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Caleb McKague

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CALEB ROMAN MCKAGUE

April 10, 2011 - August 5, 2023

Heartbreak fills us all as we share that on Saturday the 5th of August, 2023, Caleb Roman Mckague passed away unexpectedly.

 

He left us to be reunited with his Opa, Alfred Jobse who predeceased him in 2021. He is survived by his loving sister Chloe, his Mom Cindy and Dad Aaron Mckague, his Nana Theresa Jobse, his Aunty Alicia, Uncle Drew and his cousins Keenan and Quinn Thwaites, his Baba Sylvia and Grandpa Ron Mckague, his uncle Jason Mckague, and many, many extended family, friends, and respite workers turned family.

 

Born on April 10th 2011, at 12:41 am, Caleb spent the first 4 weeks of his life in the St Boniface hospital NICU. Caleb was diagnosed early on with cerebral palsy, but he never let that label define him. While technically he was non mobile and nonverbal, you had best believe this smart kid could get around in his specialized equipment and he was an expert at letting people know what he wanted. 

 

Caleb loved basketball, swimming, walking around Lowe's, watching Full House, going to school, playing with his best friend Everett, playing video games with his cousins, cookbooks (especially if they had pictures of fish in them) and playing his Opa's guitar. He was to start grade 7 at John Gunn School after he spent his elementary years charming his way through the halls of Joseph Teres in his walker or on his specialty bike.

 

In September of 2013, Caleb became a big brother when Chloe joined his family. Caleb was the proudest big brother. He and Chloe had a special relationship and she understood him and communicated with him in ways most people couldn't comprehend. She quickly became one of his caregivers simply by mimicking her parents and grew to be one of his fiercest advocates and protectors. 

 

Caleb's family has always been very close but Caleb had his Opa wrapped around his little finger from the moment they met. Alfred always went out of his way to make sure Caleb was included in everything, everywhere (even if it meant he had to carry him) and he gave him everything he wanted, regardless of what Nana or Caleb's parents or anyone else said. Caleb and his Opa had a very unique and special bond, even though Caleb would request the most horrible music to make Opa listen to, or find pictures of fish in various cookbooks just to make Opa squirm.

 

Caleb's life was filled with respite workers, EAs, specialists of all kinds, many Doctors, and endless appointments and therapies but wherever he went, he charmed them all with his sparkling eyes. His perfect smile won the hearts of everyone who crossed his path and his contagious belly laugh kept them there.

 

Caleb's family is filled with love and gratitude for all the support while they navigate this devastating loss. The support of friends and family, both in person as well as the virtual support communities that have helped hold them up over the years, is what will help get them through.

 

A celebration of Caleb's life will be held at 2:00 pm on Tuesday August 29th, 2023 at the Transcona Country Club - Manitoba Room; all are welcome. There will be a time of togetherness after the service. For those friends and family who are far away, a recording of the celebration will be made available after the service.There will also be a memory box present, and we would love it if you would write your favorite memory of Caleb, or bring your favorite photo of him. These memories will help Caleb's family feel his presence when the days feel too hard.

 

In lieu of flowers, Caleb's family asks that you please consider a monetary donation in his honour to The Movement Center of Manitoba or the SMD Foundation where he was youth ambassador.

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Philip

April 22, 2024 at 2:12 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with the extended family of the late Caleb.

Felicia Kriegl

September 15, 2023 at 3:42 PM

It was not possible to walk past Caleb in the halls of Joseph Teres without wanting to stop and greet him. Watching him light up and smile always made my day brighter. I was deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Cindy, may you and your family hold all your beautiful memories of Caleb close. We will remember him always!  

Kyla Wiebe

August 29, 2023 at 9:14 PM

I am sorry for your loss. He was a special person with a great smile and a mischievous personality. I was honoured to get the chance to know him and your family when he was the SMD ambassador. The photos at the service were beautiful and showed a life well lived and a child well loved. One photo in particular jumped out at me, the photo of the "pudding party". I remember you sharing that story with me and it made me smile then and today. I hope that you will have many smiles as you look at these photos over the years and enjoy your memories.

Dr. Mubeen Rafay

August 29, 2023 at 12:06 PM

I am extremely shocked by Caleb's sudden and unfortunate passing. My heart goes out to his parents, Cindy and Aaron, sister Chloe and the entire extended family. I had cared for him since he was 2 days old. I still remember the day when I first met Caleb and his parents in neonatal ICU. He certainly proved us wrong for many things and followed his own path and thrived well. Caleb had the most beautiful and contagious smile. Although nonverbal and limited in his functioning, he had the most amazing ways to communicate and function. I have told his achievements to many trainees and colleagues. A lovely Christmas picture card of Caleb with his family that has been hanging in my office since 2016 shows his beautiful laughter and love towards his family and world. He will surely be missed and will remain one of my cherished memories.

Margy Nelson

August 28, 2023 at 10:05 PM

I remember Caleb as the sweet young boy who always came into The Movement Centre with a constant smile on his face.  Cindy, and family…my deepest condolences ♥️🙏.    Margy Nelson

Dana Erickson

August 28, 2023 at 1:00 PM

I met Caleb when he was the youth ambassador for SMD (now Manitoba Possible). Among my memories of Caleb are of him cruising around the Hydro Building during Drop Zone as well as when he put on his ambassador hat at other SMD events.  I remember his infectious smile and wonderful energy. He will be missed by all at Manitoba Possible. 

Carson

August 26, 2023 at 1:03 PM

❤I met Caleb in December of 2023 through the respite program at St. Amant. He was the first person I volunteered with and made me want to continue being  a part of the program. I feel the need to offer your family my condolences for his loss and say it was a pleasure spending time with him. 

Love from: Caleb's Volunteers

August 23, 2023 at 2:27 PM

Sending much love to all of Caleb's family and friends; we will miss the laughter, smile and joy he brought to his visits at St.Amant. 

Katherine

August 23, 2023 at 11:43 AM

❤Cindy you always spoke so highly of your family Unit and worked tirelessly to serve them. Blessings and peace during this difficult time. Warmly Katherine Rushton 

Elena

August 23, 2023 at 11:31 AM

Its extremely saddened to hear of your loss. Our deepest condolences to you Sandy and to your family.

Brendan

August 20, 2023 at 10:51 PM

I met Caleb in March 2023 doing respite at St. Amant. Over the few months we had spending time together, we created memories I’ll never forget. All the time spent watching funny videos, walking around the garden.. bottle flips, listening to music. It was all very special. Being with Caleb provided me a happiness I had never felt before. One special memory was during a walk around St Amant when we stumbled upon a music group going on in the chapel. They welcomed us in with open arms and sang songs to Caleb that brought a smile to his face: I’ll never forget that. Caleb.. I will miss you so much and I’ll always hold our memories close to my heart. 

Colleen Saydak

August 19, 2023 at 8:45 PM

We miss you Caleb! Everett misses you very much! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family!

Chad

August 19, 2023 at 4:44 PM

My Deepest Condolences to The Family Friends and Loved Ones And To People Who Knew Him My Heart is Broken To Hear His Passing. I was one of Calebs Respite Workers and that how i first met him we enjoyed are time watching videos going for walks listening to music and watching the train go by my heart is broken and I miss him dearly ❤

Sandra and Jerry Rydz

August 19, 2023 at 11:49 AM

Our deepest condolences to you and your family.  It is incredibly hard losing someone so young, I hope that you can find comfort in all the laughter and joyous memories with him and that it helps get you through these tough times.❤

julie schmidt

August 19, 2023 at 8:46 AM

so very sorry for your loss of Caleb. he went to nursery school with my granddaughter Bailey.  she wasn't very happy to be there except when Caleb was there, then she was happy to be there. Caleb was an awesome boy to be around, he poured out love and happiness wherever he was❤

Sharon Mouritsen

August 18, 2023 at 3:03 PM

I still have fond memories of you Cindy doing your run on the trail and Caleb in tow...He was smiling from ear to ear just loving it...Aaron and Chloe when you came by to visit Terry and Alfred he would be literally glowing with happiness from ear to ear...He had the biggest smile and personality that would light up everyone else...Caleb will never be forgotten❤

Marina and Tom

August 18, 2023 at 12:24 PM

Dear Cindy, Aaron, Chloe, Theresa and family, We never forget your beautiful, smiling, great little (grand) son. You all loved him and took care of him so much. He will be terrible missed. We wish you all the strenght to cope with the future ahead. We think of you. Love Tom and Marina

Nicole

August 18, 2023 at 12:09 PM

"he charmed them all with his sparkling eyes. His perfect smile won the hearts of everyone who crossed his path and his contagious belly laugh kept them there." This is exactly the most perfect and beautiful description of him. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Tracy

August 18, 2023 at 11:04 AM

Cindy, Aaron, Chloe and Family. This loss cuts deep, and I grieve for all of you.  I remember meeting and holding Caleb as an infant on a visit to your home on Chalmers.  Even then his spirit was large.  I’ll cherish his time with Camryn, and the funny stories she would share with me.  You surrounded him with a community, and that community holds you all now. Love wins.
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