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Naomi Pickford

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NAOMI MARIE PICKFORD

née GERMAN

June 16, 1969 - June 28, 2020

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Naomi on June 28th in Winnipeg Manitoba after a short battle with Cancer. Naomi passed away peacefully with her family by her side.

Naomi was born in Brandon, Manitoba. Her military family was posted to Rivers, Manitoba at the time. She was the 3rd child and only daughter of Bernard (Barney) German and his wife Grace. She was a delightful child, full of joy, ready giggles, warm hugs, and some mischief! She adored her dad and followed him around like a puppy. Unfortunately, he died suddenly when she was 10, and she grieved his loss until the day she died. She will be laid to rest with him in the Courtenay cemetery.

Following the death of her dad, Naomi became protector of, and best friend to, her mom. They were inseparable soul mates. After Naomi moved away from the Island, the two kept in near-daily contact. When her mom came to visit in Winnipeg, the two loved to steal away for “Thelma and Louise” weekends of shopping and hot-tubbing in Grand Forks.

She had two older brothers Doug and Kevin who she absolutely adored. Doug taught her to play baseball as well as coached her team. Doug, nicknamed Bear by Naomi and Naomi, nicknamed Nomus by Doug would often play fun, sometimes silly, games that Doug would invent.

Naomi had a best and lifelong friend, Julie. They did not see each other as much as they wanted to but their hearts and thoughts were forever linked. They always, always looked out for one another. They were and will continue to be kindred spirts.

Naomi was a very private and giving person who wanted nothing more than to be a wife and mother, so she realized that dream when she met Wayne Pickford in Courtenay BC while he was on a two week mission with the military. Soon after they fell in love and Naomi moved to Cold Lake.

They later married and Naomi became a step Mom to Wayne’s daughter Ashley. They eventually had two wonderful boys of their own Zachary and Nathan.

Naomi loved being a Mom and she thrived in Cold Lake. Naomi had amazing organizational and planning skills. Numerous Camping trips to Marie lake, birthday parties decorated to match the kids interests, to spur of the moment trips to B.C to surprise family, Naomi could and did make them happen.

Naomi had a passion for reading which was passed onto her by her dad. She always read to her boys. She would probably have liked to have kept them a little younger for a little longer. She often did crafts with them as well. She would make special Christmas ornaments for family and friends.

While in Cold Lake, Naomi started volunteering again, a trait she had picked up at an earlier age volunteering with her mom at MS events. She was named “Volunteer of the Year” for support of families who had a member deployed overseas, volunteering at the local toy library as well as her work in the kids schools.

Through her volunteer work Wayne and Naomi met many great friends in Cold Lake. Dinners, BBQs, beach days with them and their kids was the norm. 

 

As the kids got older Wayne, Naomi and their friend Jerry opened up a used book store. Naomi surrounded by books was a very happy lady. It was not to last as a military posting to Winnipeg via Greenwood Nova Scotia had the family on the move.

Stationed in Winnipeg MB. She became a great advocate of physical fitness, going for long walks daily, running, going to the gym,  daily yoga sessions as well as eating healthy.  She came within two courses of a degree in kinesiology after taking courses part time at University over many years.

Family trips were still the norm, all organized by Naomi. New York, the Black hills with the Massaroni’s, camping at Birds hill, Rushing River and yearly spring break trips to the C’Mon Inn in Grand Forks with friends.

When the boys finished school, she turned her attention to Seniors.  She volunteered at Deer Lodge in Winnipeg, she also belonged to a group that drove the elderly to appointments. In this group, she met a dear soul named “Mrs. Ellis“.  The whole family fell in love with her, and adopted her as grandmother, loving her until she passed away at the age of 99.

Not one to shy away from hard work, Naomi could be seen hanging off scaffolding to paint a house or using a belt sander to prep a wood floor in the homes we lived in.

Family friends and neighbors would often comment on how hard she worked but she did take some time to have a glass of wine with her friend, Lynell. The two of them could be mischievous together.

Her love of books continued in Winnipeg and she found herself visiting then working for a while at a used book store owned by her friend Bill called the Neighbourhood Bookstore and Café in Wolseley.

Naomi’s best friends in Winnipeg was a group of older men that she met at McDonald’s.....her coffee buddies. They shared tons of laughter, Gerry and Ian, and Max who passed a while back, to name a few, were all very special to her. She was always there for them if they needed her, and they loved her as much as she loved them.

Naomi loved to travel, She travelled with Wayne and the boys to many destinations across Canada and the US. She got to travel with her Mom to England, Scotland, Spain, Portugal and Morocco, Hungary and the Balkans, Croatia, Bosnia and Herzogovina, Montenegro.

Though Naomi loved to travel to beautiful places, she had a love for nature and camping. She loved going to Birds Hill. Naomi and Wayne recently started to restore a Boler trailer, with plans for future trips, this was the type of trailer they started out with 30 years ago.

Naomi’s favorite spot was in her back yard, lying in her red hammock reading a book.

Everybody who met Naomi commented on her beautiful smile, her warmth, how pretty she was. To her family, she was always the first to come if help was needed, always calm and serene when we were in need of a steadying hand. To all, she was a model of kindness and compassion, non-judgmental and unconditional love, and, as at the end of her life, courage in the face of troubles, a true quiet warrior, sadness that her passing would cause us pain, always thinking of others first.

Naomi will forever be remembered by her loving husband Wayne, their two boys Zachary & Nathan,  step daughter Ashley (Heidi), mother Grace, step father Jack, brothers Douglas (Yvonne) and Kevin (Donna), In laws Roland, Steven (Linda), Pamela (Terry), Terri (Ben),  many nieces and nephews and longtime best friend Julie along with many other dear friends she had made over the years.

Naomi had friends from all across this country and around the world who may not have been mentioned here, if you knew her you knew she was a very private person, but know that if you were a friend of Naomi, you were important to her as with all who loved her.

Due to the Covid virus, a celebration of life will take place at a later date and will be announced on this website.

Please feel free to post pictures and stories here as a means of sharing all of our wonderful memories of Naomi, and remembering her beautiful soul and all that she meant to us.

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Linda Ritchie

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

With heavy hearts we are saddened of the passing of our sister in law. Although we didn't see each other much over the years. We know that Naomi always brought a smile to everyone she met. She had a heart of gold, she always thought of others first. She adored her family and friends. She will be greatly missed. Here is a poem that we thought of for Naomi. You're peacefully now sleeping in a world of purest light, Where Angel's sing there sweet refrain. And where everything shines bright. Beside the tranquil waters you walk along each day,Where the blossoms are so beautiful with the colors they display. You're so dearly thought of and every precious memory, Has left a lovely rainbow, that will last eternally. You will be sadly missed. To my brother Wayne I can't imagine how hard this is for you,Nathan and Zac to go through. I know you have gone  through so much in your life but always remember your big brother will be there for you and your boys. Love you all Steve and Linda,and your three nephews Jordan,Brandan and Logan xoxo💔

Jody Germann

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I am shocked and saddened to hear this news aunt Grace. Such a young, beautiful soul taken way to early.  I wish that I would have known her better, but from what I have heard from you, she was a loving, caring person, that was very well liked by everyone. There is some solace knowing that she is in the arms of God with uncle Barney.  Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and always.  May your sorrows pass and the good memories last forever. God bless you and keep you!  Love always ❤ ...Jody

Dan Henderson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Started out with just a pretty lady sitting in the corner at Mac Donalds having her morning coffee, reading the morning paper and minding her own affairs.  I guess the noise from the corner of all us old farts was to over whelming not to listen as we attempted to settle the world affairs.  I can certainly say that when Naomi was lured into the corner of our group the language certainly improved.  She never asked for anything but was always there to listen, not to pass judgement on our ideas or thoughts.  It was a pleasure having such a lady seated in our corner.  Each and everyone of us looked forward to our time spent with her, smiling face and kind gestures.  She certainly was one of a kind and will greatly be missed.  Christmas cards, Valentine cards and special treats for all of us she gave out at morning breakfast on these special occasions.  My wife and I saw Naomi at Deer Lodge where she was one of the staff who looked after my brother George.  You could see her love and caring in her as she looked after the elders there.  We will certainly miss her greatly and never forget her.  We were so fortunate to have know her and afforded the short time we knew her. Our sincere condolences go out to her family for their loss.  We can't say " Good by  But rather say See You Later when we meet again."                                                 Lynne & Dan Henderson❤

Roselene Schroh

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

It broke our hearts to see her bear the loss of her Dad, while we too as family losing our youngest brother.  Be grateful that she filled her vibrant life with family pictures which allows us to see how much she enjoyed her boys. It  was almost her desire to make the best time on earth possisble.  She accompanied you Grace with.  the opportunity to travel & enjoy your happy times, I’m sure there were a lot of laughs - how could it be anything else!  Doug & Kevin & families, be thankful you had her for the 51 shorrt years, given her state of health the days going forward would not have been kind to her you didn’t have see her lingesring in her suffering.  You can still call one her in your times ef need, she will continue walking beside  you as an invisible angel.  My heartfelt sympathy & hugs to all. Keeping you & her in prayer.. 

Diana Wearne

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Naomi was such a lovely girl.  We have known her for so long and, recently, when we met her again after quite a few years had gone by, while she was home visiting Grace and Jack, we commented to each other how sweet and beautiful and ridiculously youthful she had remained.  Like a perennial little sister who you want to love and cherish.  We cannot fathom why this should happen when there are so many people who still needed her to be here.  We share your grief immensely. Always love Helen, Diana and Sylvia Wearne

Lynnell Robinson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Naomi, we had so much fun together and laughter! such great memories from getting kicked out of Rona , to turning up the Christmas music in the old van mid summer !!!! But one thing with her is she loved her boys so dearly, and being their Mom was the greatest achievement she just took so much pride , and being a wife to Wayne, who she loved dearly. I will miss her forever and her laughter. Another angel in heaven, with love Lynnell and Trevor Robinson. 

Regina land

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

We met  Naomi when she was citing her mom ,we will always remember her beautiful smile,thank you for sharing this wonderful memory ,she will be missed by every one who knows her  Hugs from both of us, Regina , Albert

Adele Spence

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Naomi was one of my volunteer drivers at the st James 55+ centre, located in Deer Lodge Centre, when I was the Seniors Resource Coordinator for 15 years. Naomi and I hit it off immediately in our first interview and from then on she happily drove seniors to appointmenst etc when she was available. One of her favourites was Phyllis Ellis and they developed a close connection. Naomi was always so upbeat and caring. She did return to the centre at one point to help out with a Memorable Mondays program for seniors. She was no longer a volunteer driver except for Phyllis Ellis who loved her. I am sad for her families loss but she left everyone with incredible memories and a positive spirit. I have not seen her for 6 years but will never forget her smile.

Bruce McBeth

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Naomi was one of the most positive people I knew. Always upbeat, a kind word, a wonderful laugh, and her ever radiant smile. She cared a great deal about others and spent a large part of her time thinking of and helping others unselfishly. It was a treat to meet her from time to time walking in the neighbourhood, at a local business or at the regular McDonald's coffee group. A classy lady who is making Heaven a better place.

Tim+Mara

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

❤ Naomi was such a gentle spirit, such a hard worker, always tinkering around the yard. Our cherished memory is the times she would sit on her hammock in the sun for hours, reading her favourite books. You will be missed.  The Appleton’s 

Pat Lucas

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Niomi was a sweet and adorable person to be around and will be missed by me in our birthday  dinners get togather.  Pat

Grace Willis

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Naomi was not only my daughter ,she was my dearest love, my greatest treasure, my best friend.  Everybody knew, and nobody minded...not her dad, her brothers, or Jack.  Perhaps it was because she was their greatest treasure too! I am blessed with thousands of beautiful memories, from the first glimpse of my baby girl to the moment when I held her hand as she went to the Lord.  It wasn’t fair, I was supposed to go first, but I was still blessed to be there none the less.  That happened because of a tremendous sacrifice by my son Doug and his wife, Yvonne, who came to stay with Jack.  I will never be able to thank them enough. Dying is like the exclamation point to our lives.  I was proud of Naomi, so brave, a model of courage, in character to the end.  But, oh, how I miss her! Naomi and I had a lot of fun together.  We could giggle over anything, and often nobody could understand our mirth.(Julie would have!) She got a great deal of joy out of surprising me, whether planning (from Winnipeg) a huge 65th birthday party for me, with help on this end from dear friend Helen Wearne, to arriving on our doorstep unannounced(and nearly giving me a heart attack from shock ever time!) to sending flowers for no special occasion,(just because, she would say), to unexpected treats when we travelled together, to the lovely little letters I would find in the guest room after she left here to go home, though, in time, I grew to expect them, and would have been disappointed not to find one there! One of her nicest surprises was for my birthday two years ago.  She asked everyone in the family to send her their “thoughts”about me, put a package together and it was delivered on my special day.  Of course, they were all lovely “thoughts”, and I have read these words over and over often, but this is just another example of her thoughtfulness, her initiative, and her way of putting love in action. Doug called Naomi a “Jack Whisperer”.  She was always fond of her step-father, but was a special angel to him after he had a stroke in May, 2019. She spent as much time as possible here, helping us, and she always seemed to understand his needs, his moods, his frustrations more than anyone else.  She had no end of patience and love for him, and it is no small wonder that he weeps over her loss daily.  When I would get frustrated, she would say “Remember, mom, he’s the sick one here!”   I know she’s watching, so I’ll have to be sure to remember that! Missing her is a physical pain, but, what if we had never been graced with her in our life?  She was such an amazing gift for every minute of those 51 years and 12 days.  My cup is half full, not half empty.  She left me two loving grand sons, and my son Wayne, also beautiful friends that I would never have met, but for her. “Life takes us to unexpected places.  Love brings us HOME” That beautiful smile will be there to greet us when we go HOME” too. Goodnight, sweet girl.  Hugs, Mom

Gerry Schnell

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I met Naomi at the local McDonald’s approx ten years ago when my wife was dying from cancer. Naomi was such a help to me during the saddest time of my life. She was a very caring listener while I was going through one of the darkest times of my life. She helped me move a few times. We shared meals at times and it was so nice to have her company. Over the years she became the best friend I’ve ever had. I thought the world of Naomi and loved her for the beautiful person she was. She will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Gerry 

Genevieve van Oers

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

To a dear McD coffee buddy, who will be sadly missed due to her smile, kind nature and good stories. Our condolences to her husband Wayne and family. God bless.

Leanne Meier

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

To Grace, Doug and family, Kevin and family, and Wayne and children, Thank you for sharing the memorial with friends and extended family.  From the eulogy, I got to know Naomi, the cousin I never knew. Her contributions to society helps me reflect on what is important in life.  Mom and Dad often remarked on how delightful she was.  The eulogy brought back a memory of a statement that the priest made at Kenny German's funeral service, " The hyphen between the date of birth and the date of death should be long for some."  The hyphen for Naomi should be long for the gift of herself, her contributions, to society.  When Grant passed away the priest praised Grant's parents for a job well done.  To you Grace, a job well done for walking beside Naomi in your journey of love Leanne Meier ( Behm )

Julie Chapman

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

A memory from this visit - we laughed so hard on this walk that we could barely see for all the tears. I love this picture because of the light all around her. It was a wonderful day together. ❤

Doug

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

Naomi and Jack were "puzzle partners".  They spent lots of time together working on these and always took a picture of the completed project.

Doug German

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

And this is Naomi with our second grandson (her second grand-nephew), Tripp.  She made another surprise visit when he was born too.  It's another wonderful picture of her in which her warm spirit comes out.  

Kimberley Massaroni

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

I first met Naomi when her son, Zach, and my son, Christian, became friends in elementary school. In no time at all, Naomi & Wayne and Dan & I easily connected and became friends as well. Thus began the years of family adventures - backyard visits, dinners together, many trips to the C'mon Inn in Grand Forks, Halloween costume parties, and our family road trip through South Dakota. Throughout these times there was always one constant! Laughter! We quickly learned that Naomi loved to paint, and her living room walls changed colour frequently. Along with painting, she also loved to cook, and we would laugh and chat over dinner and drinks. The Pickford margarita maker even accompanied us to Grand Forks. It was so well used, the motor burned and another had to be purchased! We also discovered that Naomi was the master of the game Spoons. As everyone around the table was frantically passing their cards and pouncing on a spoon if they won, she would quietly and calmly reach across the table to retrieve her spoon, waiting (with a little grin on her face) until someone finally realized the game was up! I have so many memories of Naomi and I in the changerooms at Target, piles of clothes in hand, laughing through the changeroom walls at our selections. It was always a hilarious, and sometimes successful, fashion show. We remember Naomi's love of books and her delight in exploring the reading section of the little thrift shop behind the hotel. She always found some treasures there! We have a very fond memory of Zach celebrating his birthday while on our road trip, and Naomi happily decorating the courtyard area outside their hotel room with streamers and balloons once the kids had gone to sleep so Zach could wake up to a special birthday surprise and celebration. And, of course, Dan and I remember the many interesting, and often hilarious, conversations in the hot tub at the hotel. As our children matured and began exploring their own interests, our families naturally spent less time together. But it was always lovely to run into Naomi at the farmer's market or the Whytewold McDonald's (where she would be visiting with her special friends) and catch up with each other. Naomi always spoke so lovingly of her mom, Jack, and Mrs. Ellis. It was clear they meant the world to her and she had a very special and close bond with her mom. To Naomi's mom and Jack, we pass along our sincere condolences. A mother should never have to be the one to say goodbye to her child, and we are so incredibly sorry. To Wayne, Zach and Nathan, our hearts truly ache for you and we share with you our deepest condolences. Naomi loved the three of you with every fibre of her being. She would tell us the stories of meeting Wayne and knowing immediately that he was the one for her, and that, more than anything in this world, she wanted to be a mother. You were the lights in her life. Naomi's bright smile and beautiful spirit will always remain in our hearts. With love, Kimberley & Dan Massaroni

Doug German

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

Even heaven itself was improved by her arrival.   Miss you more than I can possibly say, Nomus. Love you forever. Bear

Pamela Pickford

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

I still remember the day my brother called and said he met someone special and her name was Naomi. He came home for a visit to Montreal and he told us all about her. I knew I would like her just by how my brother smiled talking about her, my brother had just gone through major surgery not long before they got together, she didn't care, she loved him no matter what. I initially started talking with Naomi through phone calls and letters. We loved to write letters to one another about anything and everything. I thought it was cool how she would use a ruler to write. I was thrilled when I was asked to be her maid of honour after Wayne had proposed. It was  a beautiful day, she was so happy and her dress looked stunning on her. We danced all night and Naomi made sure that I was going to catch the bouquet. While I was visiting we would often go for walks in the neighbourhood and visit some friends of theirs and of course we had to stop and pick flowers to dry later. We all took a day trip to West Edmonton Mall cause Naomi and Wayne insisted we see it.  We got this photo taken that I love. We were told not to smile, My Mum couldn't help but smirk cause we thought it was hilarious to take a pic and not smile. One thing I noticed is though she loved to travel, she also loved to sit back relax and read a good book. If you had a favourite comfy chair at home, you could be sure she would sneak right into it. I love that about her. When we got the news that Naomi and Wayne were expecting. we were so excited. My Mom and I took a flight out together to visit. She was so proud to be a Mom, I think if you were to ask her, she would say it was the best job in the world. She loved her boys more than anything. She always made sure to keep my Mum up to date on all their day to day stuff. I always thought she is so smart that she should have been a teacher. My Mum loved her and loved that she was creative and crafty. She always had an interest in recipes that my Mum made. My step Dad adored her and loved to sit and chat with her when she came to Montreal. He was a veteran, she really had a way with talking to seniors. Naomi had a love for a well known greasy spoon in Montreal called Decarie Hot Dog, so much that when she would arrive at the airport, she would say can we stop at Decarie Hot Dog before we go home please lol, I laughed every time cause I knew she would ask. She had a great giggle, she was quiet..but when she giggled you could always hear  her. My Mum loved Christmas, she was so happy to get the ornaments that Naomi and the boys would make for her. Though my Mom has passed, those ornaments now get hung on my Christmas tree. When my husband and I bought our first home in 2001 Naomi had made the two of us these beautiful stockings. I look forward to hanging them every year. On her last visit to Montreal with Wayne and the boys she got to meet my my girls, I was pregnant at the time with my son. She was so shocked out how big I was. I was grateful to have her there, she played with my girls and kept them entertained with crafts and games. I am still in shock from your passing and feel its so unfair. I want to thank you for making that move to Cold Lake Alberta over 30 years ago to be with my brother Wayne. I hope that heaven is as beautiful that I believe it is. I imagine you sitting in a big comfy chair and watching over all those you love.  I would say rest in peace, but to be honest I want you to dance, read, blare the music, drink your wine and enjoy your second journey in the big blue sky. I will raise a glass to you. I love you Naomi ❤  Love Pam, Terry and our 3 M's. Madison,Mackenzie & Mason. xox

Dennis Hanghofer

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

❤Grace and family this is an Amazing tribute video of our sweet Naomi.  An awesome person who will be  greatly missed  by everyone that knows her.  A great listener and one that you can have an inspiring conversation with.  I can only say that Naomi was always watching over us in life and now she will continue her duties to watch over us in spirit.  We love you Naomi, and we will see you soon again for coffee up in Heaven.   Hugs to Naomi's family, and especially to Grace.  

Doug German

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

This was Naomi with our eldest grandson (her grand-nephew), Shepard.  Starting with Shepard, Naomi made surprise/unannounced visits to Edmonton to see the new arrival each time a grandchild was born.  Naomi preferred to avoid having her picture taken, but we caught her in a nice one here.

Julie Chapman

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

We were in grade 10 when we met, and even lived together for a short time right after highschool. I remember we had no furniture, we'd sit on milk crates for chairs :) but we didn't care, we were adults now! Its been a long and wonderful friendship, and we stuck together through the years, through having children and and all of the ups and downs of life. This is something that will never be able to be replaced, and I miss her terribly. I can hear her laugh though, wondering what all of this 'fuss' is about. She gave us a lot of light, and love and I"m so grateful to have been given this gift for so long.  Love and hugs to Wayne and the boys, and Grace and family as well. 

Pam

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

The comfy chair always had your name on it.❤️ 
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