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Norm Martin

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NORMAN ERNEST MARTIN

April 29, 1970 – November 6, 2022

Very shortly after noon on Sunday, November 6th, 2022, Norm Martin died at the age of 52. This was the end of a nearly two-year battle with cancer that seemed to be won at the start of 2022 but came back severely by August. The cancer was incurable however his life was tragically cut much shorter than was expected when told of its return; eight months or more became three.

 

Norm led a remarkable life with meaning and impact on many people. Born in Winnipeg, Norm was affected by the Sixties Scoop and grew up in Winnipeg’s North End as an off-reserve citizen of Barren Lands First Nation. He experienced deep intergenerational poverty living with his adoptive family in the neighbourhood. Despite these early hardships, he made many friends in the North End at school and through the Air Cadets. Many of his high school friends shared his affinity for Heavy Metal music popular in the eighties.

 

At age twenty-one he had a son, Dylon. He would go on to raise Dylon as a single father in the North End. Although he took great pride and care in being a father, he considered raising a child as a single parent in poverty the most trying experience of his life, surpassing even his cancer diagnosis. This is deeply revealing of some of the cruel hardships’ society places on some of its members. Despite these circumstances, he managed to secure a much better life for his son than he had. Along the way, he led a successful labour drive at a glass factory and became an active community member in the Burrows neighbourhood at the block level.

 

Norm was no stranger to loss. His adoptive parents Donovan and Lillian Martin passed away in his twenties and he tragically lost his adoptive brother Dean Martin in 2002. Norm deeply loved his adoptive family and mourned. He stayed connected with his family of friends and connected with his birth family in 2004. He welcomed relationships with his brother Willy and sister Patricia and his birth mom, Pauline Petti. In 2012 he began dating Moriah Davis, who he would marry in September 2022.

 

He loved his work as a clinical educator, ending his career at St. Amant where he became a champion of Truth and Reconciliation. He was always a sage source of advice and perspective for Dylon and Moriah. He had a sharp sense of humour, which he retained to the very end. He enjoyed making fibre-glass stereo boxes; watching the UFC; high volume Heavy Metal; the Toronto Blue Jays; stand-up comedians; and frequenting pawn shops, often returning home with a new tool or device.

 

Over the weeks Norm received many visitors and obtained some enjoyment and mental activity to near the very end talking, reminiscing about his remarkable life with friends and family, and playing cards. He had a solid winning streak at Crazy Eights all the way to the night before he passed.

 

Norm leaves to mourn many family members, friends, and colleagues. The family acknowledges those who visited and cared for him in different ways over the past two years. In the last week of his life, Norm expressed humble gratitude for their care and felt that he was loved.

The family acknowledges his friends at St. Amant for raising funds to support the Celebration of Norm’s Life, to be held November 26, 2022, at 603 Wellington Crescent from 1 to 3 pm.

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Corman

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Norm was by far the kindest man i ever met and will be deeply missed !!!!!!

Bryan Harder

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I loved Norm as a brother.  He was one of my very best friends and I will miss him greatly. I loved playing Texas holdem with him. Norm only went in if he had a very good hand. If you called him you better have a good hand or you were guaranteed to loose. One of my favorite vacations was with Norm. Norm, Dylan and my daughter Cassandra went to Banff and Edmonton mall. We were not prepared for the cold evenings in Banff and almost froze to death. I bet Norm $5 dollars that he couldn't keep his hand in his massive cooler full of ice water for 1 minute as I was able to last only 5 seconds looking for that last beer. He did it no problem. Best 5 dollars I ever spent.    We decided to climb MT.  Sulfer. If you walked up you got a free gondola ride down.  I thought Norm was going to die climbing up that mountain. It was getting late and it started snowing. The gondola was shutting down soon so Norm said go ahead of us and try to keep the gondola from shutting down. Everyone my daughter and I passed I had asked them to please check on my friend Norm and his son. Norm told me after that many people asked him if his name was Norm, then you can hear them yelling "Norm is still alive". Needless to say Norm made it up that mountain and we enjoyed the gondola ride down. A few days later we went to Edmonton mall. After we had a great day at the mall we needed a place to stay for the night. We stopped at this hotel just outside of Edmonton. The parking lot was empty. Norm and his son went in and they told him that they were all booked for the evening. I didn't believe them.  I parked around the corner then just my daughter and I went in. They said that they had lots of rooms available. I was mad. I didn't think that racism was a part of Norms life. We then all went in together and the hotel employee's face turned beet red. He didn't know what to say. Needless to say we got the room for half price.  Norm keeped me entertained the whole trip with great conversations. Very intelligent man Norm was. I have many more wonderful stories about the great times I had with my very good friend Norm Martin. Miss you buddy. 

Carole Patterson

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Moriah and family. I never had the honour of meeting Norm but through my daughter Shelley and her stories I feel like he would have been a super friend Such a beautiful smile ,beautiful plans for the future and a beautiful wife and family. There is a reason why he was taken so young. For all the tears of grief replace those tears with happy wonderful memories may he Rest In Peace  Carole Patterson (Shelley’s Mom

Moriah

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Here you go, Dee. This is a wonderful photo of the 3 of you!

Nancy Parker

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

You showed such kindness and compassion - you will be missed

Lisa Newman

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Rest in peace Norm. Condolences to your family and friends.

Jeff Boyd

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Rest In Peace Norm you were kind and positive force in this world condolences to your family and many friends ❤

Karen Lynn Kyliuk

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I have such fond memories of Norm.. one in particular was the amazing contraption spinning thing-a-mijig he made for the Circle of Care workshop, Dee and I couldn’t believe how cool it was !.. you had so many talents and such a good heart…you taught me so much over the years and always  lightened my day with a wise crack ( joke) because you loved to see people smile!  the world was a better place with you in it, will miss you dear friend, Karen Lynn Kyliuk 

Therese Merasty

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My deepest sincere condolences to family and friend.  He was a remarkable man always with a smile.❤❤❤ ❤

Cara

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I met Norm way back in the ‘80s through a friend.  I didn’t know him well, only to see him and say hi.  In 1988 I met Jeff, and he took me to a party at a friend’s house.  I remember standing at the top of some stairs and Norm appearing at the bottom, larger than life.  He had a great big smile and even bigger hair!  That was the start of a 35-year friendship.   Though Norm was more than a friend.  I came to think of him as a brother and he thought of me as a sister.   Norm and I both had difficult childhoods, and we both lost our brothers through violence.  I think this brought us even closer.  Not many people truly understand the impact of these things unless they’ve lived through them themselves.   The first thing I think of when I think of Norm is very loud music!  How many of us had better sound systems in our cars than in our homes thanks to Norm?   I lost count of the number of weekends he had a car in our driveway as he built speaker boxes and installed sound systems.    The second thing I think of is ‘Uncle Norm’.  Uncle Norm tipping the canoe. Uncle Norm racing down the Red River in his boat in a lightning storm.  Wasn’t sure we’d get through that one!!  Uncle Norm racing down the highway in that old Duster, wind (and dust and dirt) blowing through his hair as all the contents of the vents blew into the car.  My boys still talk about that day!   The third thing I think of is all the weekends, Easters, Thanksgivings, Christmases, New Years, and birthdays spent at our house.   Norm really was family.   We all loved the fun side of Norm, but he had a serious side too.   Norm was always a very hard worker.  I remember his days at the book bindery, then at Wilmar Windows.  He knew he wanted more, and he had more to offer the world, so he went back to school to further his education.  Can you imagine how difficult that would have been?  A single dad, not yet financially stable.  Can you imagine a better role model for Dylon?   Norm was a wonderful dad.  I think we all see that when we see the success Dylon has achieved.  Dylon is following his father’s footsteps, speaking up for what he believes in and taking action to implement change.  Dylon, your dad was always very proud of you.    With his education complete, a successful career, and his son all grown up, there was only one thing missing in Norm’s life.  A loving partner.  In comes Moriah.   Moriah, Norm was waiting for you.  His love for you could not have been greater.  He was so proud to show me and Jess your wedding video, and we were honoured to see it.     I am so thankful Jesse and I had the opportunity to visit Norm, hug him and tell him we love him.  We knew it was goodbye but didn’t think he would leave us the next day.   Norm, thank you for the years of friendship, laughter, and sage advice.  You were one of a kind, I love you and I will miss you dearly.

Kevin Nagy

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Such a kind soul, great times with Norm from watching Mike Tyson PPV, to camping and fishing  to playing Texas holdem. Having deep conversations, political debates and just talking about life.  Is a great person and great friend.  Until we play poker again Norm 

Vanessa Amanda Deminick

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Dear Norm . I am writing this little letter because it's one way I can express how blessed I was to have met you so many moons ago up in Thompson Manitoba.I  remember going out a few times and having such fun times :) Having late night conversations about life and where it was taking us and laughing hysterically at each other for doing or saying crazy thing's.You were my friend whom I respected so much. I remember the week I was moving away to Vancouver Island and how you said all the rain here would make me want to move back to the north and how sad I was going to be for leaving you in the cold...you said "Karma will follow you Nessa"..and then asked for my parking spot..lol we laughed then you said you'll come back one day. You had such a free spirit my friend and I miss you.I'll keep the memories I have of you in my heart and will never forget you. Rest in eternal loving peace Norm..you are finally free my dearest friend..forever treasured and loved you'll always be. I am sending prayers and condolences to your family and friends...celebrate Norm and his life because he would want that from all of us.

Carol Hunter

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Thank you Norm for always being there for my Mandy. Your hearty smile and laughter will be so missed. 

Carol Hunter

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

A full hearted laugh and smile. Thank you Norm for being.

Kathleen

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I kept hearing about this guy Norm. When I finally met him here in this picture I quickly found out he is a gentle soul. No wonder why Moriah always talked about him. My sincere condolences to Moriah, family and friends. What a great loss. 

Bryden Bukich

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Norm was one of the first people to take a chance on me for summer employment and I will never forget the opportunity he provided me to kickstart my employment and educational life.  I will never forget his jokes and laughs, talking with him about the Toronto Blue Jays and going out for lunch with him and playing his favourite heavy metal in the car. Gone way too soon ❤

Martha

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

It was an honor to have known and worked with you.  Fly High, sincere condolences to Norm's family.❤

Leanne Corriveau

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Was great working with you Norm ❤ was an honor !

Tracey Byrne

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

You are going you to be missed dearly.  Thanks for your great friendship and care to our family. Tracey Byrne 

Haven Stumpf

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

RIP My friend.... Fly high as you always kept your spirit. Your kindness ✨️  shone! I loved kicking your butt at the pool table which was not too often lol... may your next journey be great! 

Abby

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Norm was a beautiful, kind soul. I will always remember how whenever I would say “good to see you Norm” his response was always “it is good to be seen”. ❤ My deepest condolences to Norms family and friends. 

Melanie Heemeryck

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

So grateful to have caught up with you again even if it was just through Facetime. Thanks for dealing with our crazy and being our protector and bestie in our teen years. I guess no road trip to Calgary now. Miss your beautiful face my friend.

Dylon Martin

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

I will remember my father for all he did for me and take solace in the old Epicurean epitaph: "I was not; I was; I am not; I do not care".

Tracey Byrne

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

Here is a nice photo and I’m so grateful we got to have this last visit. 
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