
Karen Jacks

KAREN ELISE JACKS
(née Osted)
July 13, 1947 - January 18, 2025
Karen Jacks (née Osted) was born in Praesto Denmark and immigrated to Canada in 1954 with her parents Hans & Elise, and her brothers Hans & Peter. Karen was always very proud of her Danish roots, and ensured she kept important traditions alive.
She attended Elmwood High School and loved her time in the high school band as a flutist. She spoke often of her Elmwood High friends, and the school always held a special place in her heart.
Karen returned to Denmark and worked as the nanny for the Count and Countess Castenskiold at the manor house “Horbygaard” near the city of Holbaek. The children she cared for, Christian and Christopher, were very dear to her. She even named her dog "Luffy" after the pet dog in Horbygaard. She always shared many memories of her time at the manor, including meeting Queen Margarethe II, and watching the Royal children while the adults participated in the Royal hunt.
Karen completed her education in early childhood pedagogy in Aarhus and met her husband Rob during her studies. Karen and Rob were married in Amstelveen, Netherlands in 1975. In the spirit of the 70s, their wedding was held in a local courthouse, and they walked down the aisle to a snare drum played by their hippy friend Piet.
Karen and Rob moved to Canada where she worked as a play therapist at St. Boniface Hospital. She cared deeply for the kids at St. Boniface, especially those from remote northern communities. Karen welcomed her first son, Eli, in 1978. Her second son David was born in 1982 prematurely. Karen would always tell the story of how David spent the first hours of his life in an incubator, nicknaming him "Sparky". She had a wonderful sense of humour.
As the kids entered school years, Karen operated a home-based day care at her home on Rosedale Ave. Many of the children still share their memories of their time with Karen, noting that she always made them feel safe, welcome, and heard. Karen also took on organizing the Lord Roberts School playgroup, and the playgroup at Augustine United Church. She absolutely loved working with children.
Karen was also passionate about social justice and community-building. But she did it in such a way that never centred herself. She was outspoken against violence and war. She cared for children while adults campaigned for the NDP, including for Muriel Smith who became the first female Deputy Premier in Canada. Karen and Rob joined the hard-fought battle to bring a French Immersion program to (Ecole) Riverview School, and she instilled social democratic and feminist values in her children. She was always proud of her family’s activism, including when her son Eli famously confronted then-Finance Minister Palliser when he privatized MTS, or when he threw a sandbag in protest at Prime Minister Chretien; or when her son David faced down riot police at the G20 in Toronto. Karen always offered her calming support, including to Rob while he fought for a union contract at the Convention Centre.
Karen enjoyed travelling with her family, especially with Rob, including to New Orleans with newly-born Eli, New York City, Minneapolis, South Dakota, and North Dakota, Denmark, Holland, England, and Scotland. She loved visiting Eli and Joleen in the UK, and took great thrill riding on the back of his motorbike through the Scottish Highlands.
One of her fondest memories was staying with her brother Peter, sister-in-law Margaret, niece Kate, and nephew Poul in Hay River, Northwest Territories.
Karen served on the Manitoba Film Classification Board and reported back to her family that she had reviewed a considerable amount of X-rated films. Karen had a wonderful sense of humour, often shocking her friends and family with a quick remark or quirky smile, right up until her final days at Poseidon Personal Care Home.
Karen was active in the Scandinavian Cultural Centre, in particular in the Denmark room during Folklorama. She showcased Danish bobbin lace, knitting, and paper crafts.
Her passion for her roots can still be seen above the doorway at her home on Rosedale Avenue in Viking runes, stating "Lay your swords at the door", reflecting her desire for peace in all parts of life.
She continued her love of craft by sharing her knitting skills with many others, including teaching newcomer women at the Manitoba Chinese Family Centre and the local group of friends lovingly called the Knit Wits. Karen’s love of knitting and wool work included collecting wool from local farmers (including llama and alpaca), carding the wool, spinning (on the wheel and spindle) and knitting countless sweaters, scarves, shawls, mittens, toques, blankets, and more which she gave freely away to friends and family. She loved experimenting with different wools and yarns. She even once made a feltwork cat out of cat. Her friends often came to her to troubleshoot challenges in knitting, or to learn new skills. Many friends loved the annual Christmas craftmaking days at her home.
Karen loved her home, which is known to neighbours as an art gallery, featuring many paintings by her, her mother and father, grandfather, husband, children, grandchildren and neighbours. She had a lifelong collection of dolls and loved collecting cute little things to place on doorways, shelves, and curios. If there was a crack in the wall, she would paint it into a vine, or she would paint little people or ladybugs along the floorboards.
Karen also had a wide range of musical tastes, from Leonard Cohen to Eminem. She enjoyed 70’s psychedelic rock like Iron Butterfly, and also Simon and Garfunkel. She also kept up with music like the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Prodigy, Metallica, and supported David as he banged away to Rage Against the Machine on drums in the basement.
All her fondest memories were in her home with her family, friends, and pets. Karen had a deep love for animals, including the family's numerous cats, dogs, birds, fish, guinea pigs, gerbils, and even a rabbit over the years. This reflects her incredible caring for all living things around her.
Karen’s spirit has always been one that seeks peace and love for those around her, and those in the world. She was truly a magical woman who touched the lives of everyone around her in a positive, loving way.
She will be deeply missed by her husband Rob; her sons, Eli (Joleen) and David (Jennifer); her brother Hans (Gail); her grandchildren, Isaac and Sophia; her nieces and nephews, and her friends.
The family wants to thank the staff at the Victoria Hospital and Poseidon Personal Care Home for their support.
A gathering will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to U-Turn Parkinsons.
Karen’s family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by sharing photos, memories, and stories, using the comment section on this page.
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Mandy
February 25, 2025 at 9:46 PM
I came across this obituary quite randomly on BlueSky! I knew Karen from the Winnipeg knitting community and wish I'd had more opportunities to work alongside her (as I now also volunteer with the Scandinavian Centre). I knew Karen as a wonderful, vibrant woman with amazing stories. In all her stories it was clear how much she loved her family, how much she cared for communities and human rights, and her joy of life.

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Anita King
January 29, 2025 at 11:36 AM
Karen had a profound impact on my life. I was a new mother in the early 1990s, and her playgroup at Lord Roberts School (later at the community club, and then Augustine church) was a safe and happy place. Parents and children all benefitted from her warm and welcoming presence. Karen created a very special atmosphere. Kids had a place to play, sing, snack, and explore. Parents could meet, share joys and troubles, exchange stories and wisdom, and laugh and cry together. Many neighbours became life-long friends. Including Karen and I. She was artistic, intelligent, whimsical, innovative, funny and forgiving. She made it look effortless, but you could sense there was a lot of thought and care behind the program that she planned each week. She had fun too, we could tell. Personally, she came to my rescue more than once when I was exhausted, and just needed someone else to hold the baby so I could catch my breath, maybe simply with a walk around the block. I am eternally grateful for her kind mercies.
Karen became a cherished member of our neighbourhood knitting group. We loved to see what incredible project she was working on next, and many of us sought her advice with our own knitting problems. We all missed her so much these past years when she was no longer able to knit, and declined to join in.
Karen often sat outside on her front porch, and because I walked past her place twice a day, to and from the bus to go to work, I sometimes stopped in to chat. Or if it was pouring rain, to take shelter from the storm. One time I found her in front of the stove, gently stirring something in a saucepan. I was curious because I thought Karen didn’t cook. Well, there she was, stirring raw wool in hot water, dyeing it and coaxing it into felt fabric so she could make little baby elf booties! That kind sums up Karen to me. Always making art. Always open to visits. Amazing. Kind. Generous. Quirky. Quietly determined. She was one of a kind. I loved and admired her and I will miss her so very much.
My deepest condolences to Rob, David, and Eli and families.

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Geoffrey Young
January 28, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Karen was the loveliest neighbor one could ever have hoped for. We were so fortunate to have Karen and Rob right next door for most of my life growing up. Karen will be deeply missed and remembered always with a big smile. Too many fantastic memories to list, but I do want to say that her kindness, resilience, and unending patience was inspirational. SO many full conversations covering ALL the worlds problems (sprinkled with some fun gossip) and always her smile. My sister Kristine, my mom Bernice, and I will miss her gentle presence Greatly. Karen and Rob were such a lovely energy to live next to for so many years for which we are all very fortunate and very grateful.
Sending our deepest sympathy and love to Rob, Eli, and David and their families.

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Susan Kiely-Smith and family
January 27, 2025 at 7:10 AM
My deepest condolences to you Rob, David, Eli, Hans and to your families on the loss of an amazing woman. I met Karen at Lord Roberts School when she ran the playgroup from there and moved on with her when it switched to the community club. Our friendship grew from there and our mutual interests formed a friendship that lasted these past 26 years. Over the years we had many coffee dates and knit nights together. I always felt like Karen "got me" and I hope that she felt the same way. Over the last few years we allowed our men-folk to join in our visits which had led to an even greater friendship. It meant a lot that she was there for special events for my children the last one being Emily's wedding. I treasure my memories of the Jack's Christmas decorating parties and in her legacy I have conitinued this tradition with my family. I will miss her laugh, her wit and her friendship.

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Christian Castenskiold
January 27, 2025 at 3:50 AM
Our condolences to the family of Karen.
We are grateful to have meant something for Karen. Karen meant something to us at Hoerbygaard while she was with us, and she has been remembered since.
What a meaningful and rich life Karen has lived. We thank for our little share of it.

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Christina and Bob Casey
January 26, 2025 at 4:47 PM
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Karen. She was a dear friend and we had many special times together with your children and ours. All the holidays, Christmas, Halloween, Easter etc. I remember going for long walks with Karen along Rosedale and some other streets. I remember going to community hall and doing crafts together. When we moved away we didn't see each other so much, but we did stay in touch and did visit each other. We really enjoyed your company. Also going to wedding socials and spending a lot of time on the dance floor. our grown children's weddings etc. you and Karen coming to our 50 anniversary when Bob and I repeated our vows. It was wonderful to see you there. Also when we went to McNally Robinson and saw you sitting at a table and we changed to a table of 4. Instead of 2. Also you and Karen's last visit to our house. We made some very great times and memories. Our love and condolences to your family.
Bob and Cristina Casey

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Nicholas LaPorte
January 26, 2025 at 12:01 PM
I was so fortunate to have had two Danish women influence my life, my mom and Karen. My childhood would have been poorer without Karen's love, creativity, and sense of humour.
I have so many great memories of Karen. The tradition of making Danish Christmas decorations while drinking glogg and eating aebleskiver will forever be missed. I probably wouldn't know how to make heart baskets and folded stars without those cozy gatherings.
Karen saved my but when I was theatre student at the UofW. As the props coordinator, I needed two life size dolls that looked like they had been made in an ancient Greek jail. A tall order that could only have been met with her creative force and determination. Karen and my mom worked late into the night sewing these for me and the play. The dolls were fantastic and greatly appreciated by cast, crew, and the audience: but especially me, who thought the task was insurmountable.
I also remember she would laugh at my jokes and often make them funnier. Around her, I felt totally at ease and loved, much like everyone who knew her.
I miss her deeply.

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Betty Cinq-Mars
January 25, 2025 at 10:14 PM
Karen facilitated the playgroup at Lord Roberts that my children attended. Her ability to be calm and gentle in the middle of chaos was truly impressive, and something I always remembered. She touched the lives of many kids and moms from the neighbourhood, a legacy to be proud of.

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Lori and Chester Lobchuk
January 25, 2025 at 7:14 PM
Our condolences to Rob and family. Karen was a remarkable person with such a kind heart. She will be missed by many.

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Rennie Bodi
January 25, 2025 at 6:48 PM
Dear Rob and family, Karen Introduced me to the Graft Guild, where she and her mother soon learned that I didn't have any talent for knitting, crocheting or anything else. They were so kind to me and when I showed them my first attempt at knitting, I shall always remember their pure joy in holding up my 'creation' for inspection. Elise was smiling, but Karen was laughing! I shall remember her laugh - like a trill on the flute. I'm so very sorry this wonderful woman has left us.

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Ann Robins
January 25, 2025 at 4:18 PM
What a beautiful life you had together Rob. So very sorry for your loss💕

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Tom
January 25, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Karen and Rob so many years ago at a Danish Christmas dinner hosted by friends Paul and Mette.
Some years later on a potty training day. Maybe not entirely appropriate but the photo did bring back many memories for me.

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Tom
January 25, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Karen and Rob so many years ago at a Danish Christmas dinner hosted by friends Paul and Mette.
Some years later on a potty training day. Maybe not entirely appropriate but the photo did bring back many memories for me.



Tom LaPorte
January 25, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Such a sad loss of such a unique and special person.



Annette Thorimbert
January 25, 2025 at 12:26 PM
Sincere condolences to the family.

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Brent and Grace
January 25, 2025 at 11:19 AM
Our parents were friends for many years and I will always remember Karen as one of the most kind and gentle people I have ever known. Our concolences to Rob and family.

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Linda Bruce
January 25, 2025 at 11:00 AM
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Jordana Hague
January 25, 2025 at 8:21 AM
Though I only got to know her for a short time, Karen left a lasting impression on all of us at U-Turn. We connected most over my 3 cats and I loved getting to talk about them and share photos with her when she came to class. Thanks for sharing a larger look into her life and who she was as a person, she will be missed.
Heartfelt condolences from everyone at U-Turn Parkinson's.

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Esmé Gans
January 25, 2025 at 3:01 AM
Karen amazing person with a beautiful soul. For her family and for peace. I wish Robby, Eli and David and the family and friends all the power you need. With love from NL, Esmé

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Sacha Gans
January 25, 2025 at 1:39 AM
Hi Ribby so nice to read this, I didn't know. I never met her or maybe when we were a kid and İ don't remember, I will ask my Dad.. What a lovely person! As İ wrote you before: for you and your kids strength and comfort to get through this difficultness. They say it's a part of life, but it feels like a worthless part of life. Take care of eachother! Gurur, Şilan, Sacha
Hi Ribby so nice to read this, I didn't know. I never met her or maybe when we were a kid and İ don't remember, I will ask my Dad.. What a lovely person! As İ wrote you before: for you and your kids strength and comfort to get through this difficultness. They say it's a part of life, but it feels like a worthless part of life. Take care of eachother! And take care oGurur, Şilan, SachaGurur, Şilan, Sacha

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Jackie and Larry MacFarlane
January 24, 2025 at 11:03 PM
Loved being included in the epic annual Christmas craft days and our visits! ❤️ Sorry for your loss. Karen was a beautiful soul.

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Aimee Proulx
January 24, 2025 at 6:18 PM
I very fondly developed a love for troll dolls because of her. When she volunteered at Ecole Riverview, I listened and wrote a storybook about them after she taught me the legend. She was truly an amazing lady.

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Ruth Lindsey-Armstrong+ Cliff Armstrong
January 24, 2025 at 6:18 PM
Karen and Rob have been our neighbors for almost 40 years, but I knew Karen before we became neighbors. Karen helped me with a project I worked on as an Early Childhood Education student. I needed to present about child care in the Scandinavian countries, and Karen was an expert! She told me stories about how the ECEs would knit for the infants and preschoolers during their nap times and marveled me with information about how important outdoor play was for children, and how the country supported this in early childhood programs. Karen gifted me a purple shirt, telling me that it was the color associated with early childhood in Denmark. I wore the shirt when I did my presentation!
Fast forwarding, when we became neighbors we would stop for a "quick" chat over the fence, they were never that "quick" but always delightful!
Rob - your tribute to Karen is so thoughtful, and even though I only knew her in a small way, she was remarkable, kind, and lovely. Our thoughts are with you, Eli and David and their families.

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