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Jean McIntyre Smellie

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JEAN PATRICIA SMELLIE

(STALLWOOD, CLARKE, MCINTYRE)

November 17, 1928 - June 10, 2021

Jean Smellie died in Winnipeg on Thursday, June 10, 2021, at the age of 92. A longtime resident of Armstrong’s Point, Jean was actively engaged in Winnipeg’s cultural scene, patronizing the Manitoba Theatre Centre, Prairie Theatre Exchange, the Winnipeg Symphony Orchestra, Royal Winnipeg Ballet, the Manitoba Opera and the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra. Jean was a fine stage actor herself; under the name Jean McIntyre she appeared at the MTC, Rainbow Stage, the Edmonton Studio Theatre, and in film and television, achieving the status of Life Member of ACTRA. She also acted in French at Collège St.-Jean in Edmonton. For many years she served as President of the Winnipeg Women’s Musical Club, and was active in the Winnipeg University Women’s Club. She sat on the Senate of the Royal Winnipeg Rifles, following the death of her husband, the Honorable Robert G. Smellie, who had served as Honorary Lieutenant-Colonel of the regiment.

 

Jean was born Jean Patricia Stallwood to William and Ethel Stallwood (Bird) in Welwyn Garden City, Hertfordshire, UK, north of London. She was the oldest of their three children, with two younger brothers, John and Peter.

 

Jean attended school at Christ’s Hospital, Hertford, and then trained as a speech pathologist at the Central School of Speech and Dramatic Arts in London, graduating with the degree L.C.S.T., London. It was in London that she met her first husband, Alan Clarke, and together they had two children.

 

Jean immigrated to Canada in 1955, crossing the Atlantic by steamer and landing at Halifax, then travelling across the country by train, toting her two small children, toddler Paul and infant Penny, to Edmonton, where Alan had been posted with the RCAF. As a trained Speech Pathologist Jean set up the first speech clinic at the University of Alberta Hospital. She taught in the Faculty of Education at the University of Alberta in Edmonton, while completing her Master of Education degree, M.Ed. She moved to Winnipeg in 1980 when she married Bob Smellie.

 

Jean was a prominent and sought-after adjudicator at music and arts festivals in Manitoba, Ontario and Saskatchewan, in both French and English, conducting many workshops with children at these festivals. She was a gifted narrator, performing with the Thunder Bay Symphony Orchestra, with the Edmonton Symphony Orchestra in a special fund-raising concert for the victims of the Aberfan disaster in Wales, and in the Lakehead University Lumina Concert series in Thunder Bay.

 

Jean lived her life with flair and elegance, always with a great sense of the dramatic. In all her many roles in life, Jean maintained close ties with her extensive list of dear friends, always willing to open her home to simple dinners or grand parties where she herself was both gracious hostess and acknowledged masterful chef.

 

Jean was predeceased by her first husband Alan Clarke, her second husband Dr. John McIntyre, and her third husband Robert (Bob) Smellie, and by her only son Paul in 1974. She was also predeceased by her younger brother John Stallwood in the UK.

 

She is survived by her daughter Penelope Clarke (Paul Inksetter) of Thunder Bay, Ontario. Jean is also survived by her youngest brother Peter Stallwood of UK, and numerous nieces and nephews and grandnieces and nephews there, as well as by her stepdaughter Carol Gamby (George) and six stepgrandchildren and two stepgreatgrandchildren.

 

Cremation has taken place, and a celebration and remembrance of Jean’s life will be scheduled in Winnipeg at a later date. In memoriam donations may be made to any of the cultural agencies listed above, to the Thunder Bay Symphony Orchestra, or to Jean’s favourite charity – Operation Smile.

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Peter Stallwood

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

My memories of Jean before she emigrated to Canada are few as our parents separated in 1941 and my brother, John, and I went with our mother to live in South Hams, Devon. Jean, who was attending Christ's Hospital School, Hertford, stayed with our father in Welwyn Garden City, to complete her education. Thereafter, our paths crossed very occasionally.    I did, however, visit Jean and Bob Smellie in their elegant house in Winnipeg in 1988 on which occasion I was also fortunate to attend the Winter Olympic Games in Calgary. On the same trip, I was also able to join my nieces, Caroline and Philippa, and other guests at Jean's daughter Penny's wedding to Paul Inksetter in Thunder Bay.  Occasionally, Jean would visit the family and her friends in the UK and would invariably cram in as many visits to theatres and concerts in London as time (and her pocket) permitted. We will all miss her, especially at Christmas. Bye, bye, Darling Jean.

Helen Morrow

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Jean came to live in my condo building in St. James several years ago. I feel privileged to have had her as a friend. She was a refined, intelligent, interesting  lady. We went together to Silver City for the live broadcasts from the Metropolitan Opera. I always valued her opinion as to whether it was a good or not so good performance. I missed her when she had to leave our condo.

Ingrid Kottke

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Oh my gosh - hearing this news gutted me. I met Jean only recently, Feb 28, 2013 when she and I were attending the inaugural meeting of the Winnipeg Corresponding Society. Instead of being the "Ladies Who Lunch", we were the "Ladies Who Wrote". Jean regaled us with her performing arts stories and her wit, charm and grace; she even "performed" some reader's theatre at our annual Christmas parties.  Ever the graceful and regal woman - we celebrated her 90th birthday in style at the Fairmont Hotel for a lovely luncheon where we observed a wedding party during their celebrations. She passed on her worldly wisdom to the bride and groom on that afternoon and I'm sure will be a memory cherished by the new couple as it is cherished by those of us in attendance. My heartfelt thoughts go out to her family and friends as we mourn Jean, a talented and cherished friend. Ingrid Kottke Edmonton AB

Chris Stallwood

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

Whilst Auntie Jean had moved to Canada by the time I was born, I have very fond memories of her during her frequent visits to the UK both as a child and as an adult.  I remember how proud I felt once when she told me that I made the very best cups of tea she had ever tasted, I think I was seven or eight at the time. On one of her visits not so many years ago a drove her to Stafford or was it Stoke as she was going to stay with one of her oldest friends.  We had a lovely conversation all the way up and I remember how fond she was of the Edward Rutherford’s epic novel Sarum, I expect because it is such a wonderful reminiscence of the country of her birth. During that journey she remembered that she still had something I had given her when I was a very small boy, and some weeks later, in the post arrived a small felt frog, very amateurishly stitched with a crocodile clip inside so you could squeeze its belly and it would grip things with its mouth. How wonderful that she had kept it all those years and then bothered to send it to me. The one thing she did more than anything else was forge a connection in me with the wonderful country of Canada.  I still wear the belt buckle with Canada on it that she gave me as a child to this day and then despite spending quite a lot of time in B.C. when I was a young man, I truly regret never making it to Winnipeg to see her, if I could go back to that time now, I wouldn’t hesitate. All my thoughts and love to Penny and my Father Peter, as their loss is the greatest. Chris Stallwood ❤

James Manishen

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

So sorry to hear of Jean's passing.  I remember her vitality and genuine love of the arts in working with her on Women's Musical Club projects. And a lovely Christmas evening with her and Bob at their beautiful Armstrong's Point home. Deepest condolences to the family.

Caroline Gosden (nee Stallwood)

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

During my early childhood, my Aunt Jean was a glamorous but sporadic visitor, we lived in England, she in Canada. It wasn't until I was about 17 that I really got an insight into my Aunt's remarkable character when I went to stay with her for a couple of weeks.  She took me to a drama camp she was teaching on for a few days.  On returning home to Winnipeg, we discovered there had been a power cut and all the food in her freezer had defrosted.  So as not to waste the steak, we ate it that night but she insisted I drank several glasses of red wine as that would 'sort out any bugs that might be on the steak'. Now I'm not saying that all my meetings with Jean were alcohol fuelled, but  another occassion that made an impression on me was when my husband Wayne and I collected Jean & Bob from the airport on one of their trips to England.  We took them to their B & B and they offered us a drink.  However, all they had was whiskey which Jean insisted we drank despite our protestations that we both hated the stuff! That was Jean, she had a way of persuading you to do things, she was a force of nature who left an indelible impression on everyone she met. On her last few visits to England I remember with amusement, how the entire Stallwood family would be galvanised into action, planning with almost military precision to make her stay enjoyable and fulfilling .  She was after all, our Matriarch, a title that was thrust upon her in her latter years but one that I believe she secretly rather enjoyed.  My encounters with my Aunt may have been infrequent but there was always laughter and affection.  Farewell Matriach, you will be much missed.❤

Amy Heath

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I only met my Aunty Jean a handful of times, but always remember hearing about her and knew she lived far away in Canada which always seemed very exciting to me.  Her husband Uncle Bob was my Godfather and I still have the gold maple leaf necklace they game me for my christening.  Aunty Jean always sent me presents from Canada often native american items.  I believe it was down to my her that we grew up listening to Raffi, which we all loved.  I still have the cassette tapes that she sent and play them to my children still. My thoughts are with my cousin Penny and my dad Peter. Amy Heath (nee Stallwood)

Elena Grinshteyn

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I knew Jean for 14 years. It was an amazing friendship. When we met, Jean offered me some pronunciation classes to improve my blended Russian accent. After a couple of lessons, I was completely in love with this amazing lady and all she represents. We had lots of fun and many extraordinary conversations during those fantastic years that I will truly miss.  Farewell, my Royalty, love you. 

Andrew Clarke

September 25, 2024 at 7:32 PM

I will always cherish the long Sundays and wonderful dinners with our family at Jean's house in Edmonton. A wonderful lady that I was very pleased I got to know.  Say hi to Dad.  Andrew Clarke
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