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Mary Petrycia

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MARY PETRYCIA

July 3, 1948 – November 6, 2020

With family at her side, Mary Petrycia, daughter of the late John and Anne Petrycia of Brandon, passed away far too soon, on Friday, November 6th, 2020, of an unremitting and inoperable brain tumour.

Mary leaves in mourning her husband of twenty years, Ed Langevin; sister Lil Urichen of Dauphin; brother Borden Petrycia of Brandon; sister Irene Petrycia (Jake Kosior) of Winnipeg; sister Alice Petrycia of Brandon; nephew Greg Urichen (Jennifer) of Dauphin; nephew Stefan Kosior of Regina; niece Kathleen Kosior of Winnipeg; and grandnephew Garret Urichen of Dauphin.

Mary was born in a displaced persons camp in Rosenheim, Germany, after the Second World War. With her parents and her sister Lil, she immigrated to Canada in January 1949. The family lived in various communities in Saskatchewan and Manitoba, settling in Brandon in 1962 where Mary attended Brandon Collegiate Institute and Brandon University.

Independent, resourceful, with a teaching certificate in hand, Mary took a position with the Winnipeg School Division. Working full-time and relying on public transit, Mary took night classes and summer school to earn the requisite degrees to improve her opportunities. Mary’s entire teaching career was spent with the Winnipeg School Division, where colleagues say she ran her classroom with fairness, good humour and common sense discipline, always mindful to the differences and abilities of her students.

Mary made many lifelong and new friendships because she understood that to have a friend, you had to be a friend. Mary was generous to friends and family with her time and energy, quick to do a favour or to offer help - just many everyday acts of human kindness. The family thanks all her friends from far and wide who wrote her numerous cards and letters, and sent gifts and photographs of her from times gone by, to cheer and support her.

With an athletic aptitude, Mary participated in many sports over her lifetime and when it became clear her bad knee would no longer tolerate squash, cycling, running or skiing, she joined the Reh-fit Centre, and took up walking, almost daily for one or two hours, in all kinds of weather, at Fort Whyte and weekly with a walking group. When Mary golfed, it had to be without a cart or score keeping, because it was an opportunity to walk and the score was secondary to the camaraderie.

Mary had an adventurous spirit coupled with a “what’s the worst thing that could happen” attitude. She travelled to impoverished Guyana and Soviet-ruled Ukraine for several summers as a member of a CIDA-sponsored program to train local teachers.  When the Soviet bloc fell, she travelled with her mother to meet her parents’ families in Ukraine in 1984 and 1992. She continued to visit Ukraine periodically after her mother’s death, and along with Borden and Lil, maintained connections with family there. Mary and Ed spent a couple of winter months in Palm Springs for several years and went on Alaskan and Mediterranean cruises. Mary joined a travel group, seeing places in Italy, Portugal, Turkey, South Africa, China, Chile and other countries. In typical Mary style, she came back from these trips with gifts for everybody and shoes for herself. As one friend said, Mary could always find a great place to buy shoes before her travel companions had unpacked their luggage.

In keeping with Mary's wishes, cremation has taken place and due to the Covid-19 pandemic restrictions, a private family service for Mary will be held. In the meantime, Mary’s family kindly requests that her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by sharing your memories and stories of Mary using the comment section on this page.

In memory of Mary, please consider a donation to the Winnipeg Humane Society or the Lubov Foundation which funds a safe house for endangered homeless and orphaned young women in Lviv, Ukraine (1085 Main Street, Winnipeg, R2W 3S1).

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Heidi

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was saddened to read about Mary's passing. My deepest condolences to her family. I met Mary at Shaughnessy Park in the 90's. There was a group of us that would go out for lunch and Mary always added that something special to our conversations. I met up with her again at the Refit Centre.  Even though it had been several years she hadn't changed a bit. She was so full of life when I last saw her in July. Rest in Peace Mary -  Raising a glass of wine in your honour, you will be missed.

Helen Campbell

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mary’s family and friends.  I met Mary in 1987 and remained friends and kept in touch over the years  We had fun times skiing, golfing relaxing at the lake and having lunches together. I will miss her happy smile when she would come to my house in Whyte Ridge for a long talk and a glass of wine. I will miss you Mary old friend  May you Rest In Peace. From Helen Helen Campbell

Peggy Miller

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I send my condolences to all of Mary’s family and many friends.  I knew Mary through my sister Helen.  Mary golfed with us often and we always enjoyed her company.  Mary also, dog sat my dog, Wrigley, who she loved dearly.  She often threatened to keep Wrigley as her own because she loved him so.  The feelings we’re mutual, Mary.  We will all miss you very much.  Rest In Peace, Mary. Peggy

margaretbertulli

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Mary being adventurous at the Blue Mosque in Istanbul.  My deepest condolences to Mary's family and friends.  We all miss her very much.

Edward & Yvonne Hillcoff

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Ed Langevin & family, our thoughts & prayers are with you at this most difficult time.  May Mary Rest In Peace.

Edward &Yonne Hillcoff

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

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June Pospishell

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I taught with Mary at Shaughnessy Park School. Mary was a great teacher and fun colleague. She had quite the sense of humour and was a smart dresser. I especially recall an orangey parka that she purchased one winter, so fashionable! My sincere condolences to her family. 

Deanne McDonald

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Being longtime friends of Ed’s, we came to know Mary after she and Ed were married. She was a terrific lady, very friendly, interesting, energetic and fun. We were struck by her zest for life and many involvements. We enjoyed attending Serra Club dinners with Mary and Ed as well as getting together with them in Palm Springs. It was a privilege and pleasure to get to know Mary even better through this lovely obituary. She will definitely be missed by many! Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Ed, the Langevin family and the Petrycia family. Sincerely, Bill and Deanne McDonald

Hannelore Potschka

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I remember Mary fondly from her first teaching position at Lord Nelson school. A group of us started out there in September of 1969 as brand new teachers.  Since we were all inexperienced, we stuck together for support and camaraderie.  A few of us also taught together in the newer, primary annex of the school. When it came time for the area to be painted, our principal gave us the choice of colours for our classrooms. I believe this was a decision she came to regret.  Mary, the rebel, picked a bright fuchsia pink for the accent wall of her room.  This is how I always remembered Mary. Like the wall of her classroom,  she was bright, vibrant , confident and determined.  My sincere sympathy to her family on her passing.  Laura Potschka ( nee Herzog)❤  

Hannelore Potschka

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I remember Mary fondly from her first teaching position. It was at Lord Nelson school where a group of us started out as freshly graduated teachers in September of 1969. Since we were all so new to the profession we stuck together for support and camaraderie. I have a lot of good memories. A few of us taught in the newer primary annex of the school. When it came time for that area to be painted,  our principal gave us the choice to pick the colours for our classrooms. Rebel that she was,  Mary picked a bright fuchsia pink for the accent wall of her room. I think the principal was sorry she had given us the choice but she allowed it. That is how I remember Mary. Vibrant, confident, determined and full of life. We lost touch when I left teaching temporarily to have a family and later I taught in a different school division. So sorry to hear of her passing. My sincere sympathy to her family. Laura Potschka ( nee Herzog)

Lois Edwards

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Everyone wanted the recipe.  When Mary came to our Canadian Women for Women in Afghanistan's Breaking Bread, she brought a scrumptious dessert that had everyone gathering around her.  Ever since, she has been referred to as "your friend who brought that fabulous cake."  She was a great cook.  So many good memories.  I miss her presence.

Diane Dixon

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Truly a huge loss to you Ed and all Mary's friends. We first met Mary when members of the Serra Club traveled to Edmonton to plan golf tournaments for Winnipeg. Mary, Ed, Kevin and I played in many golf tournaments.  Mary and Ed introduced us to Palm Springs; golf, good food and shopping.  I met my soul mate for shopping - shoes, purses, golf outfits, etc. Mary I will miss you so much - talks on the phone, golf games and your sense of humour and interest in others.  We last talked in August and planned a golf game but I will do it next summer in remembrance. It was too soon for you to leave us.  Diane Dixon and husband Kevin McCulloch

Liz Kircher

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Mary's passing.  We taught together at Lord Nelson School in the late 60's and reconnected  at the beginning of this year when a long time mutual friend was in palliative care at Riverview.  Mary showed herself to be a loyal and supportive friend, visiting regularly and bring treats to help cheer our friend up.  Sincere condolences to her family.

Jeannette Golletz

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

So saddened to read of Mary’s passing. Mary’s and my lives intersected over the years – first in Grandview where we attended Grades 4 – 8 together. We re-connected in Brandon when I would spend summer holidays there. We again connected in Winnipeg when we were single and socializing. Our last connection was with the Prairie Pathfinders. As was written, Mary made lifelong friends because she was a friend. She was always concerned and interested in what was happening in one’s life. My thoughts and prayers are with the Langevin and Petrycia families. Rest in peace, Mary

Jacquie Crone

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

How very sad to know that Mary has passed away. I had the pleasure getting to know her while walking with the Prairie Pathfinders Walking Club and hiking in Europe with our women's Travel Bug Club. Our relationship cemented itself through a mutual fondness of shoes. She always made me laugh and I totally enjoyed her playful misbehavior. My condolences to her family.

Margaret day

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I knew Mary as a friend, a fellow runner, and aerobics buddy from Bodyworks.  We were part of a group that celebrated xmas in July and had the most amazing potlucks.  Mary always brought a gourmet dish and I loved the visit with her and her stories of incredible travel to the Ukraine and other parts of the world.  She was a dedicated walker and I am proud of her committmment to a healthy lifestyle until the end.   I will miss her and our times together.

Walter Serediuk

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

This is a heartfelt loss but leaving 30 years of memories  which will never be forgotten ❤

Donna (Sulavella) Elvers

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Very sad to hear about Mary's passing. She was a wonderful person and friend. We did quite a bit together, ski trips to Thunder Bay, Frostfire and Sugar Hills. Every Friday was our time to get together for food and fun. After I met my husband, we continued our friendship for a while but after a time we lost touch. Because my husband was a bit of a joker, she once bought me some garden pruning scissors and told him that they were tongue snips. I still have them to this day and I will remember her whenever I am using them in my garden. 

Madeline McIvor

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Mary was an amazing neighbor and I miss her so much -maddie (her neighbours daughter)❤
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