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Joan Keely

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JOAN KEELY

It is with great sadness we announce the passing of Joan Mary Keely (nee Kirwan), at Riverview Health Centre on November 30th, 2022 with her family by her side.

 

Joan is survived and greatly missed by her loving husband Shane; children, Sharon, Susan (Mark), Brian (Christine), and Siobhán (Derrick); her sister Anita (Jim) in Australia; her grandchildren, Ceiandra, Evinn, Allyssa, Kathleen, Genevieve, and Candace; and numerous nieces and nephews in Ireland. She will also be missed by special friends Marie McCarthy, Pat Mccorriston, and Coronation Street consultant Norma Thomas. She was predeceased by her parents Frank and Rose Kirwan and five siblings.

 

Joan was born December 10, 1943 in Carrick-on-Shannon, Ireland and grew up as the youngest of six children in the lovely seaside town of Cobh, last port of call for the ill-fated Titanic.

 

In 1960 she met Shane at the local tennis club dance, fell in love and two years later they married and moved to London, England to begin their lives together. Shortly thereafter they relocated to Vancouver, Canada. In 1969, Shane qualified to practice law in Manitoba. It was back on the road again, this time in an ancient Plymouth with two children, a TV and a couch in tow. On a cold day in January, Joan crossed the Rockies enroute to Winnipeg and her permanent home.

 

Joan quickly settled into her adopted city which she grew to love, making many loyal and lifetime friends in the process. She adored her children who were paramount in her life and due to her care, example, and guidance, all grew to be successful worthy citizens. Accompanying them to their first days of school, planning major trick or treat adventures, getting Brian to hockey and Susan to court to answer to the heinous crime of cycling while listening to a Walkman are just a few of many fond memories of early days in Fort Garry.

 

With her sense of style and fashion, her love of socializing and a little chat, Joan was a popular member of the Manitoba Irish Community for over 50 years. She loved the wonderful Christmas parties at the Langan's, Egan's, Mulhern's and with other friends. And loved to host her own parties where her Irish coffee was savoured by all. She also enjoyed dropping into the Irish Club on Erin Street on a Saturday night for a bit of the craic. Sadly, it has all come to an end.

 

The family would like to thank Dr. Anne Durcan, Dr. James Tam, palliative care coordinator Erin, and palliative nurse Lisa for their kindness, advice, comfort, and care during Joan's illness.

 

We will miss you Joanie. You were a wonderful mother, a wonderful wife and just a wonderful person. Your likes will never be seen again.

 

As per her wishes cremation and a private family celebration of Joan's life have taken place.

Joan’s family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by sharing photos, memories, and stories, using the comment section on this page.

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Georgette Holberg

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Our sincere condolences to you Shane and your family. Joan or Joanne as we knew her was a wonderful lady. Take care. Georgette & Rick Holberg (Audrey's sister & brother in law)

Mary Rose and Eamon Coffey

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Happy heavenly birthday, Joanne.  Sincere condolences to the Keely family. Mary Rose and Eamon. 

Maureen Taggart.

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

To Shane, Siobhan and the family of the well-loved Joan: so sorry to learn of Joan’s death. Hugh and I send our sincere condolences to you and the family. Joan was always a joy to talk to. She was down to earth, compassionate and very funny! It is a privilege to have known her.❤

Pat McCorriston

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Shane and family I am so sorry for your loss. She will be missed so much, after 50 years of friendship. I will remember all the joy and laughter she brought to any gathering especially our coffee get togethers and lunches.   

Carol McQuarrie

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Joan was a lovely lady, and a delight to know. She was always ready with a laugh, a compliment and a beautiful smile. My deepest condolences to Shane, Siobhan and all the family. 

Erin O’Neill

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

To the entire Keely family my most sincere condolences on the passing of Joan who was an amazing woman larger than life itself! She brought so much joy and laughter into my life and I adored her. She was a straight shooter and with every line she delivered I was always roared with laughter. So, when I taught Susan how to test spaghetti to see if it was cooked I said, “throw it against the wall and if doesn’t stick, it’s done” and Joan’s reply was “Jesus, that’s just f%^&n stupid, Erin”! I am blessed to have had the opportunity to have had her in my life when I did. All My Love O’Neillski

Audrey Holleron

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I first met Joanne when she was expecting Siobhan. Peter and I were grocery shopping in Grant Park when his Father was visiting from England and she was there - what a charming lady she was that day and since - we have been friends from that day on! Best curry chicken and, of course, the Irish Coffees!! My sincere condolences to Shane,  Sharon, Susan, Siobhan, Brian and family. I am so happy that I was able to speak with her just prior to her passing😘 Rest in Peace my Dear Friend, love Audrey Holleron 💕💕

Maurice Harnett

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Sincere condolences to all the Keely family. So many great memories enhanced by the best Irish coffee in the whole world. Her great smile and ready laugh will always live on in our great memories.  Maurice and Jasso.

Ariel Lupu and Family

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Our sincere condolences to the family.

Danielle Savage

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Our our deepest condolences to the family. She was always such an elegant lady, she always reminded me of a film star from the golden age of Hollywood. And I will miss how she always called me Ann-Margret.  Danielle & Kieran Savage

Marie McCarthy

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Joanne was a wonderful friend and I will miss her dearly. Our visits and conversations , sometimes hilarious and sometimes reminiscing about growing up in Ireland. God bless. Rest in peace Joanne. My thoughts and prayers are with Shane and the family. 

SYL PARRY

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

 My most sincere condolences to Shane and Family. I was honoured to know Joan and enjoy her company on many occasions.

Sharon Coffey Kolida

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Mom and I are so sorry to hear of Joan’s passing. Joan was a wonderful friend to the Coffey family. We have such fond memories of time spent at the Irish Association with both Joan and himself. Mom and Dad spent many late nights at the Keely’s after the Club having a grand old time. I will always remember Joan’s sense of humour and her love of fashion she always looked amazing! Much love to all the Keely family. Sharon Coffey Kolida Elsie Coffey

Maria Higgins

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

To Shane and the entire Keely family, sending my sincere condolences. Every memory that I have of Joan makes me smile, as I remember her for her warmth, humour and keen interest in people. Her love of her family was evident in almost every conversation that I can recall. She will be dearly missed . Rest in Peace Joan. 

Brad Cook

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

We lived on the same street, so I was always running into her.  I met the Keelys' shortly after they arrived in Winnipeg and was part of the Canadian contingent at the Langans' annual.  And what a delight conversing with her  was! She would stop for a chat to catch up.  She was so curious and was always asking after mutual friends. I loved her lilt and phrasing. When she had enough conversation, her famous words of departure were "Well, Brad, I'll let you go."  I can hear her now.

Brian

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

The Langan Boys

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

As young children, the annual Langan Irish party in late January was an exciting and unusual affair. We were all sent to bed at 8pm before the first guests were to arrive (our mother told the Irish guests to arrive at 7:30pm so that they would arrive at 8:30pm - she told the Canadians to arrive at 8:30pm so that they would arrive at 8:30pm). We would be in our rooms pretending to be getting ready for sleep … but would actually be listening for the clickity clack sound of the heels of Mrs. Keely coming down the hall … Because - of all of our parents’ friends - we could rely on Mrs. K to race up to our rooms with chocolates, under the rubric of wanting to see how much we had grown (“Jaysus! Yer turnin’ into a giant!”). Sneaking chocolates to us at 10pm when we were supposed to be asleep - and then sending us into peels of laughter about Mulligan the dog or “himself” (Mr. Keely) and some daft idea - was a violation of so many of the rules of our young world. We weren’t supposed to be awake at 10pm, definitely were not supposed to be eating chocolate in bed, and weren’t supposed to be as interesting as the grown ups. And yet, every year without fail, the clickity-clack heels would arrive and back would be Mrs. Keely to break the rules again and bother a visit with us. “Mind you wash your teeth now or your mother will be after me! Or worse - Maurice Harnett!”  Though simple, we now recognize that these brief encounters showed an essence of Joan Keely. Many of us make the mistake of thinking that life is about “successes” or “achievements” or some other social virtue. But Joan Keely realized that life was actually about seizing the moment you are in and appreciating those around you. Our mother always said that Joan was the perfect confidant: “You could tell Joan anything. Anything. She’d never judge you and could always find a way to crack a joke and make everything seem not as bad”. What better purpose to life could there be? The world would be a more loving, peaceful and joyful place if there were more Joan Keelys.  We are all very sorry for the void Joan’s passing must have left. If we all enjoyed Joan so much for the occasional moment we had with her, we can only imagine what she must have meant to her family. But please take some comfort in knowing that we smiled more because of her and that, although she is now gone, our smiles will remain.  The Langan Boys  (on behalf of the Langan family)
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