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Shirley Pucci

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SHIRLEY PUCCI

(née LITTLE)

July 7, 1946 - March 22, 2022

With immense sorrow, our family announces the peaceful passing of our beloved wife, mother, and grandmother on March 22nd at Riverview Care Centre surrounded by loving family.

 

Shirley’s memory is cherished by her devoted husband Ron of 31 years; loving daughter Jennifer (David) and loving son Christopher (Jenny); precious grandchildren Jackson, Avery and Azalea; brother Bryan (Yayah); along with numerous extended family and treasured friends.

 

Shirley’s spirit was like no other; often referred to as “one-of-a-kind”. Her generous heart and overwhelming, caring nature left a lasting impact on the lives of everyone she knew. Shirley was a devoted mother to her two children, well into their adult lives. Her incredible resilience supported her family during challenging times and she was the source of calmness, strength and understanding when her children needed her most. As an intuitive healer, she was always there to listen and could absorb even the most difficult of life circumstances with ease. Shirley’s nurturing character blossomed when she became a grandmother to Jackson and Avery and later Azalea. The unconditional love she gave to them will live in their hearts forever.

 

Born in Portage La Prairie, Shirley grew up in the West end of Winnipeg attending Tech-Voc High School. As a teenager, she spent much of her free time at the Broadway Optimist Community Club meeting up with friends and playing hockey at the outdoor rink. This is where she met her husband Ron in the early 1960s when they were both in high school.

 

During her working years, Shirley was an instrumental resource at London Life as an Executive Assistant in the wealth management sector; later working at the University of Manitoba supporting student group associations (UMSU). She worked tireless hours and would always find the energy to “get it done without any excuses.” Many of her employers would often say, “Shirley, I honestly don’t know what I would do without you.”

 

The cabin on Star Lake was Shirley’s home away from home as she spent many summers on the dock with Ron, watching her grandchildren splashing and playing in the water. Shirley and Ron loved living out their dream retirement at “the Lake”, as it was a place of peace and solitude. If you dropped in to see them, you would often spot Shirley tending to her flowers or sweeping the leaves off the deck and walkways. Evening bonfires were also a favourite experience for Shirley, as she could spend hours slowly swaying in her green swing chair, looking out at the lake sunset in a peaceful, reflective state.

 

Shirley also loved to travel. She was able to enjoy many sun-filled vacations with family and close friends over the years. Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Hawaii and California were some of her favourite beach destinations, as Shirley, Ron and her 2 children created many great memories during her travels.

 

Shirley was a “hockey mom” and supported Chris’ hockey career for many years. She woke up early, drove countless kilometres and made many sacrifices, all in an effort to support her son’s passion as a hockey player. Even after a tough game, Shirley always remained positive and would be there for a post-game pep talk on the car ride home.

 

Her enjoyment of physical fitness became more than a hobby as she pursued many titles as a female amateur bodybuilder in Manitoba. She also became a member of MABBA (the Manitoba Amateur Bodybuilding Association). Despite her busy schedule as a working mother of two young children, Shirley showed up daily for her 6:00 a.m. training session at Gold’s Gym in St. James. She was respected by peers and competitors for her discipline and dedication to the sport of fitness and bodybuilding.

 

Shirley’s artistic creativity could be seen in the many beautiful crafts she made for friends and relatives over her lifetime. She took pride in her ability to bring special meaning to each and every occasion, either cooking, sewing, decorating, crocheting or crafting. She was also a sorority sister of the Winnipeg Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi.

 

Shirley pursued community and charitable causes during the course of her life, unselfishly giving back to those in need of help. She was a consistent caregiver to her mother, Velva Little, ensuring she was always at her side. Even during her own time of illness, Shirley and Ron volunteered their time as drivers for “Meals on Wheels”.

 

Shirley maintained her positive, gracious outlook throughout her life, even as she faced the progressive challenges of Alzheimer’s disease. Heartfelt appreciation is extended to Riverview Care Centre staff, especially those on Unit 3C for their compassionate care during Shirley’s final years.

 

In Accordance with Shirley’s wishes, cremation has taken place and a private celebration of Shirley’s very memorable life is forthcoming.

 

In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift in Shirley’s memory to the Alzheimer Society of Manitoba or Riverview Health Centre Winnipeg. Please visit Alzheimer.mb.ca or rhc.mb.ca/rhc-foundation to make a donation in memory of her generous, giving spirit.

Shirley's family kindly requests that all of her friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour her memory by watching the photo-biography above. Please, also consider sharing your own photos, memories, and stories by making use of the comment section on this page.

 

Forget ~ Me ~ Not

Author Unknown

I give you this one thought to keep
I am with you still - I do not sleep


I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain


When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night


Do not think of me as gone -
I am with you still - with each new dawn.

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Shawn Alwis

April 7, 2022 at 2:58 AM

I had the privilege of hiring Shirley for the Executive Assistant position at UMSU. She had an immediate impact on all of us with her big smile, warm heart and caring personality. Her motherly advice was always helpful to our executive team and we knew she always had our back! Many good memories. My sincere condolences to her family. May she Rest In Peace.  - Shawn Alwis

Pamela Gregoire (nee Spiropoulos)

April 6, 2022 at 5:04 PM

Our deepest condolences to Ron, Jennifer and Christopher for your loss. Many a nights Shirley and Ron were my arena parents and I can still see Shirleys smile from across the ice. She was an amazing woman and mother. May she rest in Peace. Pamela Gregoire/Bill Spiropoulos

V. Conley

April 5, 2022 at 7:27 PM

The members of Beta Sigma Phi extend their condolences to Shirley's family and friends. We were very sorry to hear of her passing. Our members, and especially her Chapter, Preceptor Beta, have many fond memories of her.

Ken Porteous

April 5, 2022 at 6:00 PM

To Ron and the whole family may we offer our deepest condolences. Bobbie and I first met Shirley when she moved in as our neighbour on Belvidere Street in St. James. She was a wonderful person and as our friendship grew with her and Ron, we sure had some good times together. And man -- could she smile! We will treasure all of our wonderful memories of Shirley. Rest in Peace. Ken & Roberta Porteous

Ilze C.

April 4, 2022 at 11:26 PM

My deepest condolences to you all. Shirley and I worked together at UMSU, and I and found her to be a sweet and gentle soul who was kind, generous, and caring. She was also the best dressed - Shirley would sew up a beautiful garment in no time! Yet she was fierce, which was shown in the care of her family, her fitness regime...and her driving. Shirley once made a trip in her vehicle and I felt like were were in a Formula 1 race 😁. She will be missed. Ilze C.

Sean Petty

April 4, 2022 at 4:40 AM

In junior high, high school, and the early university years, I spent nearly every evening at the Pucci home: playing street hockey, ping pong, and watching sports with Chris.  I was welcomed warmly by Shirley (and Ron) and treated like family.  The same was true when I visited Star Lake.   I remember Shirley as exceedingly kind, energetic, positive, gracious, and someone who had a real zest for life - a quality she passed along to her son.  She was a person who had learned many "life lessons" - which she was happy to share and I appreciated learning.  She enjoyed making things, crafting, and showed her finished works off to Chris and I with pride.   Most of all, what I remember about Shirley is how proud she was of her children.  She always talked about Jennifer and "Christopher" and about how much they both meant to her. Heartfelt condolences to Ron, Jennifer, Chris (and Jenny).    

Brenda & Arnie Klymchuk

April 4, 2022 at 1:20 AM

This picture is typical Shirley!  What a beautiful tribute (both written and video) to a beautiful lady and wonderful friend!  Unfortunately we are away and I am unable to share a favourite picture of Shirley - Ron, you know the one..... of both of you in the kiddi train at a Florida fair, with looks of glee on your faces!   I know that her  warm smile and kind,  sweet spirit have touched so many of us, and will remain in our hearts as warm and lasting memories!  A life well lived!  We will miss you Shirley....❤

Rosemarie Ribble

April 3, 2022 at 9:33 PM

Sincerest Condolences to Ron and Family. I remember Shirley for her Contagious Smile, she was the Sunshine in the room.🌹

Wayne and Colleen Nichol

April 3, 2022 at 5:15 PM

Ron.  So sorry to learn about Shirley’s passing. Your family has lost a very special wife, mom and grandmother. Wayne and I have wonderful memories of our group Cuba holiday some years back.  The ladies trip to Arizona was so much fun.  It was another chance for me to experience Shirley’s sweet, sincere and genuine spirit. Her warmth and graceful strength is a beautiful legacy. I know she will be greatly missed. We are thinking of you.  Wayne and Colleen Nichol

Russell

April 3, 2022 at 3:20 PM

Are thoughts  are with you and the family at this time.  Rest In Peace.  Russell and Petrusia 

Suzanne and Bill Sawchuk

April 3, 2022 at 1:14 PM

Our deepest regrets,Ron.  We are remembering our wonderful dinner parties with you and Shirley, Pat and Mariette, Bill and Joyce. Wonderful times, wonderful memories. Shirley was so awesome, sweet and kind. You are in our thoughts and prayers.  Bill and Suzanne Sawchuk

Don and Lois Kurtz

April 3, 2022 at 1:11 PM

We are sending our love Ron, Chris and Jennifer and families.   That wonderful picture of .Shirley says it all.  What a wonderful person.  We remember all the hockey games with .Chris and our son Justin and all the coffee that was drunk during those games.  We remember all the crafts Shirley so perfectly made and trips to Star Lake.  Always a big, big smile.  Our hearts are broken for you and your Family Ron.  Shirley is at peace now and we wish you and your family peace also.  Love  Don Lois Kurtz and family ❤

Brian and Zoe and family

April 3, 2022 at 2:20 AM

What a wonderful tribute to such an amazing person.  Ron, Jennifer, Chris and families please accept our sincere condolences for your huge loss.  Shirley was such a breath of fresh air, with her constant smile, and ever pleasing personality.  Her interests and talents were endless.  We will always remember her by the beautiful old world Santa she made and gave to us.  The hours of love and care that went into it speak volumes of her generosity and thoughtfulness.  She was one of a kind and will be missed by many people.  Rest in Peace Shirley.  You have left the world a better place.  

Jeri

April 3, 2022 at 2:03 AM

Much love to you Ron, and all the family. Shirley was a shining light and gentle soul and her memory lives on. Berney, Jeri, John, and Jessica 

l.procyshen

April 3, 2022 at 12:46 AM

Our deepest condolences Ron and family. She is now resting in peace

Lucy and Dale Elmore

April 2, 2022 at 9:12 PM

,My sincere condolences go out to you Ron, Jennifer and Christopher and family. Shirley always had a beautiful smile and a warm welcoming and kindness about her made you always felt at ease in her presence. Rest in Peace

Yayah Little

April 2, 2022 at 8:07 PM

In memory of my lovely Sister-In-Law Shirley. You were one amazing lady. You were so good to the people in your life. So considerate and caring. I admired your ability to put things in perspective. You always tried and make things better. I always saw the quality shine in you and i will treasure my memories of you. I love knowing that everyone else feels the same way I do. To your friends, you are everything a friend should be. To your family, I know you are dearly loved and truly the best.  Rest In Peace Shirley❤️Yayah

Bryan

April 2, 2022 at 7:21 PM

A beautiful testimonial to a beautiful lady.  To me she was the matriarch of the Pucci and Little Families. Words cannot fully express our loss as we will all miss this gentile loving soul who never spoke ill of anyone. I am fortunate to say that I have only fond loving memories of sister Shirley. 

Rick & Michele Hearn

April 2, 2022 at 6:44 PM

What a beautiful photo-biography tribute to such a busy gal. We know both of your energy levels complimented each other.  There is nothing finer than living the life that you both had wished for.  Rest in peace now Shirley, we will always remember you.  Our condolences' to the family.

Tom & Barb

April 2, 2022 at 6:31 PM

Beautiful!  Beauty never dies, it lives on in our hearts.  Our prayers are with you, Tom & Barb

Mariette Harrington

April 2, 2022 at 5:40 PM

My deepest condolences to Ron, Christopher, Jennifer and family.   What a wonderful tribute to such a very special friend.  Then there is that beautiful smile… I have so many amazing memories of our years together that I shall cherish forever. Rest in peace sweet friend...I will love you forever.  ❤  

Gina Petty

April 2, 2022 at 5:30 PM

Shirley and Ron welcomed all of Chris's friends into their home. It was the place to hang out, play hockey, ping pong, and watch sports. Neighborhood parents were relieved that their children were well looked after. We will always be grateful. With utmost sympathy, Gina Petty and family

Betty Quinton (Johnson)

April 2, 2022 at 4:01 PM

❤ A beautiful tribute. A memorable smile and person. 

Betty Quinton (Johnson)

April 2, 2022 at 3:51 PM

❤ A beautiful tribute. A memorable smile and person.

Jae Eadie

April 2, 2022 at 3:27 PM

Ron & Family:  We are saddened to learn of Shirley's passing.  She was a warm and wonderful person and we feel blessed to have known her.  Sincere condolences in your time of loss and sorrow.   Jae & Rhoda

Liz Patton (Daoust)

April 2, 2022 at 3:22 PM

My heartfelt condolences to you Ron and your family. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Shirley will always have a special place in my heart and I treasure each memory of our times together.  Over the many years of our friendship we had many great adventures.  .  . we laughed together and cried together.  Most of all,  I will forever be grateful for the comfort she gave me in my time of need. I was blessed to have her as a friend.  Liz

Roberta Porteous

April 2, 2022 at 3:11 PM

So very sad for your loss. I will always remember that beautiful smile. We met as neighbours when Shirley and her family moved in. She was infectious with her positivity. Ron, you were a perfect match for Shirley. Dinners,Star Lake was very special.Bobbie ❤

Jo-Anne Penston

April 2, 2022 at 2:47 PM

Ron and family I am so sorry to hear about Shirley’s passing. I just loved the time we spent together in the Dominican. Bri always spoke so highly of you both and always held you close to his heart . You are in my thoughts and prayers. 

Allan Besson

April 2, 2022 at 2:38 PM

I send my heart-felt condolences to Ron and his family on their loss of Shirley "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5: 4 "Lean on God and allow Him to continue the process of healing your broken heart." Psalm 147: 3

Gerri Kilcup

April 1, 2022 at 11:42 PM

Beautiful tribute of your mom in her lifetime of pictures! Weekly, our family would visit Aunt Velva. Your mom would take me to her bedroom and play hairdresser for hours. This is a picture of your mom, Aunt Betty , you and Chris at my brother's wedding  in August 1982.❤gkilcup@hotmail.com 

Gwen Buccini

April 1, 2022 at 8:17 PM

What a beautiful tribute to Shirley! It definitely captures the wonderful, gentle and loving soul that she was! I was blessed to have her as my sister-in-law! Shirley was truly a shining light in our family! ❤️❤️❤️

Sharilyn Knox

April 1, 2022 at 6:55 PM

Shirley was a wonderful friend to me when I worked at UMSU. Her welcoming spirit was evident from the moment I met her. I’m so grateful for the privilege of knowing her. My sincere condolences to her entire family. RIP Shirley ❤ 

Sherri

April 1, 2022 at 6:42 PM

Auntie Shirley, touched all of our hearts.  Her kind sensitive nature always made you feel welcome.  She was a devoted wife and Mom and loved them all very deeply.  She was always so proud of Jennifer and Christopher.  Warm hugs to each of you. - Sherri Pucci Sosa

Jennifer Davin

April 1, 2022 at 5:23 PM

Mom, no words can heal my broken heart.... Mom "Fly On"...... my most precious memory came when you were there to see Jackson come into the world. Never will I forget it all, never XOXOXO❤
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