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Brian Proctor

BRIAN GEORGE PROCTOR
November 12, 1949 – September 12, 2025
With sadness, we announce that in the early hours of September 12, 2025, Brian abandoned his stroke-afflicted body at Victoria General Hospital and slipped away into the night. Brian was complicated. Brilliant. Loving. Stubborn. Hilarious. Creative. Beloved. We like to think of him finally at peace, somewhere he would have loved, like at a secret campsite deep in the wilderness outside Kenora, Ontario.
Brian spent his early years in Winnipeg and his teen years in Kenora, with the exception of a year spent in Germany. He got his teaching degree at the University of Winnipeg, and clearly found his professional calling. He first taught in Northern Manitoba at Moose Lake and for Children’s House Montessori School in Winnipeg, and then spent decades teaching for Winnipeg One School Division. Even after retirement, he kept teaching, this time at the University of Winnipeg, where he was able to offer his extraordinary teaching insights to a new generation of teachers.
Part of Brian’s gift as a teacher was his avid curiosity. He was a lifelong learner about everything from history and politics to math and science. He passed on his love of learning to his family and the hundreds of children and young adults he taught. He believed strongly in learning through hands-on play: he taught math by building pyramids and taught history by recreating ancient villages.
Brian loved camping, even in 30 below weather; canoeing, especially deep into Anishinabe territory near Kenora, Ontario; and fishing, no matter what the weather. He would clean the fish on the rocks, roll the fillets in a bit of flour with salt, then fry it in a cast iron pan over an open fire and serve it along with pea soup and bannock.
Brian had many interests. He loved to read literature, history, non fiction, poetry—he found a friend in Dostoevsky. In chapter one of his copy of The Brothers Karamazov, he had the following quote highlighted: “sober and wise - he’s stupid, stupid and drunk - he’s wise.”
Brian played the role of a grumpy clown named Mister in the clown troupe Loonisee. He wore plaid pants, a perpetual frown and a bright red clown nose. Mister was obnoxious, preposterous, and so funny. He would march around, hands on hips, ordering people to stop laughing. Those who met Mister have a hard time not smiling or shaking their heads in remembrance.
Brian loved music. He played the flute and pennywhistle and enjoyed jam sessions with friends. At home, Dylan, Cohen, Springsteen, the Pogues, the Chieftains, the Irish Rovers, and the Band were special favourites. When two of his children were lost at the lake, Brian played his flute out in the road until they could hear him and follow the notes back to him.
Brian relished arguing about politics, and embraced vigorous disagreement, sometimes a little more vigorously than the person he was arguing with was ready for. He had an opinion about just about everything and the memory and passion to back it up.
Brian loved spaghetti nights with his children and grandchildren. He loved to drink and smoke and eat fatboy burgers and fries. He loved to travel and his time in Cambodia, China, and Russia. He loved playing ice hockey, riding his bike and going to the Y with family. He loved thunder and lightning and watching storms come in across the lake. He loved dogs and usually had one near.
He loved children. He let us climb all over him, leap off his shoulders into the water, climb his body to turn ourselves upside down and flip over. He played Bear in the living room and Shark in Lake Winnipeg, and his drip sandcastles live on in all our memories. Always.
Most of all, he loved his friends and family and was in awe at each new life, each new family member. He loved life and lived his fiercely. We miss him already.
We wish to send out a huge thank you to the wonderful healthcare team on the fifth floor of Victoria General who cared for him in his final weeks.
A celebration of his life will be held for close friends and family.
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Lindsay & Noah
November 24, 2025 at 5:52 PM
Sending our love to you, Sue, Jodi, Joe, and family. We are grateful we got to meet and spend a some time with Brian on his visits to Montreal. It was lovely to read more about him here. May he rest in peace.

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Sandra Stuart
November 23, 2025 at 5:01 PM
My heartfelt condolences, Sue, to you and your family. What a beautiful photo montage. I always enjoyed seeing you and 'Mister' on stage, and our daughter Ellen remembers vividly the time she volunteered to come on stage with you both and join in the fun. She was about 5 years old. Thank you for that lovely memory. Rest in peace, dear Mister.

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Romain Nault
November 22, 2025 at 12:21 PM
One of the positions I undertook with the Winnipeg School division was to teach the inner city Alternative Behaviour Class. I would usually have eight children from Kindergarten to grade 3 in the program. They would be with me for three months, attending my classroom in the morning and then going back to their home classrooms in the afternoon. My job was to teach them strategies to allow them to overcome behavioural issues and to remain in their classrooms and to thrive there. In that time I met many teachers of varying skills but when I had the good fortune to spend time in Brian’s class I met a teacher who was very different from any other teacher that I worked with. He taught a grade three class in an inner-city neighbourhood. As all inner city classrooms, his classes would be comprised of children with many emotional challenges. I was impressed by the way that he maintained a very calm and reassuring presence. He never raised his voice. He was able to use items to be had in the surrounding area to teach the science and math curriculum. I watched in awe as he took the class out on a cold winter day to collect snow from the school yard and to then bring it back to class in individual containers so that each child could observe and record what they witnessed. They journaled their observations and he urged a class discussion which soon became lively and fun. Each child had a chance to tell us what they had learned. One of the ways in which he rewarded completed assignments was to have the class build a domino chain which over time went all around the classroom. The climax was when they set off the chain reaction and then made a video of it. They again journaled their experience. Where he found so many dominoes, only Brian knew. He was a remarkable teacher who had a profound effect on my teaching as I later taught grade four and five classes. He became a good friend and I’ll miss him.

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RJ McCammon
November 22, 2025 at 10:11 AM
I knew Brian vaguely in Kenora in high shcool although we were in different grades. He gave a me a ride to Krnora when I was hitchhiking from Winnipeg, in 1971. I never forogt his kindness, and reminded him of it when I encountered him much later probably about 2015 or so. I was hoping to tlak wioth him agian but couldn't locate him

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Sheri Berkowitz
November 21, 2025 at 9:57 AM
Always when we visited Brian had an insight, a comment, a hilarious remark or a grumble to contribute to our conversation. Out in the bush and at home in the inevitable chaos of a five child family he maintained a steady charming commanding presence.
I am probably one of the few people who failed to " get" it when he undertook to teach me new math which he so skillfully imparted to his students.
I saw Brian as a truly good, completely original comlicated man who loved the world of nature, looked always for understandings and made genuine contributions to his family and community. I'll miss his caustic take on it all. My condolences to all and my honouring of the words used by Amber in her tribute. He will be missed that deeply!

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Amber Hicks
November 20, 2025 at 3:21 PM
The Proctor house was my second home during the turbulent teen years, right when I needed it. I will always be grateful to Brenda for befriending me and her entire family for taking me in, first as a visitor, next as someone who would never leave, and eventually as a caregiver to Andrea, Erin and Jody. (Jeremy made it very clear he was too old to be babysat).
My favourite moments with Brian were smoking in the porch or getting a ride home after a babysitting gig and chatting about the various images that make up The Big Picture. When I envision him in my mind, he is dressed as Mister.
He was one of a kind. My condolences to the friends, family, colleagues, neighbours and spaces on Earth that will miss his presence, of which there are clearly many.

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Holly Williams
November 20, 2025 at 1:29 AM
My deepest condolences to all the Proctor family. I had the pleasure of meeting Brian when he visited Brenda's family in Victoria BC several times over the years, and enjoyed his stories, wit, and warm energy. He was a special man.

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