No words can properly express our shock and deep sadness at learning of Tom’s illness and premature passing.

Tom's parents and ours - Stefanie and Ernie/ Olga and Michael - were the closest of friends from school days up to their own deaths. And so Tom and I, Robert and Kathy and Linda grew up pretty much in tandem. Birthdays, Christmases, Summers at Wanasing: the intertwining of our lives is revealed in our family photo albums.

Over time we saw one another other less frequently. But the bonds of 'family' remained fresh and strong. Now there's a huge hole in our hearts.

Michael Petty, Katherine (Petty) Kaus, Linda Petty

Photos (L-R)

- Michael, Tom © 1955 at 1715 Arlington Street

- Tom, Linda, Kathy, Will Proctor, Robert, Michael © 1964 at 736 Kildonan Drive

- Michael, Kathy, Tom © 1966 at Wanasing Beach

Cindy and family. So sorry for your loss. Tom was such a key part of our business for many years, a daily presence in our office and a great fellow well met at every turn. Full of humour, good will and hard work. My god. What a loss. My thoughts are with you all.

Cindy, so sorry for your loss. Tom was a fascinating guy, curious, and fun to be with. Such enthusiasm. It was infectious. Jo and I send our sincere condolences

Beautiful tribute for the life Tom lived with his beloved family.

Oh Cindy, I'm so sorry for your loss. You, Tom and I met at Red River College and that whole class was such a tight group of friends. When I moved back from B.C., I remember meeting Tom coming out of a business luncheon and he proudly showed photos of his newborn son. He was just bursting with pride. Enjoy your memories of Tom ❤️

Although I didn't know Tom, my work with Cindy on the board and witnessing her compassion allowed me to understand that Tom must be a remarkable individual to have a wife like Cindy supporting him.

My deepest condolences to the Lewiki family. I had the pleasure of working with Tom at Image Color when he started as a rookie Salesman In the early 90s. As he was learning the different aspects of our business I would call him 'grasshopper', which he got a kick out of, considering I was 5'5" and he was 6'3"!!! He will be missed.

Cindy and Evan,

• I am so sorry for your loss. I was shocked and devastated to read of Tom's passing and suffering. Over the years I thought of Tom so many times and truly missed him and our friendship. I just commented on Christmas how much I looked forward exchanging gifts with him. I still use the pitcher and glasses he gave me one year and I still hang the beautiful ornament on our tree every year and think of him when I do. I remember him coming into my office and discussing the what happened the previous weekend on Trading Spaces and how much you loved watching it. Please accept my deepest condolences. He will be forever in my heart. He was one of the good ones.

Cindy, My sincere and deepest condolences to you, Evan and Melissa. I liked Tom. He always struck me as someone who always, always, had a smile for everyone. Much like the photo you have selected.

He will be deeply missed by everyone who had the good fortune to know him.

Cindy - so sorry to hear about Tom . He was one of the most unique and interesting guys i ever met. His sense of humour was always delightful and his insights informative. We always used to joke about showing up for the same job interviews and shared a great love of trivia about the world around us. He will be missed

Liliana and I were grieved to read about Tom’s passing. Tom was a kind, intelligent and generous friend during High School, University and Grand Marais Summer days and afterwards. Tom’s nickname was Sticky then. And Rock was our music.

Rock Song for Sticky

Scorching the hall the band burned away

where the air rose to meet its flame on time.

We were sure that wild was style, and

not missing their thunder of renown

were devout for this three-piece tribe. Boss the

Drummer, who blazed away at the skins,

teased the guitar, plied the beats to cry ha-ha

this is where you boom in. It was your solo

that turned the blaze up, torched the stars.

Our deepest condolences to the entire family. We had the pleasure of spending a wonderful day with Tom, Cindy, Bob and Krystina on our boat at Center Island in Toronto a few years ago. Wish we had taken pictures together!

Pattie and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We always enjoyed Tom and Cindy's visits to Dallas (as long as they left their cold weather in Canada)! Tom will be remembered as a friendly, gregarious, and interesting individual who always had great stories and interesting commentary to share. He will be missed.

My deepest condolences to Cindy, Evan and Melissa on Tom's passing. A man of many talents, very much like his father. Although we didn't see each other often, it was always a pleasure to catch up when we did. He will be missed by many.

Tom was such a cool guy who enjoyed life to the max. I was fortunate to meet him about 35 years ago when we worked together at IG.

I thought of him as a foodie, as he introduced me to many fun places to have lunch.

My heart goes out to you, Cindy and Evan.

Tom was a special soul.

It wasn’t long after I met Richard that he introduced me to Tom, his childhood friend, and the lovely Cindy, and I knew I had found a kinship - people who loved to read!!! (and cook, and listen to music and share amusing anecdotes)

Many a night around a drink or a fire, I listened to Tom and Richard rehashing stories of their youth, different people in their lives, adventures in canoeing, and other hilarious pursuits. Our beloved dogs Baxter and Vladymir (later Remy) got along like gangbusters too and gave us many laughs!

Over the years Tom, Cindy, Richard and I had many shared experiences – concerts (Audience!), Fringe Festivals, trips to Palm Springs, photography appreciation, celebrations of birthday dinners, summer evenings at our Hillside Beach trailer, a scouting expedition to search for their own special Hillside retreat, and even my own journey through cancer. I will always be grateful for these times.

Life is fleeting, life is precious, and these moments will always be treasured.

I just found this picture of Tom enjoying himself at my 50th birthday. We always had a good time.

Over the past few days, I have been reflecting on my friendship with Tom. It is hard to believe he is gone. I will always cherish the good times we had discussing good food and wine, books, movies, and TV shows. I loved our conversations.

I will miss my 'teddy bear' hugs from Tom and will miss reading the endless stream of emails shared with Tom and Bob about art, art shots and photography, cartoons, books, culture, politics, travel, friends, pets and family, but I will miss his humor the most :)

Sending love and hugs to Cindy, Evan and Melissa.

Hello Cindy sorry to hear about Tom. Linda and I have not seen Tom much lately but we will always remember the good times. From Redwood Avenue to Grand Beach and our wedding. Our condolences John and Linda

Tom became one of my best friends over the years. We did so many things together, and I will miss his zaniness, his intellect, his kindness, and his genuine love of life. He will be in my heart and thoughts always.

I've known Tom since our days together as CreComm students at Red River College, when he was the guy with the long curly locks. We've been friends ever since, and especially since he married my pal Cindy. Over countless meals and outings, I enjoyed Tom's big laugh, keen interest in just about everything, and his immense appreciation for the finer things in life--like good food, drink, art and travel--as well as simple things like a game of darts at his cottage. I will miss him.