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Randy Rummery

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RANDOLPH "RANDY"
SCOTT RUMMERY

May 8, 1970 - August 15, 2023

Randolph (Randy) Scott Rummery was born on May 8, 1970 and grew up in St. James, Manitoba. He hated that area with a passion stronger than a thousand suns, so when he adulted, he and his wife settled in St. Vital. They welcomed their daughter Sydney on Feb 15, 2001. The absolute best day Randy ever had. He loved Sydney more than imaginably possible.

 

He’s survived by his wife Carlene, his beloved daughter Sydney, his father Allan, his sister Tracy and many in-laws, aunts, uncles, cousins, and nieces and nephews. He also leaves to mourn his four best friends known as “the Nutty Club” as well as “the Brandon Boys,” two men who probably don’t know how much they changed Randy’s life for the better. There are many others, like Todd, Lindy, Bea, Darren, and Lynne. Too many more friends to list who are deeply affected. But please know he loved you all.

 

Randy’s loves were his daughter, his wife, his friends, his nieces and nephews, his family, film, comedy, reading, politics, the Bombers, baseball, writing and music. In that order.

 

The threesome of R, C and S enjoyed travel. Randy’s favourite trips were to the Dells, Chicago, Florida, San Diego, and Paris. He loved every moment. “Look how happy she is,” he’d say about Sydney.

 

He loved his Saturdays with his little girl. A break for mom, but his happiest of days. Movies, book readings, story time…always a smile when he got home. “Parenting win. I did not forget her at the store.”

 

He plowed through books in a day or two. He always sought knowledge. “I dunno if you’ll like this Trudeau bio, but it might give you an understanding of the federal liberal party.” Sarcastically said, and brought big laughs.

 

Oh, the music he brought to his girls. He was always so excited to introduce Carlene and Syd to something he found. He was so chuffed by all things his daughter did with music. Apple, tree. He truly was the worst singer, though. Like honestly, the worst. And really didn’t have rhythm when dancing. But he sure made Carlene and Syd laugh because he knew it. “Look, I struggled through Fi Do Do on the recorder in grade 4.” But boy, he loved music. A family shared experience.

 

And the jokes. His brain was always riffing. What could he say to make us laugh? He could flip from a kind kid’s joke to a very dark one for Carlene.

 

He loved his work at Red River College. From President of the SA, to being a Recruiter, to being an Academic Advisor, Randy loved that space. He loved his time with NACADA, and with MAP. He constantly strove to make things better for students. And he did.

 

Our family is heartbroken. The story shouldn’t have ended this way.

 

A person does not commit suicide unless they are seriously ill. Syd and Carlene were always worried about this fateful day. Please, in lieu of flowers or such, make a donation to Sara Riel or to the Canadian Mental Health Association. And please, we beg you, reach out for help.

 

I’m the man who loves you.”  - Wilco

Randy's family kindly requests that all of his friends and relatives take a few minutes to honour his memory by watching the photo-biography above. Please, also consider sharing your own photos, memories, and stories by making use of the comment section on this page.

A celebration of Randy’s life will be held at 2 pm on Sunday, October 29, 2023, at The King’s Head Pub, 2nd Floor, 120 King Street, Winnipeg. All of our loved ones are welcome. Please bring stories and remembrances. And laughs. Randy would want laughs.

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Robyn Maharaj

May 31, 2025 at 9:23 AM

I think about Randy often as we shared the exact same birthday date - - so always joked that we were twins separated at Ran

Christy Campbell, University of Winnipeg

October 27, 2023 at 4:35 PM

I didn't know Randy that well but always looked forward to seeing him at the annual MAP conference. He was a gentle soul. My condolences to his family and friends. ❤

Shauna

October 24, 2023 at 2:49 PM

Laurie Siwicki and I have fond memories of Randy.  He was such a great guy and always friendly.  We grew up on the same street and went to school together form grades 1-12.  We lost touch afterwards, but we’re sorry to hear about his passing.  Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family ❤

Larry Gagne

October 7, 2023 at 5:46 PM

I was very saddened to have just read about Randy’s passing.  As a school counselor, I was truly fortunate to have known Randy.  He was a fine gentleman with such a warm smile and caring ways.  He made a difference in this world and I cannot imagine how much he will be missed.  With deepest sympathy to Carlene, Sydney and family.

Jennifer Powell

October 3, 2023 at 12:36 PM

I worked with Randy when I was a recruiter, and he was an academic advisor. He always struck me as a kind and gentle soul. He talked a lot about his wife and daughter. My condolences to his loved ones, I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. Randy was a good man.

Pamela McLeod

September 28, 2023 at 9:53 AM

I only knew Randy as a staff member in a different department who was always pleasant when we passed in the halls. It struck me that he called me by name - a good lesson for us all. People need to be called by name. I hope I remember this and follow his example.

Ken Wilkins

September 19, 2023 at 1:55 PM

I went to school with Randy, both elementary as well as high school.  While we weren't always together, he was still somebody I shared some great times and memories with.  In high school we were in Driver's Ed together, and also did our in-car lessons together.  Lots of good times as we experienced our near-misses together.  Going back to elementary school I still remember him sharing some of his sports knowledge with me. I am having trouble finding the right words for this, but Sydney please always keep in mind that you may not always know how much your interactions may end up touching the life of somebody else.  Your dad may not have known it, but he was certainly somebody who I looked up to growing up.

Hannah G.

September 18, 2023 at 8:34 AM

I worked with Randy at the College. I knew him as a supportive colleague, always willing to give his best shot at solving a tricky work problem and a great listener. I am thankful to have known him. Wishing his family peace during this difficult time. 

Ted & Linda Sheard

September 17, 2023 at 9:21 PM

While I speak in a   personal manner as your cousin Carlene, Linda is also with you. My mind is still blurred by the entirety and finality of events. It reaches to Sidney and your self. As a father of two sons [ and 2 daughters\ now all in their fifties my heart aches for Randy's  father. I wish some how I could wave a magic   wand.  So brilliant and  promising . Love to all 

Carlene

September 17, 2023 at 8:13 PM

Just found this photo. Randy showed to pick me up for this wedding with a naked face. Had never seen him whiskerless before. ❤

Lindsay Wowchuk

September 17, 2023 at 11:34 AM

Thinking of you and Syd and sending you so much love ❤ What a beautiful tribute to Randy 

Vernelle

September 17, 2023 at 12:43 AM

Deepest sympathy to you and Syd. I remember so many stories when we worked at Seven Oaks. Your love for your family was so wonderful. Take care. Xo

BEa

September 16, 2023 at 10:50 PM

Thank you, Carlene.  Much love to you & Syd.   BEa

Michael Fedun

September 16, 2023 at 6:29 PM

Beautiful Carlene.

Dave and Linda

September 16, 2023 at 6:25 PM

We knew that previous obit had no involvement from Carlene or Sydney. It was so cold and cruel. Carlene, Sydney, our hearts are with you. The love you had for him poured from the words. His love for you both pours from the photos. What a shame. ❤

Crystal Caruso

September 16, 2023 at 5:24 PM

Big hugs. That was so beautifully written. He seemed like a compassionate funny guy. I wish I had known him.  Big hugs.  I hope your memories bring you comfort.  If you ever need to go out for coffee, DM me. 

Lisa Webinger

September 16, 2023 at 4:37 PM

Beautiful tribute, Carlene. The last year has been incredibly difficult and emotionally taxing only to come to such a tragic head. I hope you all 3 of you can find peace. I did learn something new though! A decade of knowing Randy and I just learned he wasn’t an only child 😆  Much love to you girls xoxox Lisa

Kay Rudnick

September 16, 2023 at 4:33 PM

So much love in every word and in every photo. I’m so sorry all that love in the physical now and future, is gone. Big love to all of you. 
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