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Vince Loptson

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VINCE MICHAEL LOPTSON

July 13, 1945 - June 16, 2020

It is with heavy hearts we have to say farewell to Vince Loptson "Popa"; loving husband, father and grandfather who lost his last battle with Polymyocitis/heart disease at Grace General Hospital.

 

Vince fought like a warrior to stay with us right to the end. He was surrounded by the unconditional love and support of his family, wife Sandy, of 55 years; son Vince Jr. (Cheryl); daughter Kari (Mitch); and his beloved grandchildren Kristopher, Kolten, Madison, and Kyle, whom he loved to the moon and back.

Vince was born in Yorkton, Saskatchewan and lived on the farm with his parents Stan, Florence and two “big” brothers Bill and Stan. He learned that he had to have long arms at the dinner table due to competition at the table with his older brothers (direct quote from Vince).

 

At the age of 13, the family moved to Winnipeg. Vince had to adapt to big city living so he exchanged his overalls and farm boots to city slicker jeans and sneakers. He kept his Saskatchewan upbringing near to his heart, including the Saskatchewan Rough Riders.......never wavered in his support even though his family were true Winnipeg Blue Bomber fans; which made for very animated conversations. He took us on a road trip to Bredenbury, Saskatchewan, back in 1982, and introduced to his hometown; again many stories that made us smile.

Vince met Sandy, the love of his life, in 1963. She literally roller-skated into his life as she was a car hop at A&W. They married in 1964 and had a son and daughter.

Vince's greatest joy was spending time at Balsam Bay cottage for 20 years. He loved watching his four grandchildren frolic in the water and seeing them grow up together, more like siblings than cousins. In the evenings we would be in the gazebo or on the deck playing cards, he loved to teach them new card games. Many games of Monopoly turned into a couple of days. Having the entire family for holidays and weekends were what he always looked forward to as his family meant everything to him.

One of his favourite places to visit with Sandy was Cuba, he immersed himself in the culture and the people. He visited Hemingway’s home and bar El Floridia in Havana, which he spoke about often. Visiting the Greek Islands and time in Saudi Arabia made for great stories with the grandkids, filling their heads with all kinds of adventures.

Vince was a history buff. He was an animal lover and over past three years his fur buddy, Sabu, kept him company. He had a great admiration for elephants, finding them to be majestic, loyal, and gentle.

 

Weep Not For Me

Weep not for me though I have gone

Into that gentle night

Grieve if you will, but not for long

Upon my soul's sweet fight

I am at peace, my soul's at rest

There is no need for tears

For with your love I was so blessed

For all those Many years

There is no pain, I suffer not

The fear is now all gone

Put now these things out of your thoughts

In your memory I live on

Remember not my fight for breath

Remember not the strife

Please do not dwell upon my death

But celebrate my life

~

Farewell to a wonderful Husband,

Father and Grandfather.

Till we meet again

~


The family wishes to thank the staff at the Deer Lodge Centre and the staff at Grace General Hospital, particularly Dr Joshua and Nurse Ester, for their end of life compassion and comfort to Vince and family.

In keeping with Vince's wishes, cremation has taken place and no public services will be held. Vince’s family kindly requests that all of his friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour his memory by watching the photo-biography above. Please, also consider sharing your own photos and/or sharing your own memories and stories using the comment section on this page.

 

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Heart and Stroke Foundation or to Arthritis Research Canada.

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Jackie Bajus

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy, my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I recall meeting Vince on one of your trips to the Hamilton area to visit Christine and John Bonk, and that the four of you and visited with me and my family. Vince was full of humour and stories. Looking at the video Tribute brought it all back to me. What a handsome man with an infectious smile and glint in his eye! Your love for Vince was unconditional through out these  years of medical issues.  Remember the good times and the wonderful experiences you shared. That is the love that will continue in your heart for years to come. I’m sure Chris And Joe have  welcomed  Vince warmly into Heaven and that they are now celebrating in their reunion! Love Jackie Bajus  

Roxanne Burton

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My heartfelt condolences on your loss.  

Kel Kiez

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My deepest sympathy to Sandy and family. Vince was one of a kind and he will be missed by many.😺

Marie Delorme

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was saddened to hear of Vince's passing. Sandy, my heart breaks for the loss of your lifelong partner and for the father and grandfather your family has lost. When I joined the MTS CCG group in 1982, it was Vince, Bill Bowes (who we lost in 2008), and Lorne Selewich who took me under their wing and showed me the ropes. The MTS family holds special memories. This is a lovely photo of Vince and a beautiful tribute. In spirit, Marie Delorme Calgary

Erich Kuch

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was recently in the same hospital room as Vince at Deer Lodge and am very saddened to hear of his passing. A very nice man. My condolences to your family.

Jeff Stern

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Although I never had the privilege to meet Vince, you always spoke fondly of him. You were there for him, never leaving his side with great love and dedication. My thoughts are with you and your family. 

Deb

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

So deeply sorry for your loss, Sandy and family.  Vinny and I shared a few years together working in the NSG group at MTS, in fact we sat along the windows, me behind him.  We teased each other - him playing his radio while I bantered back using hands-free on the telly; and, when cornered, we were quick to defend the other grass hopper (transplants from Saskatchewan).  We were blessed with an amazing work family: Vince, Ken, Bob, Jimmy (then Keri) and myself - all led by jingles, Steve Boyle.  I will forever be thankful for Vince helping me, one of the original MTS female sales reps,  with his knowledge, guidance and humour .  He was my mentor with the transportation industry - I dragged him along on my calls as he could stand up to those 'creative' talking customers.  I use to laugh when Vince took time during the day to get his hair cut ... "it grows on MTS time, so I'm getting it cut on MTS time".  Our paths crossed through the years and we always shared caring words and smiles - happy to see each other.  Vince was one of a kind: one that shall not be forgotten. May you find strength and peace during these sad times.  Debbie Curle (then Sveinson and now Gottfried)❤

Karen Horn

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

All I can say is Vince was one of the truest Gentlemen I ever worked with. I’m so sorry to hear this news. Condolences to the entire family on your loss. He was truly, one of  the great guys.

Marilyn Alexiou

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy and family - May your many decades of amazing memories of unconditional love comfort you.Vince epitomized the greatest generation...a man of honour,intelligence,compassion loyalty and humour.We will all miss him and remember him dearly.Marilyn,Thanasi and Georgie Alexiou xoxo

Rosanne Sogan

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy and family.  Bruce and I only had the pleasure of meeting Vince in person a couple  of times over the years.  Sandy you shared with us so much about his struggles with his illness.  May Vince now be at rest in body and soul and may you, his family, remember him for the wonderful man he was; husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend.  With sincerest sympathy and love, Bruce and Rosanne Sogan and family

ArleneGuttormson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My deepest sympathy to Sandy and family.   Vince was one of my salespeople I worked for at MTS.   He was a character and he was so very nice to me.   He will be so missed.   

Jen Lancaster

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

What a lovely photo tribute. It’s obvious to see, how much he loved all of you dearly. So sorry for your loss. May the memories you have last a lifetime. 

Ed Malawski

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I am so sorry for your loss Vince Jr. Although I never met your father, I know that you are hurting, and missing him right now. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.  Ed Malawski

Jim Martin

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy and family, please accept our condolences on Vince’s passing. I miss hearing his voice as we use to talk frequently. We will talk later. Jim and Bev Martin

Carol Tomes

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

So sorry for all of you. I’ll always remember him with a big smile on his face. It’s been so hard  on everyone to see him suffer, especially Sandy. Now he is at peace. 

Carrie Loewen

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy and family, my deepest condolences to you all. What a beautiful tribute to Vince. His sense of humor  and love for his family shines through all the photo memories. I will miss stopping by your front porch for afternoon chats. Vince always took  time to ask how our family was doing, especially my son Jonny. I couldnt ask for a better neighbor. He will be missed. Carrie Loewen

Alison Steele

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sandy and family - so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Vince well, but remember that he had a great sense of humour and was very much a family man. The photos are wonderful....keep his memories close to your hearts and he will be with you always. Take care, Alison Steele

Del Sveinsson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Sincere condolences go out to you Sandy and the family. I loved the photo tribute and could get a clear understanding of what a great family man Vince was. It was very touching to watch and I saved some of the pictures. You could see that Vince was full of joy and pride with his children and grandchildren in his presence. No doubt you and the family will have an abundance of warm and cherished memories of Vince forever. Cousin Del Sveinsson

Robert Longstreet

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

condolences,,,to Vince and your Family....Your Father must of been a special Dad,,,,,so sorry for your Loss,

Beverly Wood

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My heartfelt sympathies to the Loptson family.  May your memories sustain you through this very difficult time.  I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Vince at MTS.  A true gentleman, a great sense of humour, and always smiling.

Kel Kiez

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was saddened to see Vince's obit in last Saturdays Free Press. I remember him as healthy, vibrant, happy-go-lucky young man, and I felt very privileged to have him as my friend. I always saw him as one with a heart of gold in his communication with people. Ollie and I always had the highest respect for him and you, especially when you were Dauphinites. Now, for our update; Ollie passed away on June 14, last year. Her last few years were filled with pain & agony. A hip replacement surgery in '13 (due to broken femur), a complete knee replacement surgery (due to severe case of arthritis) in '14. By then, the morphine they gave her for pain, speeded up on dementia development. Health authorities insisted that she be placed in St.Paul's PCH. After two years, she gave up and passed away. She was 91. We sold out and moved to Lorray Manor in Feb'14, an assisted-living senior's residence. Ollie spent a year at Lorray Manor, before going to St.Paul's. Our youngest, Kel moved back to Dauphin, after mom was placed in the PCH. We took turns spending about 6 hrs/day to keep her company, and to give her the sense of family togetherness. We know well what it feels like to lose a partner & parent. Our sincerest sympathy is extended to you and your family. Sincerely Peter Kiez and son Kel ❤❤❤

Carla and Wayne Litke

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

So very saddened by the loss of Vince.  Our deepest condolences to Sandy and the rest of the family.  He had the best smile. 

Linda Skinner

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

This is sent with heartfelt condolences to all of Vince's family. I was aware of Vince's struggles and only just learnt of his passing over.  I had the most beautiful experience of getting to know Vince at his last workplace as a customer. He was always so kind, caring, compassionate to all who crossed his path. 'I' being one of them. it would be difficult to fathom the numbers that he had extended his kindness to. There was a day that I was in his workplace when Vince looked at me and said: "Linda you look upset and down" "What is it girl?" I told Vince. He replied: "This is so difficult for you". "You're strong Linda" "Love yourself first and foremost and you'll get through this a stronger gal"  His kindness and 'words' still resound in me.  My heart just breaks for all of his loving family. His wonderful wife, children and grandchildren. The picture video is testament to the most amazing, loving life he led and how his family 'was his life'. The Soul Does Go On...You are with your family in Spirit...Soar With The Eagles Vince...Monarch Butterflies !!! ..Linda Skinner 
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