 2020 at 5:01 PM

❤ Beautiful tribute. My heart is full of sadness but love.  I remember our many talks. Our many laughs.  Her children were her world. She always spoke with huge love about her kids.  She had huge compassion for the ladies at the shelter. She made them laugh and feel special, cared for. I remember our last outing and laughs at Jeffreys. Wish we had more.  Love u
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