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Ella Major

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ELLA LYNNE “PEACHIE” MAJOR

(née INKSTER)

September 21, 1942 – November 12, 2022

With heavy hearts, we announce that Ella passed away on Saturday. November 12th in her home as she wished with family by her side.

 

She is predeceased by her parents, Ella and John (Jack) Inkster, her sister Lucille and her brothers Jim, Glen, Jack, and Wes, and her In-laws Geraldine and Charles Major.

 

She is survived by her beloved husband of 55 years John, her daughters Missy (Gary) and Wendy; granddaughters Amanda and Olivia.

 

Ella’s life went full circle: she was born in Selkirk, and she was cremated in Selkirk.

 

Ella was a loving person, a quality known to her family, friends, and her many dogs.

 

She was nothing if not determined.  She was determined to graduate high school in Selkirk with her friends even though her family had moved to Winnipeg. So, Ella commuted on the bus every school day from Winnipeg to Selkirk and back until graduation. This determination was on display in her job interviews as she got every job but one that she interviewed for: The Canadian Wheat Board, Bank of Montreal, Fargo National Bank, Atlantic Promotions and Coty Canada. The one that did not hire her was a new venture that closed within 6 months and we would laugh and say that that was because they didn’t hire Ella!

 

Ella always strived do her best at whatever task she took on. In the bank see was always the top teller. At Coty, she chose to work part-time because she did not want anyone to control her completely and she wanted to live her morning prayer:

Ella’s Morning Prayer

It seems to me that waking up

is such an awful way

To have to start the morning

every single day

My brain is in a groggy haze

My mood is mean and grumpy

My hair’s a mess and so’s my face

From head to toe I’m frumpy!

I simply cannot function

when morning comes so soon!

I wish that I could stay in bed

and start my day at noon!

And get closer to her dream job of working 1 to 9.

Even as a part-time rep, she led the company in sales in her 3rd year. It was her love of flowers that made her love working and excel in the fragrance industry.

 

Out of school she went to work for the Canadian Wheat Board but did not find it offered enough of a challenge, so she moved to the Bank of Montreal and was assigned to their Bannerman & Main branch where she quickly moved up to Head Teller. It was there that she met her husband to be John. It was love at first sight for him, her, not so much.

 

She agreed to marry him if he went back to university so immediately after their wedding, they moved to Fargo, ND. John went to school and Ella went to work at the Fargo National Bank. When Ella interviewed for the job, the VP was so impressed that he wrote a letter to Immigration stating that no American had her qualifications for the position. It was here in Fargo that Ella and John formed a lifelong friendship with Milt and Dolly Strand.

 

After moving back to Winnipeg came her first born, Michelle (Missy) in 1971 and she took on the challenge of being a stay-at-home Mom. And two plus years later a move to Red Deer, AB. where her second daughter, Wendy was born in 1974.

 

We moved back to Winnipeg in 1977 where she doubled as mother and office manager in the family business.

 

Then came her first grand daughter, Amanda, in 1998.   Ella babysat Amanda for the first two years of her life, and they also spent every Friday night together, with sleepovers at Gramma’s house.  Being Gramma was Ella’s favorite job. 

 

Her second granddaughter Oliva came in 2010, although she wasn’t here in Winnipeg, Ella loved the facetime calls and hearing all about Olivia’s dancing. 

 

Ella went 1 for 2 with cancer. Her first cancer, breast cancer, was in 2000. She faced it head on as always and beat it. 

 

Ella then returned to the workforce, but in a new profession. She started with Atlantic Promotions and then moved to Coty Canada the fragrance giant.

 

Ella and John lived on Morton Bay for over 45 years and have enjoyed friendships with many of the neighbors.   Over the years, Ella and John traveled on vacations to many places, but Hawaii was always a favorite.  It was Ella’s happy place. 

 

When she was diagnosed with rectal cancer this past June we just figured that she would face it head on and beat it! No problem, right. But this cancer was too powerful for her to deal with. But typical Ella, she died her way, at home with her family by her side.

 

In Accordance with her wishes, cremation has taken place and no formal service will be held.

 

The family would like to thank her doctors and nurses from Cancer Care and her Home Care nurses whom treated Ella with extreme care, compassion, and love that she really appreciated and looked forward to every visit.

 

We would like to thank Ethical Death Care for all the continuing support and arrangements. They have been so compassionate with our family.

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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Gayle Hallock

January 30, 2023 at 11:44 PM

To John, Missy, Wendy and their families. I am so saddened to hear of Ella's passing. Such memories I have of Morton Bay, and the fun times with our girls. May all your wonderful memories sustain you as you walk through this season. Much love and hugs❤️ Gayle Hallock

Shelley Ringland

December 16, 2022 at 8:14 PM

To John, Missy, Wendy and their families. I was so sorry to hear about Ella’s passing. She was such a good and kind friend to my mom Carole (Zyha) and it was always nice to run into her (and John) out and about. She always took the time to ask about the family which meant a lot. Ella Major was in my mind and from the bottom of my heart, one of the very best! Hugs to you all- Shelley Ringland 

Brenda McRae

December 11, 2022 at 6:28 PM

John, sorry to hear of Auntie Peachie's passing. Sincere sympathy to you and the family. Brenda McRae & family

Margaret Macpherson

December 9, 2022 at 6:04 PM

Sincere sympathy to all the family. Marg and Don Macpherson

Milt and Dolly’s middle son

December 8, 2022 at 1:36 PM

In reading Ella’s obituary, I reflect on the lifelong friendship between the Major, Strand, Swift, Taragos & Wahlgren families, a friendship now in its fourth generation. I am flooded with WONDERFUL memories of meals, camping trips, curling, hockey games, outings, and gatherings our families have shared. I marvel that it is now in its sixth decade. Oh, how time does fly. We all miss Ella, however we have MARVELOUS memories of the beautiful lady, Ella. May the Father, Son and Holy Spirit hold you, John, Missy, Wendy, Gary, Amanda and Oliva in their heart, comfort you and bring you peace in this time of loss. All our love the Strand, Taragos and Wahlgren families.

Robin Hulme

December 8, 2022 at 5:17 AM

Ella and I were the only two down to earth reps at Coty Canada.  We immediately became fast friends and room mates for all future business meetings.  She helped me navigate the first meeting in Montreal.  I admired her attitude and how she saw the things around her.  We laughed about everything and our friendship continued after I left Coty Canada.  She even visited me in Nanaimo.  She was a gift to everyone who knew her.  Thank you for being my friend, Ella.  I will always treasure our time together

Val Williamson

December 8, 2022 at 1:57 AM

To John, Missy, Wendy and families, So sorry Ella had to endure such a difficult passing, along with all of you.  We know how supportive you all were, and our hearts are with you. Love Val & Eric ❤

Trudy Patzer

December 7, 2022 at 11:16 PM

John, Missy, Wendy and families, so sorry for your loss but may the treasure of memories comfort you and give you peace. ❤

Barbara Duguid

December 7, 2022 at 8:27 PM

We are so heartbroken at Ella’s sad passing. She fought so hard to stay but near the end it was just too much for her. She certainly didn’t deserve what she had to suffer. We had many happy times, lots of laughs and lots of good chats! I will miss those a lot. I will still be John’s mailman when he goes on his holidays or trips down to Fargo.  Gifts Ella brought me from Hawaii I look at every day and remember her.  Our hearts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time. Much love  Barb and Don Duguid

Wendy Major

December 7, 2022 at 5:13 PM

To My Mom, My mom was beautiful, caring, loving, and dynamic. Her strength was fierce her courage was always present with a heart that knew no boundaries. She was one of the strongest women I knew, and I was honored to call her my mom.   It still feels surreal that she is gone. Although my tears continue to roll down my cheeks, it symbolizes a lifetime of memories we built together. The stories that brought me laughter will forever be with me. The cherished moments we shared will always remind me of the love she gave me.  My father was by my mother's side for over 55 years. The love they shared was beautiful,  a love I will always be grateful for. My heart breaks for him knowing the love of his life has left, yet I feel comfort and strength watching him live with all his memories surrounding him. This past July, I would have asked her for 100 more days, but as November came I knew I couldn't ask her for one more. Instead, I would stand beside her and hold her hand tight. I would assure her that this is where our story would end. Tell her I will truly miss her and always love her.  I was my moms' second child, the one that would run wild. I was the one that would drive her crazy and test her limits of unconditional love. Her final words to me, "Wendy, Hurry up!" will always seem fitting!  I love you Mom 

Marcia L.

December 7, 2022 at 4:38 PM

My heart is with you all in your time of sorrow. A beautiful flower has bloomed in God’s kingdom, may her memory be eternal ❤

Gary Swift

December 7, 2022 at 4:35 PM

Dear Ella   I couldn’t have hand picked a better Mother-In-law.  Must’ve been the Virgo thing.  Going to miss all the weather reports from you but most of all Ella you’ll be missed by the whole family.  No more pain. Love you Ella  Gary 
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