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Barbara Leonard

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BARBARA GWENDOLYN LEONARD

(née GOWER)

It is with great sadness our family announces the sudden passing of our wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Barbara Leonard, known lovingly to all as Gram, on August 17, 2023. She was predeceased by her mother, Florence Gower (nee Sleno) on June 29, 1981, her father, William Henry Gower, on August 7, 1992, her only son Denis Robert Leonard on October 10, 2015 and her middle daughter, Jacqueline Renee Gerelus on August 17, 2021.

 

Barbara is survived by her husband of 65 years, Tony, daughters Sue Leonard and Monique (Bernie) Rempel, son in law Mark Gerelus, daughter in law Laurel, five beloved grandchildren Casey (Kyle) Smithson, Amy Leonard, Brayden (Noelle) Rempel, Erin Rempel, and Noah Rempel as well as five dearly loved great grandchildren Zach & Norah Smithson, Lucas Hepburn and Elias & Sophie Rempel. She will be missed by "adopted" daughters Karen Veldkamp (Joe) Perry and Marlene (Bob) Gallagher and their families. She also leaves behind many cherished cousins, lifelong friends and coworkers as well as her cherished cat Hank.

 

Barbara embarked on her life's journey on May 7, 1940, in South Porcupine, Ontario. The family's path led them to Winnipeg in 1943, where young Barbara discovered the joys of friendship and the thrill of figure skating at the Winnipeg Winter Club. An only child, she found solace in the company of friends, cousins, aunts, uncles, and the warmth of her grandparents' love.

 

In 1955 her father introduced her to Tony at a bowling windup. No one but Barbara knew that the 6-foot 2 man in a blue suit and a yellow knitted tie would soon become her husband.  In September 1957, they were wed and began their married journey.

 

Barbara's life took on new meaning as she transitioned to motherhood with the arrival of her children – Denis in 1958, followed by Sue in 1961, Jackie in 1962, and Monique in 1964. The bustling household moved four times before finding a home in Transcona, where Barbara and Tony's shared commitment to community found expression in their involvement with the East End Community Club, Kinsmen & Kinettes as well as other charitable organizations.  Barbara was great at organizing the schedules for a household of 6 active people. 

 

Her career journey was a testament to her skills and dedication. Barbara initially took on the role of a comptometer operator at Eaton's, later finding her place at the Attorney General’s Office in the Records department. Her impeccable handwriting and engaging personality made her an invaluable asset, and her work was enriched by the camaraderie she shared with her colleagues.

 

In 1978, the family embarked on a new adventure, settling in Brandon, Manitoba, where Barbara's versatility shone as she coordinated the Canada Winter Games and later tried her hand as a front desk clerk at the Redwood Inn. The move brought new chapters for two of her children, as Denis and Jackie found love in Brandon.

 

Barbara and Tony returned to Winnipeg in 1982, planting roots in Southdale. Barbara became an integral part of the Government of Manitoba, managing the Finance Department's file room. Throughout 41 years, their home became a hub of love and togetherness, hosting countless family and friend gatherings, embodying the open-heartedness that defined Barbara's essence.

 

As the family continued to grow through marriages and unions, Barbara's heart expanded with pride. Her joy was boundless whenever a new grandchild arrived, and her status as "Gram" was a badge of honor she wore with unparalleled pride. Traveling became a source of joy, as she explored destinations from Las Vegas to the Netherlands and a cruise to Alaska, creating memories that would forever dance in her heart.

 

Barbara's creativity found expression in her hobbies – from knitting to scrapbooking and genealogy. She loved experimenting with new recipes where she would use her family and friends as guinea pigs. Her life was seldom without the presence of a beloved pet, a reflection of her deep love for animals.

 

Her Thursday appointments with her hairdresser, Carol, were legendary within the family, a recurring source of amusement as her hairstyle transformed from visit to visit. And who could forget her shopping excursions? Whether for herself or her cherished grandchildren, Barbara's Hudson Bay bags became a daily accessory which allowed Tony to identify her when he picked her up from work; we are fairly certain the Downtown location closed because Barbara retired.  

 

Above all, Barbara's home was full of love. Her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren were the stars that lit up her sky. Her capacity to love was as boundless as her laughter, as evident in her unshakable belief that family was paramount. Friends were family too, and her embrace extended to all with open arms, laughter, and her oft-told claim of being the funniest one around. She had a craving for conversation, and her phone calls could stretch for hours.

 

 As we remember Barbara, let us honor the legacy she leaves behind; a life lived with love, laughter, and an unwavering commitment to those she held dear. Her spirit lives on in the stories shared, the laughter echoed, and the warmth of her love that forever remains etched in our hearts. May her memory continue to bring smiles to our faces, just as her presence did in life. 

 

Rest in peace, dear Barbara, knowing that your legacy of love will continue to shine brightly through generations.

 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Heart & Stroke Foundation, CancerCare Manitoba or to your favourite charity in Barbara's name.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 2pm on Friday, September 1, 2023 at 603 Wellington Crescent (Unitarian Church).

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Jody Sheppard

September 12, 2023 at 12:08 PM

As a friend of the family (and neighbour)  for many years and on behalf of my family, I would like to send our deepest condolences to the Leonard family. So sorry to hear of Barb’s passing. Barb was always so welcoming to her home throughout the years. She always made you feel like family. When I saw her last, we went to see what I understand to be one of her favourite movies ‘A Star Is Born’ (we went to see the newest version). It was so nice to see her that day and spend time with her and her family.  Our Deepest Sympathy Jody and Ernie and the Prociuk family.

Cathy Mc

September 12, 2023 at 9:06 AM

Sue, so sorry for the loss of your Mother.What a beautiful tribute to her and her life. Caring thoughts and  my deepest sympathy to you and your family in your time of loss.

Barb Malzensky

September 9, 2023 at 1:08 PM

I met Barb over 35 years ago when Sue invited me to a family gathering. Barb was so kind and welcoming. She loves her family with all her heart and is very proud of them. Barb had many memories to share about when she met Tony and when her children were young. I cherish the time spent with Barb and her family. Barb always had hugs for everyone and was interested in what and how you were doing. Her heartwarming laugh and smile will always be remembered. Barb, thank you for the memories

Belinda

September 1, 2023 at 9:26 PM

I met Barb and Tony when I was 6 years old and have love them ever since, which is now 58 years. In keeping with Sue & Monique’s tribute I’m going to give thanks for just a small portion of things Barb did for me in all those years.  Thank you Barb for loving me always and forever, no matter how bratty I was. Thank you Barb for always listening to my good times and bad times and making me a better person with all your advise. Thank you Barb for showing me such kindness growing up and introducing me to the Polynesia Room and the Drums of Heaven there. Thank you Barb for hiring me which gave me my livelihood and 34 years with the Province of Manitoba. Thank you Barb for making my family love Chinese Meatballs but the strong dislike of making them so tiny! Thank you Barb for always telling me the hard truth even though it was hard to hear, but necessary. Thank you Barb for so many laughs and tears all at the same time. Thank you Barb for hosting some of my life events from baby showers to my Dad’s wedding, you were always so gracious and willing. And lastly, thank you Barb for your Motherly arms that hugged me so tightly and your friendship that you offered no matter how long we went without seeing each other. Be at peace with your Denis and Jackie, I will carry you in my heart until we meet again. 

Ian Heather

August 31, 2023 at 9:55 AM

Marg and I were very saddened to hear of Barb’s sudden passing.  My memories of my “older cousin” (how she began our conversations) go back to our youth when we would attend the Winter Carnival at Orioles CC to watch her figure skate.  In the summer, her family would make trips to Red Lake, ON for visits. (My mother and her father were siblings). Over the years our families’ lives took us in separate directions, but Barb and Tony were alway so welcoming and included our family at their Boxing Day dinners.  Since retirement, we have enjoyed a special relationship and met regularly for lunch or picnics and friends’ time!  Barb’s stories and great sense of humour will be sorely missed.     Our thoughts and prayers are with you Tony, Sue, Monique and family. Love, Ian & Marg Heather ❤❤

Andrea Senebald

August 30, 2023 at 12:10 PM

What an amazing life well lived, full of love, family, and friends. I am so sorry for your family's loss. 

Reeni

August 27, 2023 at 6:23 PM

Sue, my heart goes out to you on the sudden loss of your Mom. You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers as you grieve❤

Tim walsh

August 26, 2023 at 1:06 PM

I think of her and I smile, she always made me laugh n feel loved! I will miss her!  Tim

Sandra

August 26, 2023 at 12:28 PM

What a beautiful tribute, full of so much love. I remember many laughs hearing stories of Barbara, and it is evident she lived a full life with lots of adventure, laughter and love. I'm so very sorry for your loss Sue and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. ❤
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