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Abe Thiessen

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ABRAM "ABE" THIESSEN

October 12, 1940 - November 23, 2019

On November 23, 2019, Abram (Abe) Thiessen, age 79, passed away peacefully at the Actionmarguerite personal care home in St. Boniface.

 

Abe was born in Stanley Municipality, south of Winkler, on Saturday, October 12, 1940 to Agatha Thiessen (nee Sawatzky) and Jacob Thiessen. Abe is survived by his loving wife, Bonnie Ellen Thiessen (nee Timbers), his children: Ruth Ellen (Kamal Pandya), Mark Thiessen (Carol, nee Enquist) and Karen Boily (Carole Boily), grandchildren: Blair Thiessen (Meaghan Wylie), Sarah Thiessen (Bobby/Rob Eames), Simon Boily and Julien Boily and one great-grandchild (Blake Wylie). He is also survived by two brothers and two sisters, and numerous nieces and nephews. He was pre-deceased by three sisters and a brother who died in infancy.

 

Abe was strong and energetic; he grew up working on the family farm south of Winkler and, from the age of nine, he worked full-time hoeing sugar beets and harvesting other crops every summer.  Fortunately, he was also gifted intellectually and his teacher, Frank F. Enns, encouraged his family to honour this gift and allow him to complete high school. Abe followed his teacher’s example; he attended MCI in Gretna, MB, and then Normal School with financial support from the manager of the Winkler Credit Union, Henry F. Wiebe. After completing these studies, he taught at the Mason School, south of Morden for a year and then moved to the city where he spent the remainder of his career teaching at all levels in the Winnipeg School Division. At the same time, he continued to study part-time at the University of Manitoba and earned several degrees, with post-graduate studies in History. However, he never lost his love for the land, and, for many summers after he had completed his formal studies, he worked as a hail insurance adjuster.

 

His love of learning and hard work left an indelible stamp on many of those he taught. He had a genuine interest in students’ well-being and cared deeply for every one of them – those who were gifted and those who faced challenges alike. He connected with his students through countless hours of after school activities: running, skiing, bike repair and computer clubs, plus the traditional coaching of team sports as well as more focused one-on-one interactions. He had an intrinsic need to see people succeed and reach their potential.

 

Abe was a committed and loving husband to Bonnie for 57 years and had three children that he loved unconditionally. He encouraged both his wife and his children to be all they could be and viewed their successes and achievements as goals attained for the team. He put everything into insuring that each member of the family would succeed and live in a better world.

 

But, suddenly, in his early 50’s, Abe found that he had to stop teaching. At first, this was a puzzle but, gradually, we began to see his struggles. Still, for some time, we did not recognize his symptoms as dementia. How could this happen to such a mental giant? Well, it can, and it did! Eventually, he was assessed and diagnosed with Alzheimer Disease, a truly devastating disease. Undeterred, Abe capitalized on his physical prowess and, after moving to Vancouver Island, he took up hiking. He loved the woods and was known for removing a wide-spread invasive species by ”broom bashing” along the trails. He and Bonnie were Park Wardens at Neck Point Park and Abe, together with help from their hiking group, virtually rid the area of invasive broom and daphne laurel. The fruits of those efforts are still evident today. All told, he struggled with ongoing deterioration for 26 years. In spite of this, he left an incredible legacy by always making the very best of difficult circumstances. Abe will always be remembered for his zest for life and the quarterbacking all things positive. Who he was will truly be missed!

 

The family would like to thank the staff at Actionmarguerite (St Boniface), on 5AB, for their dedicated and comforting care throughout Abe’s last few years.

 

A celebration of Abe's life will be held at 1:00 p,m.. Friday, December 13, 2019 in the First Unitarian Universalist Church of Winnipeg, 603 Wellington Cres., Winnipeg, MB.

 

In lieu flowers, donations may be made to the Rossbrook House Foundation, the Alzheimer Society of Manitoba, or a charity of your choice.

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Pietro and Melanie Abela

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Hello Bonnie, We only knew Abe through you. Your devotion towards Abe ,his well-being and your love for him always shone through. Melanie and I send our love to you at this sad time. 

Bonnie Thiessen

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

He was a great fellow and a wonderful teacher. I still remember sitting at the Apple computer we had in the classroom … the only one! … as we all tried to figure it out. And play Carmen San Diego. Rosemary (Rosie) Barton - shared with permission

Jacinta Barchet

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Bonnie I vividly remember Mr. Thiessen. He taught me and my 3 brothers. I was young and fairly new to Canada but his kindness was evident because my siblings and I remember him well many years later. May you and your family experience peace.

Kay

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Thank you for sharing Abe’s story here. It has been a very long journey for both of you and I truly appreciate your willingness to include me in a piece of that. Thinking of you and lighting a candle on your behalf.

Esmat Elhami

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

What a beautiful and enriched life! I never met Abe, but I feel I know him through you, Bonnie. Thank you for sharing his life story and legacy. May his loving memories live on. Thinking of you and your families with love and care. Esmat

Mary Warmbrod

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Bonnie, Thank you for sharing the photos of Abe with you & family members. I was able to see how you two fit together in various activities & other people who were part of your lives. I was pleased to see the various adventures you two had together. My wish is that he could have lived longer in better health so you two could have done more exploring & sharing of caring for others.I like the classroom background as a reminder of his teaching. I offer you hugs whenever you want them. Mary Warmbrod

susie nel piad

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Thank you Bonnie, for  giving me the chance to know Abe and to be with him in his fight with Alzheimer’s.  Unknown to you and to Abe, I have learned many lessons from him. One of which,  and the most important of all, is to understand behavior and know how to intervene without having to call code white.  He was an instrument to who I am to my residents and to my continuous quest in finding better approaches to caring for people with dementia.    With all my love,  Sue

Glen Timbers

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Thank you for sharing this with me Bonnie. Reading it triggered memories of times spent the together. I'll never forget Abe's smile, happiness and energy. I was very honour to have been able to spend time with Abe and you & family. Much love, Glen

Jo-Ann Svensson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Bonnie. I didnt know Abe, meeting him only once, briefly, in Nanaimo. But I know you. Your compassion, intelligence and love of life had to have been matched by your partner, you were a team. As you are a beacon of light, I know Abe was too... my thoughts and my love to you and your family. May we all be sung home by someone like you. Jo-Ann

Lynne Laidlaw

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Gary remembers Abe loved his woodworking while in Nanaimo and was always excited to show us what he had done. Always smiling, a gentle giant! Love Lynne and Gary

Charlotte Cowtan

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Bonnie,I’m sorry I never had a chance to know Abe - but am so glad you have given the gift of this photo display and obituary. What a wonderful man you chose to spend your life with! I know the last many years have been difficult, but somehow you have managed to keep the ‘real’ Abe alive for you and your family - and now for me and others who didn’t have the chance to know him as he was. Thank you for this wonderful gift! Know that my heart and prayers are with you and yours, and that if you ever want company in the difficult days ahead, I’d be honoured to be with you. Faithfully, Charlotte

Sandra Drosdowech

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

What an amazing life he lived! And wonderfully written,  Bonnie, Our condolences to you and your family in this difficult time.  Norma and Sandra Drosdowech

Linda Epp

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

A beautiful tribute, Bonnie. A life well lived. 

Anne Gudmundson

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

I awoke this morning from a refreshing sleep, dreaming about Abe’s passing.  This poem came to mind while my eyes were still closed.  It felt peaceful.Anne Gudmundson_____________________________Tender is the night.  Abe’s soul ascends in light.Bonnie bows her head in prayer,While Grace infuses sight.

J. A. Suss

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

My condolences to your family. The slide show is beautiful and shows many lovely memories.  - With love from J. A. Süss

Deb Dunstan

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Bonnie ...... please accept my condolences on your loss of Abe.  

Jeanne Towle

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Hi Bonnie, I only know Abe through the beautiful stories you've shared.  I really love the video too.  May you and your family continue to go a wandering carrying with you these amazing memories... ❤

Helen Zielinski

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Bonnie,  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I never met Abe but he sounds like a loving compassionate husband and father.  My heart and prayers are with you .  Wishing you peace, strength and courage as you move forward.  Hugs,  Helen

Sheilah Redekop

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Bonnie Thiessen  Hi Bonnie I’d like to tell you about my experience with Abe. It took place at the library in 2012 when we were all there listening to Carmen Aguirre talk about her book.  At the time I hadn’t realized that the two of you were living with Alzheimer’s.  What I did notice was that he was not talking but had a very pleasant expression on his face. What I also noticed was how gentle he seemed and how lovingly he looked at you while we were talking.    His verbal conversation abilities may have been gone at that time, but he was definitely able to communicate how he felt about you. ❤

Donna Fillingham

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Dear Bonnie, On behalf of the Singing You Home Comfort Choir, please accept our sincere sympathy as you grieve Abram's passing. It was such an honour for us to sing to Abe over the past couple of years and especially on the Friday morning before he died. It felt very peaceful that morning to be a part of Abram's journey along with you, your daughter and granddaughter. One of our songs speaks of courage, peace, joy and strength. That is our wish for you and your family. Blessings, Donna Fillingham

Debby Lake

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

It was so much fun playing crokinole with Abe a few years ago--his skill and pleasure at winning were delightful! It is so kind of you, Bonnie, to share your stories and photos: these, and the other memories recorded here, are a lovely tribute to this wonderful man. You and Abe have taught us so much through your spiritual and compassionate approach to living with Alzheimer Disease. Thank you.

Mark Thiessen

September 25, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Passing of the Patriarch My Dad had been sidelined for the last 5 years due to the horrible and debilitating effects of Alzheimer’s Disease. His digression can be traced back much further to its origin, but it has been a clear 5 years since we could converse with the man we knew. His passing on November 23rd allowed me to leave the mindset of watching him disintegrate and to reflect on the person he was and what he did for me. I had been watching him in the care home praying he would die. When it did finally happen it hurt, but that is being replaced with an ability to overlook the past 5 years and only remember the time prior. My Dad was a teacher, a coach, a shepherd and absolutely an optimist! I have ran into so many successful people who were taught by my Dad and told me they never would have reached the heights they did without Abe Thiessen! He had an intrinsic need to help the underdog, to shelter people from harm and to vigorously support all things positive. The most favourable outcome was his goal throughout his life. My life growing up felt very different than other kids my age. My peers never seemed to write as many exams, quizzes and Mensa tests as I did which were always peppered with a regular supply of flash card exercises, speed drills and the like. I also never saw anyone else’s father have so few friends. My Dad invested in the family, in my Mom and all 3 of us children. Even when he wasn’t noticeably teaching or getting us to learn, he was, insidiously sneaking in lessons the entire time. I realize now that his service to others was pretty much his sole objective. Aside from showing me how to learn, he taught me how to act. He taught me integrity, caring, honestly and ethics. There I was just trying to be a kid and ride my bike and things. All along he was instilling life lessons innocuously and directing the fabric of how one should be. At the time I didn’t really want to be learning anything but I thank him today for all the time he put into me and his guidance in making me the person that I am today. I will miss you incredibly but feel that I have the pre-disease person right here at my side. I’ll be okay. Thanks for for showing me the path, Dad!

Margaret and Bruce Tew

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

The Tuesday Hikers of Nanaimo remember Abe very fondly.

Bonnie

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

Abe’s ashes have been lovingly scattered in places, both in BC and Manitoba, that were special to him. Wacky Woods near Fanny Bay; Village Bay Lakes on Quadra Island; Neck Point Park in Nanaimo; by the Mennonite Collegiate Institute in Gretna; by the graves of his parents, grandparents and sister in the Blumenfeld Cemetery; and in the Assiniboine River. 

Bonnie Thiessen

September 25, 2024 at 7:31 PM

I was honoured to be at Abe’s bedside throughout his last three days and to sing him home as he passed. Many thanks to family and friends who supported me throughout this vigil.  And special gratitude to my daughter, Karen, who was with me much of this time.
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