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Karen Schmidt

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KAREN RAE SCHMIDT

(née Rathwell)

April 2, 1948 – April 1, 2025

With deep sadness and abiding love, we announce the unexpected passing of Karen Rae Schmidt (née Rathwell) on April 1, 2025, just one day shy of her 77th birthday. Surrounded by the love of her family, Karen passed away at St. Boniface Hospital in Winnipeg, Manitoba.


Born to Clifford and Frances Rathwell, Karen was a devoted daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. She is lovingly remembered by her husband of many years, Norman John Schmidt; her sister Faye (Robert) Irwin; her sons Michael William Schmidt and Mark (Leanna) Schmidt; and her beloved grandsons Colby, Cameron, Carter, and Caden. She also leaves behind her cherished niece Shannon (Hector) Jimenez (née Deren) and nephew Brennon Deren. Karen was predeceased by her sister Winona Darlene Deren and brother-in-law Robert Deren.


Together, Karen and Norman built a beautiful life in the West Kildonan area of Winnipeg, where they raised their family. Karen was the heart of their home, filling it with warmth, kindness, and unconditional love. Known for her sweet, selfless nature, she lived her life in quiet service to others—never seeking the spotlight, but always giving from the heart.


Karen grew up in Holland, Manitoba. Her grandmother had found some literature from Jehovah’s Witnesses and knew it was the truth once she had read it. From there, her grandmother kept preaching the truth and wrote to the Watchtower Society for more literature, becoming the first Witness in that area.


As one of Jehovah’s Witnesses herself, Karen often told the story of being a little girl, looking up at the stars and saying what she called a “silly little prayer.” That prayer was not so silly—Karen lived her faith with sincerity, integrity, and unwavering hope. Her beliefs shone through in her compassion and the deep care she showed to those around her.


Karen shared a unique and loving bond with her sons. She would often say to them, “Be good to your brother, you only have one.” Michael was a constant presence, visiting often and sharing heartfelt moments that reflected the deep connection between mother and son. He visited Mom and Dad regularly—sharing meals, enjoying laughter while watching comedy sitcoms, and simply cherishing time together. When Karen’s car began to fall apart, Michael gifted her his own car—a nice, clean vehicle with low kilometers in like-new condition. This thoughtful gesture showed his deep love and consideration for his mom and how her fine example had been instilled in him.


Mark and Karen enjoyed countless breakfast visits and daily phone conversations—while he drove from La Broquerie to work—time that was deeply meaningful to them both. He often did things for her that he knew she needed or would enjoy. Whenever such acts of love were done for her, she would say, “You guys do too much...”—to which we’d reply, “It should have been a lot more!” We were always happy to help her.


Although Leanna was Mark’s wife, she was more than just a daughter-in-law—she was the daughter Karen never had. Karen spoke of Leanna with deep affection, often expressing how much she admired her love and dedication to her own family. It brought Karen great comfort knowing her grandchildren were so well cared for and surrounded by that same love.


Karen especially treasured every moment spent with her grandchildren. She often took her older grandsons to parks when they were little, playing with them and making super cheesy nachos. She occasionally spoiled them by letting them microwave marshmallows, and one of Cameron’s favourites was “Hello Dollies.” She always asked about each of them—especially if she knew someone was going through a tough time or feeling unwell. Whether cheering at Carter’s hockey games, sharing heartfelt chats, or being swept away by Caden for playtime, these moments brought her immense joy. Her grandsons were among her greatest treasures, and her love for them was boundless.


She was also a devoted sister, sharing many laughs, memories, and moments of support with Faye and her brother-in-law Robert. Her loyalty, warmth, and gentle humour enriched the lives of all who knew her.


Shannon and Brennon were so important to Karen. She worried about them both and messaged frequently to ensure they knew they were loved and that someone was always there for them.


Karen will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her legacy of faith, love, and kindness will live on in the hearts of her family and friends.


We find comfort in the hope expressed in one of her mother’s favourite scriptures—Revelation 21:3-4—which promises that soon, “death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” We look forward to the day we see her again, as God promises to bring about a new paradise.


Cremation has taken place at Ethical Death Care.


A memorial service will be held at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, located at 937 Gateway Road, on April 19, 2025, at 1:30 p.m.


Zoom information for those unable to attend in person:
Meeting ID: 829 5441 5709
Password: Mal3:16


Please reserve the flowers, and if desired, make a donation to a place of your choosing in Karen’s behalf.

ETHICAL DEATH CARE

Cremation & Life Celebrations

530 St. Mary Avenue - Winnipeg

204-421-5501 - www.ethicaldeathcare.com

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linda Dick

April 19, 2025 at 9:36 AM

i loved her from the day we met. We met her thru her son Mark and daughter Leanne who we also grew too love. we slways sat during lunch at assemblies and catch up. i knew why she loved her grandsons as i also got to be part of their lives and remember when Carter snd Caden were born. All 4 boys arr loveable and will miss grandma terribly. . Death is such an enemy we all look forward when " it will be swallowed up forever"

Mark A. Schmidt

April 18, 2025 at 10:08 AM

Mom, The hole that is left is not a pinhole, but a crater.

The emptiness I feel is not an empty glass, but an empty ocean.

I will long for the time to see you yesterday is not soon enough tomorrow is too late.

Mom, you could not have been a better person than who you were.

The love you shared was the love of a great mother—selfless and unconditional.

All the conversations, all the laughs, every short joke I made at your expense—

you’d shake a clenched fist and say, "Listen here, mister,"

as if you could do something about it—or even cared to.

Every wonderful meal you made, every bit of work you did cleaning other people’s homes and toilets

so you could provide more for us.

Driving us to school, picking us up—even at lunch—so we could have that time with you.

All the little things you don't think about until someone is gone.

My love for you will carry on forever,

with this weight constantly on my chest, knowing you're no longer with us.

I will be waiting, Mom.

Hoping this world ends soon, I’ll be waiting to lean down and wrap my arms around you,

holding you tight in a warm embrace.

A devoted person in all walks of life—honest, loyal, faithful, kind, good, and loving

to your husband, children, family, friends, neighbors, and more—

you embodied a devoted Christian woman Jehovah wants us all to be like: selfless.

Thank you! for all the years you were my mom.

I will always Love you. And keep you close in heart by doing my best to live life the way you did, living Jehovahs standards. You were my best friend, who i came to for advice, a counselor, in times of upset. You were every sort of peace to everyone, your kindness could not be easily matched. You didnt just touch my heart you held my heart. I am broken without you. I long to see, talk, listen, and hug you again. You deserved so much more good returned to you. I can't even say enough good about you to bring your name honor. You did that all on your own. A woman loved by all. Until we see you again on a paradise earth. I love you mom!

Leanna Schmidt

April 15, 2025 at 6:24 PM

As Karen’s only daughter-in-law, I feel the need to express the incomprehensible loss I feel. Karen was not just my husband’s mother—she was a built-in second mom. I feel honored to have had 25+ years to know and love her.

Having children and marrying young, Mark and I had many obstacles and challenges that often come with that. Raising children and managing jobs, Karen was never more than a phone call away. Always willing and never too busy to babysit.

But truly, she was not just a babysitter—leaving your children with someone who loves them as much as you do is something no price can be put on. In fact, these times were to become treasured childhood memories of our boys. Spending countless hours playing, laughing, and having fun. Time that will be sorely missed.

As a mom, I am so thankful to Karen for all that she has been to my sons and to myself—a constant in our family. A place of love, support, understanding, and encouragement. I will miss the long chats about everything and nothing, the absolute hysterical laughs and, at times, tears we shared.

The depth of her kindness, her gentle nature, and her soft approach to all and everyone she cared about is engraved on my heart. And something that I will look to as an example of what I should strive to emulate. She lived the truth.

Karen’s loss has left an unfillable void. I am blessed to have had her in my life—and long to see her again.

Shannon Jimenez (Deren) - niece

April 13, 2025 at 12:57 PM

Oh my beautiful Aunt Karen! To lose my Mom (Karen's sister) and then her so soon afterward has rocked me to the core!

Karen was a kind and selfless soul, always putting the needs of others before her own. Her love for her sons and grandkids was immeasurable, and it was clear to anyone who knew her how much joy they brought her. Aunt Karen had a heart of gold, always offering a helping hand, a listening ear, or a kind word when needed most. After losing my Mom she texted me every single day for a year and without her support I doubt I would have been able to get through it. That is who she was.

Anytime I said to her, "you should do something for yourself she would say "no I'm good, I like looking after people!" That was her essence and the very person she was.

Her legacy of love and kindness will forever live on in the hearts of her family and she will always be an inspiring example to me of a truly wonderful person. Thank you for always being my "Auntie Karen" and I will always and forever love you...

 

Joel Lane

April 11, 2025 at 9:09 PM

My deepest condolences go out to the family. I know Karen because I have been friends with Mark since we teenagers.

 

Karen is among the kindest, sweetest persons I had pleasure of being acquainted with. Every time I ran into her at an assemly, I was greeted by her warm smile, and and thoroughly enjoyed catching up.

 

Sending out all my love to Norman, Mark, Mike, and the entire family ❤️

Colby

April 11, 2025 at 6:36 PM

My Grandma Karen emanated love in everything she did, From her hugs to the wisdom she expressed during out conversations. She was a constant in my life, & someone whom meant more than any mere word could encapsulate.

The memories of her I will forever hold dear, From her cooking, to her humor & all the qualities that she had.

She will be dearly missed & will always be loved.

Brennon Deren

April 11, 2025 at 11:21 AM

It is with great sadness to have my aunt Karen pass away it is hard to even put into words the genuine love and sincerity she had for her family.She was a very special person that anyone who had the honor to know her or have her in your life you we're a very lucky and blessed person.She treated Shannon and me like we we're her own and I can never forget this she had such a love for everyone.Her beautiful boys Michael and Mark we're always her no 1 people in her Life she loved them so much and was such an incredible mother to them growing up and later in life.Her love was unconditional and genuine and beautiful.I will miss her so much.To my dear cousins who I love and care about so much even know I don't see you much I always think of you I am truely so sorry for your loss of this very special lady and no matter what I say or people say it will never fill the hole of your loss but you can find comfort knowing how much she loved the both you that will never change.Love you Auntie Karen

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