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Barry Locken

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BARRY GORDON LOCKEN

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December 31, 1958 - May 13, 2022

With broken hearts we regret to announce that  Barry Gordon Locken (Age 63), suddenly passed away on May 13, 2022 with his family by his side. 

 

Barry was born December 31, 1958, to Albert & Dorothy Locken (both deceased) in Winnipeg, MB. He moved to Nanaimo, BC during his children’s school years to be closer to the ocean and mountains and to chase his dreams. Ultimately, the prairie-born always come back, and 6 years ago he returned to Winnipeg.  

     

Barry leaves behind his beloved wife of 38 years, Pamela Locken, who stole his heart dancing the night away at Winnipeg’s hottest club back in the 80’s. Pam was Barry’s greatest love, his best friend, and he was so proud of the incredible artist she had become over the last few years. 

 

Barry also leaves his daughter Karly (Jordan) Tidey; Son Jackson (Tiffany); as well as three grandchildren.

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Barry enjoyed a successful career in many capacities, mainly in procurement management. As one of his employers stated, “Barry was a true gentleman…always smiling and full of enthusiasm, the creator and driving force behind the Legacy Fund- and party planner extraordinaire – he was a Legend.” 

 

The greatest gift that Barry leaves us with is his passion for living each day to the fullest, with deep intention and loving kindness. He dedicated himself to caring for others, whether through acts of service like a home-cooked meal or words of encouragement.  

 

Barry’s proudest achievement was becoming a grandfather; he saw this as his legacy.  

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The Clock of Life is wound but once 

And no man has the power to tell just  

when the hands will stop 

On what day- or what hour. 

Now is the only time you have. 

So live it with a will; 

Don’t wait until tomorrow, 

The hands may then be still! 

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In accordance to Barry’s wishes, he has been cremated and a private celebration of life will be taking place.

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ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Jackson

May 13, 2024 at 2:26 PM

I wish we had a spot where I knew you were close. I would talk to you for hours. It’s not getting any easier, it really does just get harder with time. Thinking of you today and always.  Your son, Jackson 
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Pamela Locken

May 13, 2023 at 8:44 AM

❤Barry....One year since your passing. I'm unable to let our love die, you will always be in mind. They say" sadness flies away on the wings of time" Each day I'm a little stronger and my memories become more vivid. I smile a little more and laughter comes to my heart when I have a certain memory or hear  your voice in my head. I thank you my love for the years we had. Pammy xoxo
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Chaunce

July 7, 2022 at 2:16 AM

Barry will be deeply missed. So sad to hear of his passing. I didn’t see Barry very often he was the nicest, most gentle guy. Really will miss him deeply. Condolences to Karly, Jordan Pam (Mrs. Locken) and Sloan love you guys so much! 
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Nikki

June 19, 2022 at 9:59 AM

Yesterday at the Forks my husband was approached and handed a card as a random act of kindness. When we opened the card and read the note we were very touched. It was a wonderful gift for his first Father’s Day. Barry must have been an incredible person to raise such a thoughtful family. We just wanted to pass on our appreciation for the gesture, and to express how touched we were. We will be sure to pass along an act of kindness in Barry’s honour. 
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Jennifer Tattersall (Carole’s daughter)

May 28, 2022 at 10:14 PM

To my beloved family: I am beside myself with Barry’s loss. I am sending my love to everyone. Barry I see your spirit so bright and beautiful. It is like all of your family. Vibrant, Joyful. 
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Virginia

May 28, 2022 at 9:46 PM

My sincere condolences on Barry's passing. He was always so happy and so nice to us younger cousins whenever he came out to Deacon. From the video and photos that happiness continued to bless his life. He lives on in the love of his family and in your memories and I have no doubt will continue to smile down on all of you. God Bless. Virginia Tattersall
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Tim Shein

May 27, 2022 at 7:52 AM

It is with a heavy heart I hear news on Barry's passing. My condolences to your family during this time of loss. Its been many years since I last saw Barry but he will be missed 😢.  As you all know he was a genuine, enthusiastic, supportive and full of life person. He was one of the good ones! I could always count on him lifting my heart when working with him. Now I have to depend on my memories to keep that smile in my heart. God Bless Tim Shein  From Nanaimo days.
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Harvey

May 26, 2022 at 8:08 PM

Pam & family. It comes with heart felt sorrow to hear of Barry’s passing. Many..many  fond memories of doing business with Barry as well as the family times we all spent together. He will always be remembered.  Harvey Sommerfeld
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Pam, Val and I are thinking of you and you family and of Barry’s warm and generous personality. I’ve never worked with a better person. Bob Stevenson

May 25, 2022 at 8:44 PM

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Paige Fisher

May 25, 2022 at 9:30 AM

Barry was a force of nature! The photos you shared on this site capture his generous spirit and love for his family beautifully. I have such great memories of our time together in all the years that Jordan and Karly have been together - family gatherings with Barry's great cooking at your home, our wonderful experience together in Mexico 10 years ago,  and in recent years family visits in Winnipeg. I have always been grateful for the close friend and father-in-law he became to Jordan - a shoulder to lean on, a pal to go to concerts with, a home repair coach and a buddy for epic food adventures. When we couldn't be there as parents and grandparents for Karly, Jordan and Sloan, we always knew that Pam and Barry were there to offer love and support, which eased the pain of being so far away. The smile that lit up his face when he looked at anyone he loved tells it all. All of his love, care and attention will live on our hearts and in the lives that we carry forward. We honour him every time we treat each other with kindness.  
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Jim Shohet

May 24, 2022 at 10:36 PM

Barry and I did business together for so many years on the Island even though we both changed jobs along the way. I loved his enthusiasm, generous spirit and his honesty. Barry was always professional and fun to be with. And we stayed in touch after retirement and shared more laughs.  I will miss you Barry. You were always so good to me, and shone your light on everyone around you.  Go in peace, my friend.
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melanie

May 23, 2022 at 12:10 PM

❤ lots of fond memories with Barry and all the fellow Lockens'  at Deacon lake in the 80's and early 90's, my sincere condolences to his entire family
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Peter Olafson

May 22, 2022 at 9:26 AM

My deepest condolences to your family. 
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Frank Crucil

May 22, 2022 at 12:38 AM

Pam and family  Our deepest condolences in the loss of Barry I will always remember his smile and happy way about him  He was a great guy and a pleasure to be around Mindy and I will always remember the kindness of you and Barry and especially the New Years party at your house with family  Take care  Frank and Mindy 
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Ken & Bev Hillman

May 21, 2022 at 1:46 PM

Pam & family, we are so very sorry for your loss!  Whenever Candy Cane Lane gets underway each year we think fondly of you and Barry . . . the founders or at least one of the initiators of the spectacle that so many people continue to enjoy.  May your many wonderful memories of Barry help sustain you during this most difficult time. Sincerely, Ken & Bev Hillman
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Bill Wright

May 21, 2022 at 12:01 PM

I always admired Barry for his lust for life. He took all the opportunities that life had to offer him. Barry excelled at everything he did and his outgoing personality was infectious. We first met when the both of us were working at ABD and I was fascinated by his curiosity. Since I had started the job before him, he wanted to know everything I knew, which wasn't much. That started a friendship that I'm blessed to have enjoyed. There was a big gap when he left for a brighter future. I'm happy we were able to reconnect, at least for little while. My heart goes out to you Pam and for the rest of your family. I will miss you Big Guy. Bill Wright
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Marion Robinson

May 21, 2022 at 11:45 AM

I worked with Barry years ago at Nor=Tec Electric he was always interested in my life and very caring to me . so sorry for your loss Pam and family 
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Gwen and Rick Acres

May 21, 2022 at 3:53 AM

Dear Pam and family, We just read the note you wrote telling of Barry’s passing. We are trying to absorb this shock. It’s impossible to imagine what you are going through. Words are never enough to try. But we want to express our sadness at your overwhelming loss. And we hold you close in our hearts. With love and lovely memories. Gwen and Rick 
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Renee Plichta

May 20, 2022 at 7:32 PM

Dear Pam and family My heart is breaking for you,  and I am shocked to hear of this sudden passing. I am so sorry for your loss dear cousin ❤
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Andrew Caronte

May 19, 2022 at 9:54 PM

Barry, you were such a special man, a person whom I admire so very much.  You were genuine and kind and loving. From the very first time I met you, I knew I was in the presence of a man who was unique and special.  A man who loved and lived for his family and would do anything for them. I respected that about you so much. And you were so kind and loving to me, you always made me feel like a part of your wonderful family. Thank you for that.  You may have passed, but your loving nature will live on in every person who ever had the privilege of meeting you. Rest in peace my friend. With all my respect and love, Andrew Caronte
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Barry Smitke

May 19, 2022 at 1:32 PM

I was deeply saddened and shocked to hear of Barry's sudden passing. Barry was a wonderful and remarkable person.  I remember the card games from years ago which was a lot of fun.  You have left this world far too soon.  I will miss you. To all your family I wish to extend my sincere condolences.  Sincerely, Barry Smitke
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Lori Ann Locken

May 18, 2022 at 10:51 PM

Barry I will miss your smile and kind heart. I will miss hearing "Hi Cuz" and getting a bg hug when I visit . Locken hugs are the best.  I am so grateful that you asked we go for a carride when I visited in 2019. I had such a fun time talking, listening to music and seeing the sites.  My heart goes out to everyone who has been blessed to be part of Barry's life. Gone to soon Rest easy Love you  Lori Ann 
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Darlene and Randy Thomas

May 18, 2022 at 6:10 PM

Our hearts break for you with this sad sad news.   There was no question how much Barry loved his “Pammy” and how proud he was of Jackson and Karly and later their spouses and his 3 precious grandkids. He will be so missed by all of you  and we know you will always be grateful for the love he had for you.  Praying for you all.  Darlene and Randy Thomas 
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Karen and John Martin

May 18, 2022 at 4:40 PM

We are so saddened to hear the news of Barry's passing.  All of our love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
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Gillian Campbell

May 18, 2022 at 3:38 PM

When I think of Barry, my first thought goes to his smile. He was an incredibly kind and generous man, and you could see that right away. The picture chosen for this perfectly captures his wonderful spirit that everyone who knew him will miss. The world and our family has lost one of the very best, I hope you are well wherever you are. 
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Shelley Baker

May 18, 2022 at 2:47 PM

I was saddened to hear of Barry’s sudden passing. I’ll always remember at Jackson and Tiffany’s wedding Barry’s speech expressing he would watch out for Tiffany as she would be away from we her family.   His family members attending were so friendly and warm to us. I know Barry loved his family, wife, kids and grandchildren and will surely be watching over them all from the other side with love and protection. 
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Tiffany Locken

May 18, 2022 at 10:33 AM

Barry, you were a man of true class and you lived a large life. You were right there for Jackson and I as a pillar through so many big moments, good and bad, with your support, encouragement, and sound advice. You leave a big hole and you will be missed by so many. Our kids will miss their Gramps. Spending time with your siblings, Bruce and Brenda, is like getting a little slice of you and we will think of you and cherish those moments and the many others that will remind us of you.
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Paul Tidey

May 17, 2022 at 10:42 PM

Barry, you will be missed in so many ways. It was and is my pleasure to share Karly, Jordan and Sloan with you as well as our extended families.  A wonderful, kind and thoughtful man, husband, father, brother, son  and gentleman has passed.  The world has lost one of the good ones and our family has lost a pillar of the foundation.  Rest well Barry.  Love Paul    
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Christin Gilbert

May 17, 2022 at 8:26 PM

Sending so much love to a family who has touched my heart and life is so many ways.  Christin 
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Craig Carter

May 17, 2022 at 5:24 PM

To my best friend, mentor, big brother and Molten of MS. I’ll forever cherish the moments we shared together both good and bad. You personality was larger than life and the care and humanity you showed people resonates with anyone who knew you. We will meet again to entertain people together once again. Love you my brother  Craig
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